Sorry to hear that. I know the feeling of being unfit to live. In the end, it is often more my environment or society that is unfit for me, than me being unfit for life. And your environment can change.
My boyfriend said "no". When I asked him why, he said "Because you are a worm." I acted very offended (which I really wasn't) and I told him that I would love him if he was a worm. He said I was lying, which was true.
We just thought it was very funny and both knew it was a joke. If this is a serious question from someone, then you have a problem I think. That would be ridiculous and immature. It is probably best not to answer then but to ask the question back. Then the person that asked the question has the problem, not you.
Never made mayonaise before. You made me curious how it is done. From this recipe, it seems very easy actually: https://receptenvanoma.nl/mayonaise-zelf-maken/. Might start making my own mayonaise as well.
Ik vind deze discussies ongelooflijk ingewikkeld altijd. Aan de ene kant steun ik maatregelen zoals gratis openbaar vervoer en ik zou ook willen dat er minder auto gereden wordt. Dat is o.a. veel beter voor het milieu.
Tegelijkertijd ben ik zelf afhankelijk van een auto omdat reizen met het OV niet kan vanwege mijn gezondheid. Ik had graag een electrische auto willen hebben, maar de aanschaf daarvan was te duur.
Eigenlijk alle regelgeving om rijden minder aantrekkelijk te maken raken mij ook, maar ik heb niet de mogelijkheid om een andere keuze te maken. Volgens mij zijn er veel meer mensen als ik, die gewoon de keuze niet hebben. Ik wou dat er naast het OV gratis maken, bijvoorbeeld, daar ook rekening mee gehouden werd.
Yes, that seems weird to me as well. For me there are several and often they even have discussions with each other. It is like a whole group with different voices that have different relationships to each other. I thought that was normal.
I do have CPTSD though from trauma very early in my youth. So, something might have gone wrong in my development with regards to this. Never thought this was not normal.
I mean, the voice is you, but you can still observe it. To me it seems that I consist of several parts that chat, often also with each other (and often they are fighting). I am all of them, but I do not continually consciously choose what they say, so I can observe them.
I think that is what is meant here. Or maybe I am just really weird.
I think you have to be evil to become a billionaire. Nobody by themselves contributes something to society that is worth billions. So they are taking more than they contribute and are apparently willing to do so and disadvantage other people. This is evil. That is why there are no good billionaires.
Also, if by some extreme coincidence you become a billionaire by accident and if you are a good person, you would give it away for the benefit of society. So then you would not be a billionaire anymore.
I don't know. This is the first time in my life I have ever heard about people smelling ants. I have a really good sense of smell normally, but I have never smelled ants. Never heard anybody say they could smell them either. So, I think it might be quite common.
No, most men are not murderers and will not just kill you. People like your father and brother are exceptions in how they behave. There are kind people out there who would never do a thing like that.
In some cases, people who are like your father or brother might feel that you are traumatised and used to that behaviour. So, if you encounter anyone acting like them, leave immediately. Kind people might feel not as familiar, but there are many of them and they might even help or protect you.
I feel for you. You deserve kindness and care. It is a good thing that you are a kind person and that you remained like that even with all you have been through. I hope you find an environment with people who are also like that where you can heal.
The way your family is, is not normal. And the way your life is right now, is not what life should be. And this is not your fault, but it is because of the environment you are in. And this can change.
Maybe you can get help from a domestic violence protection organisation to make sure you have a way to get away safely.
No chance at all
Definitely not
No, just no
It isn't
No
Without broodje hagelslag, this story is completely unbelievable. Broodje hagelslag is the cornerstone of Dutch culture.
Sorry to hear that. I know the feeling of being unfit to live. In the end, it is often more my environment or society that is unfit for me, than me being unfit for life. And your environment can change.
My boyfriend said "no". When I asked him why, he said "Because you are a worm." I acted very offended (which I really wasn't) and I told him that I would love him if he was a worm. He said I was lying, which was true.
We just thought it was very funny and both knew it was a joke. If this is a serious question from someone, then you have a problem I think. That would be ridiculous and immature. It is probably best not to answer then but to ask the question back. Then the person that asked the question has the problem, not you.
Hier in de winkel heb je Belgische mayo en "gewone" mayo. Belgische mayonaise is zuurder. Dat is volgens mij het verschil.
Never made mayonaise before. You made me curious how it is done. From this recipe, it seems very easy actually: https://receptenvanoma.nl/mayonaise-zelf-maken/. Might start making my own mayonaise as well.
Ik vind deze discussies ongelooflijk ingewikkeld altijd. Aan de ene kant steun ik maatregelen zoals gratis openbaar vervoer en ik zou ook willen dat er minder auto gereden wordt. Dat is o.a. veel beter voor het milieu.
Tegelijkertijd ben ik zelf afhankelijk van een auto omdat reizen met het OV niet kan vanwege mijn gezondheid. Ik had graag een electrische auto willen hebben, maar de aanschaf daarvan was te duur.
Eigenlijk alle regelgeving om rijden minder aantrekkelijk te maken raken mij ook, maar ik heb niet de mogelijkheid om een andere keuze te maken. Volgens mij zijn er veel meer mensen als ik, die gewoon de keuze niet hebben. Ik wou dat er naast het OV gratis maken, bijvoorbeeld, daar ook rekening mee gehouden werd.
Yes, that seems weird to me as well. For me there are several and often they even have discussions with each other. It is like a whole group with different voices that have different relationships to each other. I thought that was normal.
I do have CPTSD though from trauma very early in my youth. So, something might have gone wrong in my development with regards to this. Never thought this was not normal.
I mean, the voice is you, but you can still observe it. To me it seems that I consist of several parts that chat, often also with each other (and often they are fighting). I am all of them, but I do not continually consciously choose what they say, so I can observe them.
I think that is what is meant here. Or maybe I am just really weird.
It helps me a great deal with hyperalertness due to ptsd. Sometimes even for up to a week after I have used it.
I think you have to be evil to become a billionaire. Nobody by themselves contributes something to society that is worth billions. So they are taking more than they contribute and are apparently willing to do so and disadvantage other people. This is evil. That is why there are no good billionaires.
Also, if by some extreme coincidence you become a billionaire by accident and if you are a good person, you would give it away for the benefit of society. So then you would not be a billionaire anymore.
Gestemd!
Ja, ik ook. Gehad heb ik niet de praktische kennis om te helpen, maar ik zou een kleine donatie kunnen doen.
Cool. Another Dutch girl here. Hallo!
I don't know. This is the first time in my life I have ever heard about people smelling ants. I have a really good sense of smell normally, but I have never smelled ants. Never heard anybody say they could smell them either. So, I think it might be quite common.
No, most men are not murderers and will not just kill you. People like your father and brother are exceptions in how they behave. There are kind people out there who would never do a thing like that.
In some cases, people who are like your father or brother might feel that you are traumatised and used to that behaviour. So, if you encounter anyone acting like them, leave immediately. Kind people might feel not as familiar, but there are many of them and they might even help or protect you.
I feel for you. You deserve kindness and care. It is a good thing that you are a kind person and that you remained like that even with all you have been through. I hope you find an environment with people who are also like that where you can heal.
The way your family is, is not normal. And the way your life is right now, is not what life should be. And this is not your fault, but it is because of the environment you are in. And this can change.
Maybe you can get help from a domestic violence protection organisation to make sure you have a way to get away safely.