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c/asklemmynsfw · by Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 278d

AMA 44 F UK NSFW

Divorced, single mum, white collar professional

I'll answer any interesting queries you may have.

19 points · 66 comments · view on lemmy.world

66 Comments

Mickey7@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 278d (9 replies)

Based on the description that you gave us - Have you ever fucked or blown a guy while at the office?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 9 pts · 278d (8 replies)

I have given my boss oral

Thrower@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 277d (4 replies)

Out of curiosity, did that have positive or negative consequences?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 277d (3 replies)

In what sense?

Thrower@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d (2 replies)

I mean sex with the boss can get you promoted and can get you in trouble with hr. It can make you known as the office slut.

Did people find out? How was the reaction? How did it came to it? How was the relationship with him afterwards?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 277d (1 reply)

He's the owner so hr isn't an issue.

I know a couple of other girls did it over the years.

No one's made a big deal of it.

Thrower@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d

Mhm lucky guy, I guess.

cockdrip@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 278d (2 replies)
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Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 278d (1 reply)

Thank you

cockdrip@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 278d
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ICCrawler@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 278d (7 replies)

Truthfully, the white collar bit has me more interested than anything given such a world is much more removed and distant from my life than the NSFW stuff.

  1. You got a kid or kids, how much do you intend to help them with money? Like, would you take care of them without question even if they didn't or couldn't work? Or do you demand of them to go out into the world and make their own fortunes with limited help? No help? Etc.

  2. I guess in rolling with the NSFW theme here, as someone who can live the white collar life and presumably socialize within it, how often do you think men are really banging their maids versus the porn trope it's made out to be?

  3. What is your single most expensive possession that isn't a vehicle, house, or kid?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 7 pts · 278d (6 replies)

  1. I have 2 sons, high school age. I live in a country where university tuition is free so that's something I don't have to worry about for them. They're both fairly motivated academically and are quite sporty so I don't worry about them not getting on in life in that sense. I will help them financially as much as I can in terms of a deposit to buy property but it's not a case that I have vast sums of money sitting around ready to be handed out.

  2. The only difference between a faithful man and an unfaithful one is opportunity. I've been to enough conferences and stayed in enough hotels to know that.

  3. I have two nice watches but they were gifts. Things which I've bought myself would be clothes and bags.

RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 278d (5 replies)

2 is pretty cynical. Can't blame you...but yikes.

cherry001@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 277d (4 replies)

It's not cynical, it's contempt, to be honest.

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 277d (3 replies)

True

thisIsaSuperPrivate@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 277d (2 replies)

I used to cheat. A LOT.

But, I found my lady, the real one, and I've passed that test many times now. It can happen, don't think it can't.

Part of it is total honesty with her, and with myself.

I'm smitten after 16 years together and many a fine ass has failed to lure me.

RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 275d (1 reply)

I'd not go into marriage if I knew I was going to be fucking someone else without her consent.

TL;DR just have alot of friends with benefits, don't lie and cheat

thisIsaSuperPrivate@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 275d

Agree. All extra curricular fucking is concentual. Always together.

AdditionalIsland@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 278d (3 replies)

  1. Would you try and hook up with someone from the the option was there?

  2. Do you post photos online (anonymous or not)?

  3. What's your favorite way to cum this month?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 7 pts · 278d (2 replies)

1 I don't understand the question

2 no

3 masturbating in my car

monkeyman69@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 278d (1 reply)

3 has peaked my interest.

Is this for the getting caught thrill, or lack of other privacy?

I would be a watcher, for sure.

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 278d

Opportunity

StrangeBedfellow@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d (3 replies)
  1. Has your sex drive increased, decreased or stayed the same as you have aged?
  2. When you feel horny, does this (a) manifest itself in any physiological way, and (b) show exteriorly vis-a-vis others?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 277d (2 replies)

  1. That's a difficult question to answer. I wouldn't say that my desire for sex and intimacy has changed but the type of desire probably has significantly. If my sex life at aged 44 was the same as it was at 14, 24 or 34 it would indicate a problem.

