On a date date? As in going somewhere together, on a planned outing.
I suppose the weirdest that ever got was a lady that specifically wanted to go to McDonald's. I had a reservation at this nice greek place, but she wanted that salty crap instead lol.
Welllll, now that I think of it, one of the girls I dated in high school did go a little weirder.
We were out in the woods, just walking. She starts laughing like crazy and says it's like a slasher movie, what with it creeping close to evening and things getting darkish.
She gets a grin on her face and says "chase me", and takes off running.
A few seconds later, I've caught up because longer legs. She starts laughing again, and we finish walking.
She was legit a weird girl across the board. Don't even ask about the sex.
She said it was a little thrilling, the rush of controlled fear from being chased a little. Not as much as she had thought it would be, but she didn't get far ahead, so maybe it would have been different if I had played it out. But she didn't want to do it again because the impulse was gone.
As a pansexual BDSM bottom I'm always looking for weird things. The thing that stuck out the most to me was the girl that wanted me to kill her. I did not oblige. We were very drunk.
I met both mother and father once. They were both pretty chill, none of that "if you hurt my daughter..." stuff (we were both early 30's), but it was definitely a bit weird.
It could just be me and my type, but people tend to be a bit more relaxed with trying hiding their individual quirks. There's also less of trying to impress with looks and more investing in finding people who more share common interests.
Tbh it's what she didn't ask for that I thought was weird. That's be anything. Everything was up to me. She wouldn't display hardly any of her own personal preferences. She was like a blank slate girlfriend.
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southsamurai@sh.itjust.works · 37 pts · 2y
On a date date? As in going somewhere together, on a planned outing.
I suppose the weirdest that ever got was a lady that specifically wanted to go to McDonald's. I had a reservation at this nice greek place, but she wanted that salty crap instead lol.
Welllll, now that I think of it, one of the girls I dated in high school did go a little weirder.
We were out in the woods, just walking. She starts laughing like crazy and says it's like a slasher movie, what with it creeping close to evening and things getting darkish.
She gets a grin on her face and says "chase me", and takes off running.
A few seconds later, I've caught up because longer legs. She starts laughing again, and we finish walking.
She was legit a weird girl across the board. Don't even ask about the sex.
She said it was a little thrilling, the rush of controlled fear from being chased a little. Not as much as she had thought it would be, but she didn't get far ahead, so maybe it would have been different if I had played it out. But she didn't want to do it again because the impulse was gone.
dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com · 33 pts · 2y
I'm 100% asking about the sex.
phoenixz@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 2y
Seconded!
EsteemedRectangle@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
How was the sex?
lazyneet@programming.dev · 16 pts · 2y
As a pansexual BDSM bottom I'm always looking for weird things. The thing that stuck out the most to me was the girl that wanted me to kill her. I did not oblige. We were very drunk.
Mononoke@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 2y
Ha ha although if we are talking about just tools to use, it could be interesting !
LowtierComputer@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 2y
Meet their mom on the first date.
EtherWhack@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 2y
I met both mother and father once. They were both pretty chill, none of that "if you hurt my daughter..." stuff (we were both early 30's), but it was definitely a bit weird.
LowtierComputer@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
How was dating in your 30s?
EtherWhack@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
It could just be me and my type, but people tend to be a bit more relaxed with trying hiding their individual quirks. There's also less of trying to impress with looks and more investing in finding people who more share common interests.
LowtierComputer@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 2y
The best dates I've had were with people who were comfortable with themselves and happy to talk about their interests.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 2y
Not on a date but the weirdest unsolicited proposition I ever got was $10 to:
"Slap me, knock me down, sit on my belly, tell me if I am fat or skinny, and smell my feet."
I thought it was worth more than $10 and also must suck so bad to have such a remarkably specific fetish.
pppromotions@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
It's surprising how they're all themes of being dominated until 'smell my feet', a typically dominant act.
Cmack@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 2y
I had a girl ask me to eat my own cum.
Pollux@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 2y
It's often good! giggle
Cmack@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 2y
It really is.
Mango@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 2y
Tbh it's what she didn't ask for that I thought was weird. That's be anything. Everything was up to me. She wouldn't display hardly any of her own personal preferences. She was like a blank slate girlfriend.
I didn't really like that very much.