teruma

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That's why it's so important to specify that men are victims of patriarchy, not victims of men. Everyone, regardless of gender, has an environmental tendency to reinforce the societal structure that we label "Patriarchy", as you say (and I/many agree), but there's far more to it than the idea of "men first women second". The idea behind the phrase is not "everyone vs. men" but rather "everyone vs. harmful but deeply engrained social construct".

Protein shake additives are what helped me add variety. Tea/matcha/coffee, chocolate, yoghurt, or even just a pinch of salt. I never had the opportunity to try but I bet freezedried fruits would be tasty to add, too!

on Dreams of cheese · c/memes · 2 pts · 2y

I like bleu cheese. Babybel is right on the money, though. Sometimes those little paper pull tabs arent exposed and then its a huge pain to get the wax off.

on *Permanently Deleted* · c/asklemmy · 11 pts · 2y

Yeah, don't do this, especially with your boss. All he's gonna hear is "I'm shitting on this nice thing you're trying to do."

My spouse is also a mega-powerhouse in our relationship. She's excellent and picks up chores when I ask or need healthcare. I have health issues, and she attends appointments and procedures, and does extensive post procedure caretaking. My income is the primary income, while she does environmental preservation work that she's crazy passionate about (which does bring in an income, she's not working for free). No kids, but two cats. Our home is always a work in progress, but there's one or two spaces I'd consider amateur magazine worthy, the kitchen and the loft. Sex is divine and of a frequency we both prefer, which is less than the stereotypical average. We are both happy and fulfilled, aside from the expected stress that comes from American politics. Together 13 years.

on Just a tiny bit spicy · c/memes · 5 pts · 2y

My favorite way to order from indian places is "not spicy for child" because otherwise mild is too spicy for me. 🙃