  2. Do you mean erect nipples or vaginal discharge? Then yes I suppose forensically it does but I'm not in the habit of flashing my crotch.

StrangeBedfellow@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 277d (1 reply)

Hahaha, thank you for the answers! My first question stems more from my curiosity of how people see their own sexuality and drive over time. It isn't something that tends to come up in casual conversation in either my professional or personal circles. The second one could be other signs that you perceive as being indicative of your state of arousal, e.g. playing with your hair, wetting your lips or other visual cues, arching your back or assuming a specific posture, and not specifically adopting the "primate ready for mating" position 🤣

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 277d

I probably do play with my hair, look down, act shy

shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 278d (7 replies)
  1. How sensitive is your clit? Can it take direct and intense stimulation, does it take only light stimulation directly, or can you only stimulate it through the hood?
  2. Does your clitoris stick out outside the hood normally or does it stay inside?
  3. How big would you say your clitoris is?
  4. In what ways do you like your clitoris to be stimulated?
  5. When you are aroused, what happens to your clit?
  6. When you are having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it throb? Does it stay the same?
  7. After you’re are done having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it become sensitive, or does it stay the same?
  8. Are there any extra sensitive or less sensitive spots on your clitoris? Where?
  9. Have you ever injured or bruised your clit? How did that go?

As for orgasms:

  1. What does your standard orgasm feel like? How do you prefer to get there?
  2. Can you describe how the clitoral and the g-spot orgasm feel? (muscle tension, tingling sensations, etc.)
  3. Is it hard for you to reach multiple orgasms?
  4. Do multiple orgasms feel different than just one? How do they feel different?
  5. Is it possible to have too many and if so, what does that feel like?
  6. Is there a point where you have to "recharge" like men before you can have the next orgasm?
  7. Is it possible for you to stop your self from having an orgasm when you are having one?
  8. How have your orgasms changed with age
  9. How long are your orgasms?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 278d

Wow! That's a lot and it's very late here but I promise I'll answer tomorrow.

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d (5 replies)

Clitty

  1. it can take a good flicking

  2. covered

  3. small

  4. fingers and vibe

  5. gets a little erect

  6. pulses then tingles

  7. it's more sensitive for a while

  8. more sensitive around the base

  9. nope

Cummy

  1. a wave breaking, best with fingers

  2. pelvic floor tightens and I feel like a build up of pressure then it breaks and releases

  3. I can regularly have multiple

  4. become more intense

  5. yes, it begins to become painful and it's tiring

  6. yes, especially after a long session of penetration

  7. yes, but I don't like the feeling

  8. I relax into them more now

  9. from 5 seconds to 20-30 seconds, it's very situation dependant

shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 277d (4 replies)

Here are some more questions if you would like:

  1. Do you like oral?
  2. Do you prefer circles or back and forth stimulation?
  3. How long does it take for you to get off?
  4. If someone were to try to touch/rub your clit when you are not aroused, would it turn you on, hurt, or do nothing?
  5. When you have too many climaxes, does the pain center in your body or just the clit?
  6. How much time in between multiple orgasms?
  7. Can someone make you have a climax when you don’t want one (in a consensual BDSM situation)?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d (3 replies)

  1. yes

  2. it has to be a mixture

  3. entirely dependent on the situation

  4. it generally always feels pleasant so I suppose it would begin to arouse me

  5. it becomes exhaustive, full body

  6. situation dependent, could be a minute could be 10 minutes or anywhere in between

  7. yes

shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 277d (2 replies)
  1. Do G-spot climaxes differ from clit climaxes in sensation to you? If someone, how?
  2. What is the highest number of climaxes you have ever had in one sitting?
  3. If someone were to finger you while driving would you be able to get off?
  4. How many times are you aroused per day?
  5. Do you like nipple stimulation and if so, what does that feel like?
  6. Would you be ok with me PMing you with more questions?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 277d (1 reply)

  1. of course, more intense but harder to cum by

  2. I have no idea. 5? 6? 932? Why would anyone keep track of that? The male obsession with statistics is quite bizarre.

  3. no, that would be an utterly stupid thing to do.

