Dave

u/davetapley@lemmy.world
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Smacks of all the talk of "closing the border". Like, okay, so no one and nothing is coming in or out of the USA, is that what you want?

"of course not"

Okay you need a border, with staff, right?

"yes to keep the bad guys out"

Okay so you understand people aren't perfect and some times the bad guys will get in?

"that's why we need to close the border!!"

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A bit meta: That people who were wrong or mistaken about something just needed it explaining more clearly, and then they would stop saying things which are wrong or mistaken.

I wasted far too many years of my life trying to convince father-in-law of so many things, only to realize there is nothing that can be said to disabuse him. The problem wasn't the lack of facts or clarity of explanation, it's that he is fundamentally incapable of acquiring new information if it's inconsistent with his prior understanding or belief.

Moreover I realized that where I am ashamed of being inaccurate or uneducated about something (and so am keen to correct myself), for him it's always the case that I must be wrong or mistaken, because he can never be wrong or mistaken.