Maybe try getting into your local BDSM scene first. Visit a local munch, get to know people. Really get to know them. Don't just go in there expecting to find someone to fuck.
If you find enough friends you are bound to get to know someone who works in the industry.
The scene is small. Really don't be a creep. Just a normal guy with a normal life and interests besides aspiring to be the next great fucktoy.
BDSM is a vaaaaast field. And most people practising BDSM are only interested in a small portion. The acronym alone, despite only having four letters, encompasses six different aspects and any one person could only be interested in one aspect or even none. They are Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission and Sadism and Masochism.
See the lack of references to black leather clothes or petplay in the list?
I think for a beginner the best entry is to register on Fetlife, go to events and look up a munch near you. There you could learn that the people practising BDSM are just normal people. And they could tell you about the specific things you are interested in.
That's the thing though. You don't just want anybody to hold your dildo. It takes a special person to perfectly encapsulate the essence of being a mere inanimate object designed for you and your pleasure alone.
I posted them here.
Literally. That was a photoshoot by an artist to get references for drawings.
::: spoiler Tying people up or getting tied up.
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There's so much you can do to connect with someone, even with clothes on.
To direct people who find it on whatever site back to the source. It's an ad.
I'd lift you up, queen!
I mean, it'll be much harder for you to run away if you are strung up 3 feet from the ground.
What is your favourite dinosaur? And how would you fuck it?
Maybe try getting into your local BDSM scene first. Visit a local munch, get to know people. Really get to know them. Don't just go in there expecting to find someone to fuck.
If you find enough friends you are bound to get to know someone who works in the industry.
The scene is small. Really don't be a creep. Just a normal guy with a normal life and interests besides aspiring to be the next great fucktoy.
BDSM is a vaaaaast field. And most people practising BDSM are only interested in a small portion. The acronym alone, despite only having four letters, encompasses six different aspects and any one person could only be interested in one aspect or even none. They are Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission and Sadism and Masochism.
See the lack of references to black leather clothes or petplay in the list?
I think for a beginner the best entry is to register on Fetlife, go to events and look up a munch near you. There you could learn that the people practising BDSM are just normal people. And they could tell you about the specific things you are interested in.
Pics or it didn't happen.
Wouldn't a swinger club offer what you're looking for?
This
Nah, that's not it. I jerk off maybe once a month or so. I think that's below average.
Ever been to a BDSM party? Half the people there are in IT. The other half in medicine. Every other profession is an outlier.
How many sharpies can you fit?
That's the thing though. You don't just want anybody to hold your dildo. It takes a special person to perfectly encapsulate the essence of being a mere inanimate object designed for you and your pleasure alone.
Preferably I'd get a slave to hold it steady.
I literally dommed a girl while wearing Crocs. At first she laughed. But by the end she was wearing them for comfort.
My wife flashing me when we're alone for a moment.
Probably mostly depends on your local community. I early on made the decision to only friend people I've met in real life.
Women probably still have it bad until they blocked half the site.