Sounds like she's all over the place, which is not unusual at her age (and regardless of gender). 23 is only the very beginning of breaking out of whatever kind of toxicity a person grew up in and I could hazard a few guesses from the part about chasing jerks. It's hard when you have a good time and you can see the possibilities for the relationship but they're out of reach. You have to work with who she is and what you have right now though. You have to work with reality.
I get it about the overthinking. But she doesn't know what she wants so she doesn't have any signals or messages to interpret. It's all static and noise.
I'd recommend gently detaching yourself from her, you might not need to stop being friends but do stop being the kind of friends that go inside each others' places (so she doesn't steal your hoodies), or get drunk around each other. Yes she may not like this and may not want to be friends anymore and you may also lose the rest of the friend group. It sucks, it happens, but good thing is there are lots more cool people in the world.
I like to do the one where people say a word ending in an "er" sound (or that could end in that sound) and say "[word]? I don't even know her!" My worst (best) one recently was when someone said Toyota...
I suspect they have been tweaking the front page algorithms to bury niche posts. Niche subs that I already follow don't seem to have changed, but r/popular and r/all have definitely lost their spark.
I recommend reading The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. It's available for free at archive.org. It describes how predators work and how regular people can stay safe from them.
Sounds like she's all over the place, which is not unusual at her age (and regardless of gender). 23 is only the very beginning of breaking out of whatever kind of toxicity a person grew up in and I could hazard a few guesses from the part about chasing jerks. It's hard when you have a good time and you can see the possibilities for the relationship but they're out of reach. You have to work with who she is and what you have right now though. You have to work with reality.
I get it about the overthinking. But she doesn't know what she wants so she doesn't have any signals or messages to interpret. It's all static and noise.
I'd recommend gently detaching yourself from her, you might not need to stop being friends but do stop being the kind of friends that go inside each others' places (so she doesn't steal your hoodies), or get drunk around each other. Yes she may not like this and may not want to be friends anymore and you may also lose the rest of the friend group. It sucks, it happens, but good thing is there are lots more cool people in the world.
I don't know about ViolentMonkey (sounds like a TamperMonkey variant?) but I use Stylus and yes it does the same things as TamperMonkey.
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Poc-er-hontas? I don't even know her Hontas!
I like to do the one where people say a word ending in an "er" sound (or that could end in that sound) and say "[word]? I don't even know her!" My worst (best) one recently was when someone said Toyota...
Toyoter? I don't even know her!
Accelerationists in shambles.
(I wish. Their heads are quite thick.)
But in seriousness, love your stuff PugJesus. I follow you specifically so I can keep up with your posts.
Agreed, most every nation has survived horrible things and quite a few have done horrible things. It's not just the US.
In my mind this is 100% your legacy, you're welcome 😁
I looked at OP's history and have discovered a treasure trove of moth memes. Love it.
More wagons!
Ugh I would struggle to keep a straight face.
Yep and he doesn't have anything that we all don't have. All matter exerts gravitational pull.
It's adorable 😍
I chuckled... it happens! And it blessed us with this funny exchange.
A single vote cannot convey my interest in this idea.
I suspect they have been tweaking the front page algorithms to bury niche posts. Niche subs that I already follow don't seem to have changed, but r/popular and r/all have definitely lost their spark.
Oh that is really, really good. Filing it away.
That's the exciting part, we don't!
I recommend reading The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. It's available for free at archive.org. It describes how predators work and how regular people can stay safe from them.
I see, short term rentals are a different situation.