LagFlex

u/LagFlex@lemmy.world
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Yard sale! Owner was desperately selling anything so I offered him 20$ for the thinkpad. He didn’t mind selling it to me for that price because he told me Windows wasn’t working. So I installed Linux onto it and it’s been working ever since 😸

My socks were more expensive 👀

Thank you for commenting, greatly appreciated. You are right about how I shouldn’t have feelings of jealousy for Bob and Izzy because I am over Izzy. So, this might sound a little confusing but this is how my one of my friends explained things to me. We have feelings, and then we have attitudes. My feelings for Izzy are completely diminished. I feel no romantic attraction towards her. Every other guy she has tried building a relationship with after Bob, I never had an issue with. She would vent to me about these guys and I would actively listen and give her advice when needed. My attitude is jealousy, envy, etc. It is not as bad as it was 2 years ago, but there is still some attitude from that time period. That was still present when she approached me about possibly rebounding with Bob which is why I became more defensive and I wanted to protect myself so I wouldn’t hurt her or myself. I really hope that made sense and it doesn’t confuse you.

Hey there, thanks for replying to my post. I appreciate your reply, and I should also note that some of my friends, and even my sister, have collectively told me I should stop being friends with Izzy. They have read the text messages and they have deemed her as emotionally manipulative. I am not even that worried of losing Izzy, but I will miss spending time with her siblings. They were awesome to me and even threw me a birthday party. But, I guess it will be a new opportunity to find a new partner with a new family. It will also help that I won't need to explain each time I go on a date that I am friends with my ex.

on What do you do for fun · c/asklemmy · 1 pts · 87d

I’m hip! When I’m alone with my thoughts I tend to become a lot more self aware about myself and my surroundings.

Thank you for your reply, that was extremely insightful and you helped me feel less insecure about myself. It's just clothes at the end of the day, it's all fabric at the end of the day. Maybe it is a kink!

I do feel like I escape the world a lot when I do dress up. It feels good, I never feel ashamed of dressing up just as long as it's in my own bedroom. I do not feel the need to do what I do in public, and that is okay and I am happy!

Thank you again, and thank you for everyone here for not judging me about this! I feel really good about myself and will continue to enjoy this hobby :)

Boot up a VM or flash it to a USB stick! Fuck around and find out ;)

My next project is making a 24/7 MC server for my friends using a thinkcentre or dell optiplex. I am thinking of just using Debian with a XFCE! Will def share that with my sox (0C0) UvU