  4. there's no way to answer that. Somewhere between once and all day.

  5. yeah, tickly and tingly.

  6. no.

Morfray@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 277d
  1. Nah, not agree. I keep hell of a track because a nice fuck with 2 climaxes differs so much from the deliciously exhausting "12 in a row" rodeo
shortwavesurfer@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 278d (1 reply)
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Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 7 pts · 278d
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monkeyman69@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 278d (2 replies)

Pink or brown?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 7 pts · 278d (1 reply)

Entirely dependent on the gentleman's equipment

monkeyman69@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 278d

Finally, it's my time to shine..

RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 278d (2 replies)

  1. Did you get less Libido than 15 years ago or more?

  2. Most unusual toy/way to mastrubate?

Man, this is boring to be honest.

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 278d (1 reply)

  1. more

  2. when I was very young I had a big marker pen that was my boyfriend for a couple of years 😂

RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 275d

Oh, ouch! Sorry you went through that. But it did a great job I guess?

HakunaHafada@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 3 pts · 277d (5 replies)

I have 2.

  1. What's your favorite food?
  2. How do you feel about men crossing gender boundaries such as wearing skirts and dresses, makeup, etc.?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d (4 replies)

  1. Monkfish curry

  2. I really don't care what someone else likes doing

HakunaHafada@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 277d (3 replies)

Thanks for doing this AMA!

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d (2 replies)

No problem, it's interesting to see what people are curious about.

Thank you all for engaging.

You can ask anything.

HakunaHafada@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 277d (1 reply)

I have a few more:

  1. If you had to live in a country that isn't the UK, where would you choose and why?
  2. What did you have for dinner tonight?
  3. What's your favorite holiday?
  4. Do you have any piercings or tattoos?
  5. What is your favorite movie that doesn't feature superheroes?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d

  1. Norway for the skiing

  2. mac'n'cheese with broccoli

  3. Amsterdam has always been fun

  4. no tattoos, ears pierced, I had a nipple pierced when I was younger but I took it out years ago

  5. lol none of my favourite movies feature superheroes. One flew over the cuckoo's nest,

daggermoon@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 277d (1 reply)

Here's four random questions:

  1. Do you like marmite?
  2. What's your favorite animal that can be found near you?
  3. Would you be down to peg a guy?
  4. What's your favorite book?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d

  1. I'm indifferent towards it.

  2. I love watching the dolphins.

  3. it's not something that turns me on but never say never, I'm not against the idea but not particularly stimulated by it.

  4. The Barrytown trilogy and spin offs.

deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 278d (1 reply)

Can I eat your jammy dodger

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 278d

We can share

AVeryOriginalThrowAway@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 277d (1 reply)

What is your take on the foreign diplomacy camps of liberalism, neo-liberalism and realism? Would you perhaps situate yourself in another camp?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 277d

Diplomacy works, the soft power sharing of culture is what brings us together so I'd be mostly in the liberal camp.

yet_another_switch@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 257d

What is a "white collar professional"?

Chilltemptation@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 273d (14 replies)
  1. Does size matter to you, what’s your preferred one?
  2. When was the last time you had an intercourse?
  3. What is your fav position?
Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 271d (13 replies)
  1. not at all
  2. about a month ago
  3. if you'll pardon the pun there's something animalistic about doggy style that I enjoy
Chilltemptation@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 271d (12 replies)

Great, actually I love being animalistic in bed!

Again, How much time daily you love to play with yourself? Do you watch porn or how do you arouse yourself? Are you open to DMs

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 270d (11 replies)

I masturbate most nights in bed.

I do watch porn.

Feel free to ask anything publicly.

Chilltemptation@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 270d (10 replies)

Super,

What kind of content you find most enjoyable?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 270d (9 replies)

Black guys

Chilltemptation@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 270d (8 replies)

Have you ever made a black dick lucky?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 270d

Yes, I've had sex with black guys