tiedigger

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It really depends but if my partner pulls me close and scratches my back that's kinda hot.

Otherwise if cavorting/rollicken around gets physical accidents happen so I tolerate that but I am not a huge fan of other painful stuff

Well yeah but it can be a lot more like forced or unpleasant/awkward positions. Or being "manhandled" or better being made aware of being bodily inferior. Or having to wear stuff that reduces your body functions like Chasity cages/belts or beeing collared in public. That's just from the top of my head like I said humiliation is pretty personal so what isn't humiliating for one person can be very humiliating for someone else.

Hm I mean it is alot about what my partner finds ok and what is not against the law.

Humiliation for example is not necessarily verbal and can be very much physical too. Physical humiliation is often a lot more mood dependent than verbal humiliation.

Mostly I just dont like screaming at someone in a session because it agitats me which I dislike. For words the self I don't rly have a no-go list.

For likes I kinda like fucktoy because it's short and kinda easy to use.

Hm in general and to be very unspecific (so wrong) I would just describe it as intimacy in this context.

But emotional pleasure is a pretty wide field. For example gratitude is a form of emotional pleasure for the giving and receiving person. It is emotionally pleasing to be grateful as is to get regococnition.

For your initial example your partner could get sexual pleasure but you get emotional pleasure from the regognition. However it could also be your self image of a reliable partner

I mean that also very much depends on context. If you would ask me that at a job meeting I would be weirded out. In privat if we know each other or in a club it would not be a big deal.

Well I like to let my sub orgasm till they are far gone due to it, because I like the control which turns me on. On the other hand I like to ruine orgasms also. It depends a lot on the sub.

But I also like the intimacy of just pleasuring them. I think the question is very restricting because there are folks that don't get sexual but emotional pleasure from sex in general