I had created my first account on Orkut when l was 16 or 17, or maybe 18. And that was how my journey began on social media. Now of course, Orkut doesn't exist. Which had been your first social media
I only started using it in the early to mid-80s myself, but yeah its kinda getting old... a bit like me, as a matter of fact ;)
We need to go back to these basics, considering how the big corps are tightening their noose around our neck.
I would love to see a lot of young people agree with you, but it's already so late I'm not even sure it's still possible to massively move back to a pre corporate-owned tech. People have been taught to expect convenience above anything else... it will be hard work to change that... which doesn't go along very well with the idea of convenience.
To be honest, Zuckerberg and l are of the same age. He's looking how to give younger people more convenience, whereas l would love to take the internet out of the clutches of the big corps.
Totally counts my man. In the early-mid '00s my wife and I were stationed in Germany and she knew no one so I hatched a plan. I registered a domain, set up a basic BBS, and we had business cards printed out with her name, email, and the address. Anytime she ran into another mom at the commissary, px, or just around base she would pass them out and organize a playgroup. From what I've heard it is still around, it just moved to Facebook.
She really got out of her shell and she organized a ton of playgroups (reserving community centers or organizing backups in case of bad weather). It was called K-Town Moms (the K was for Kaiserslautern). Good times and fond memories.
You don't need to register... but, this is where things get complicated... First you need a IRC client (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_IRC_clients), doesn't really matter which one, some are more simple, some are not. Some look nice, some dont.
Then you have to find a channel in that network to connect to and then you can start chatting. Note that all networks have their own channels. For example if theres a #India channel on Quakenet, that is different from the #India channel in IRCnet etc.
Edit: A lot of IRC networks have a webchat possibility, for example Quakenet has one, https://webchat.quakenet.org/ Put in a username, write a channel you wish to join and click "join chat"
Lol... Nah, there was an area at our high school with a row of vending machines, to keep kids from buying stuff outside of lunchtime they put two big sliding metal grates in front of them with a padlock on it. At lunch they would remove the lock and slide the grates in front of each other a bit and put the lock back on. It left us with a little cage with an entrance on each end.
Remember we used finger to list the users on another university's server then used talk to chat with them. Then bbs for boards/forums, irc for large chat rooms, mud for game (shadows of the mind - the one I used to play on).
At the time, all my online friends used it to discuss techie things.
First social network with real people in my local area? Whirlpool.net.au
It started as a site for peer support for one ISP but became a forum for local and regional technological issues.
There were also other niche forums for niche interests, including a Nissan Pulsar forum; we would organise cruises IRL and share technical information.
Most of these communities have been subsumed by Meta, which I believe is a terrible thing. Their platforms are not as conducive for that sort of socialising, without significant amounts of friction.
I will admit that segfault was not a great community.
It was a humour site, a parody of Slashdot similar to The Onion.
One of the features of Segfault was a poll. Due to how it was coded, it was trivial to add custom answers to any poll. Due to the nature of the Internet (with a capital I) at the time, quite a few βnetizensβ were very deviant. Any time a new poll was created, one of the options would be βNatalie Portman Toplessβ.
I am pretty sure all the people responsible for this have either grown up and learnt the errors of their ways of gone to 4chan.
If IRC or Usenet count, sometime in the '90s for my own account. I had a myspace fairly early and Facebook back when it was .edu only (I forget which was earlier). I'm old
I had created my first facebook account in 2006. And l did a lot of things on Facebook. If you're still using Facebook, do you realise that it's not the same when you had initially started ??π€π€π€
I never really used it other than the games tbf. I had a bunch of people added on there, and used the messenger service throughout my school years, but other than that I didn't really use it as a social media to any major amount
Though looking at it by the time I deleted my account vs when it started it had definitely changed a lot from my feed being mainly my friends to it being various random pages I hadn't followed, posting whatever shortform content.. a lot of it in arabic for some reason Β―β \β _β (β γβ )β _β /β Β―
What's app came in later, after apps got developed for mobile phones. Actually l grew up seeing pagers in people's pocket. They were fairly well to do people according to our social standards.
