Do I think my lack of interest in masturbation makes it hard to get off? Yes, absolutely.
More successful masturbation isn’t really what I’m looking for though, like I can do it just fine but it’s wildly unfulfilling, takes some prep, and just makes me feel dull and empty. I’m more interested in a dynamic with another living soul that I find attractive and thinks I’m attractive.
Well I started so early, 6 or 7 so can't be sure but as an adult -
I had to have a cervix surgery and the doctor said no O for 6 weeks to let it heal. My body did not agree, after about 3 weeks I started having dreams of sex and would cum in them. So I am going to say 3 weeks.
Few guys go more than a day or 2 before at least jerking off. It takes little time. Makes you feel good and refreshed. Having a bit of tension. A good jerking off shooting nice long streams of cum will definitely calm you down
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FetishBoothNumber7@lemmynsfw.com · 14 pts · 1y
Between masturbation doing nothing for me, and cascading failures in my social life, i’m going on almost a full year now.
Ready to die any day 😮💨 🤞
therobit@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 1y
JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 1y
Are/were you on HRT?
FetishBoothNumber7@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 1y
Yeah but hrt has nothing to do with it, can cum just fine, masturbation just doesn’t get me off / turn me on.
JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 1y
I see, but you don't think that that could itself contribute to the lack of stimulation from it? Honestly just asking.
FetishBoothNumber7@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 1y
Do I think my lack of interest in masturbation makes it hard to get off? Yes, absolutely.
More successful masturbation isn’t really what I’m looking for though, like I can do it just fine but it’s wildly unfulfilling, takes some prep, and just makes me feel dull and empty. I’m more interested in a dynamic with another living soul that I find attractive and thinks I’m attractive.
Deathray5@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 359d
Yeah did you have a dip in horniness a few weeks/months after starting HRT and after that you had this issue
FetishBoothNumber7@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 357d
Nope. Libido was on the floor before, functionally asexual, post hrt my libido went through the roof. 7 years later it’s still sky high.
“This issue” is a dirth of positive social encounters, not my libido.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 10 pts · 1y
Well I started so early, 6 or 7 so can't be sure but as an adult -
I had to have a cervix surgery and the doctor said no O for 6 weeks to let it heal. My body did not agree, after about 3 weeks I started having dreams of sex and would cum in them. So I am going to say 3 weeks.
Kolanaki@pawb.social · 9 pts · 1y
A whole week because I was on a bus from NYC back home to California and the first day of the journey, some tweaker destroyed the bathroom.
When I finally got to jork it, I came like a whole pint.
toomanypancakes@piefed.world · 8 pts · 1y
A couple of years, started when my depression peaked and continued until I finally was able to get my total dickectomy.
Fortunately, not nearly such a problem these days ;)
SmuttyLad@lemmynsfw.com · 7 pts · 1y
Probably about two months?
From starting to date my first GF until she took my virginity.
MyDarkestTimeline01@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 1y
Clarification: do wet dreams count?
SmuttyLad@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
Idk, I suppose it would if you came, no?
MyDarkestTimeline01@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
Then; since I've been 12 no longer than 30-35 days.
ProfessorPenetrator@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
96 days. Locktober rolled into NOvember into most of the way through December haha.
Mickey7@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Few guys go more than a day or 2 before at least jerking off. It takes little time. Makes you feel good and refreshed. Having a bit of tension. A good jerking off shooting nice long streams of cum will definitely calm you down