Like, I am transfemme enby, but I have had the thought, "I want to be in a lesbian relationship." I am still trying to figure what my mind meant by that...

Advice or just thoughts would be welcome.

haileyscommit@kbin.earth · 4 pts · 1y (1 reply)

That's the fun part about being nonbinary (or trans in general), none of this gender shit binds you. You can just be a lesbian if you want!

(the hard part is if you're not attracted to women*...)

mxcory@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 1y

(the hard part is if you're not attracted to women*...)

lol

amino@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y (2 replies)

if you're seriously asking, it probably just means that you're a lesbian

mxcory@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I really was being serious.

I have been ½ jokingly telling myself that I better not figure out anything else about myself.

I am just trying to figure out what that means to myself. I know it is for me to figure out, but I still like external thoughts.

amino@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y

OK, the reason I was asking was because it's really that simple, not because you're being silly

GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 1y

Same, but with guys.

MegaMichelle@a2mi.social · 2 pts · 1y

@haileyscommit

Same. I'd get excited because I would find out a girl I like is gay. My friends would be like "but you know that means she won't date you, right?" And I'd get confused. Oh yeah, why was this exciting to me??? 🤔