You're right about that. It worked in tandem alongwith yahoo mail and hotmail. My first email accounts were in these websites back then πππππππ
lol no. It was pre-IRC. Technically pre-WWW. This was in a weird period between when the first commercial ISPs became a thing and websites as we know them today began to pop up. It was all kind of self-contained. You were connecting to a curated network of things and not untethered to explore everything connected to "the internet."
My first social media....that's a difficult question, i used a lot...tumblr, msn messenger, pidgin, blogspot, google +,facebook...
But i have lot good memories with an online game, the mmo Dofus. I was in a guild (GaΓ―a) on an international server at 13 years old. It was fun, i talked to a chinese person, she encouraged me to learn english, shared her favorite music. :)
Bolt was my first social media experience in the mid 90s. I hardly ever hear people talk about it and I didnβt notice anyone mention it in this thread. There were forums, games, chat rooms, and you could earn different badges. It was perfect for middle school me. I was introduced to a lot of good punk bands through forums there.
I started typing classes in 2nd grade and I spent a ton of time at my local library going into middle school. My intro to the internet was Bolt and the SciFi channel chat rooms in 6-7th grade. We watched a ton of SciFi channel stuff and they were constantly advertising their chat rooms.
Were you born in 84 ?? Anyways, since you're so close to my age, I might learn more new stuff about internet history from you, as you've actually been using the internet back then.
I am an 84 baby! I donβt remember a whole lot about that time as I only had access at the library, but we did go a few times a week. Most of my time was spent on either Bolt talking about punk music and books or in chat rooms talking about Sliders, Star Trek, and science fiction. I was part of the initial push to renew MST3K way back in the day when online petitions were far less frequent. I remember building my first web page on Geocities and how everyone had a visitor tracker to compare how βpopularβ our websites were. It was a simple time with a lot less distraction.
I didnβt have a computer at home until I turned 18. When I finally did, I played a lot of Quake and hung out in some IRC channels. Again, talking about punk, scifi, and books.
Other than no longer having a Geocities page, my internet activities havenβt changed much over the last 30ish years. I still primarily talk about punk, Star Trek, science fiction, and books, now splashed with bunnies and plants lol
On the off chance that any of my old scifi channel chat room friends are out there, Pony says hi to Carly, Joe, and Drew.
It was in 98 probably....... Definitely before the Y2K π, that l got a hands on exposure to the internet at the British Council Library. Also to multimedia at the same time.
Itβs good you still got in early so you can remember what it was like before enshittification. Libraries are magical places. I used to spend entire weekends there online or reading. I still go at least once a week to borrow blurays and books. Iβm building a digital collection of moves and tv shows with my borrowed media.
What was the first place you remember hanging out online?
It was around that time that time when l had created my Orkut account. Probably we're about the same age. I too was a teenager with raging hormones πππππππ
A guy at my highschool had set up his own website, forum, and email. A handful of people were active on there. It was a simpler time.
Also I used those AOL chat rooms before that. So many pedophiles on there looking for children. It got tiresome because I was just looking for kids my age to talk with.
The forum that I was active on was the early 2000s before Myspace and Facebook.
The AOL chat rooms were before that in the 1990s. I did successfully befriend someone my age on there, through the sea of pedophiles. He had a different area code for his phone number, even though we lived relatively close to each other, so it was long distance pricing to call each other, which put a big damper on developing a closer friendship.
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Libb@piefed.social · 11 pts · 143d
Does posting on BBS count as 'social media'? Asking for a friend.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Could you please elaborate what is BBS ??π€π€π€
Libb@piefed.social · 3 pts · 143d
BBS. My bad, I should have added a link. But I insist: I'm not that old, I'm only asking for a friend π
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 3 pts · 143d
WOW π²π² So it was used way back in the 70s ??π€π€π€
We need to go back to these basics, considering how the big corps are tightening their noose around our neck.
Libb@piefed.social · 5 pts · 143d
I only started using it in the early to mid-80s myself, but yeah its kinda getting old... a bit like me, as a matter of fact ;)
I would love to see a lot of young people agree with you, but it's already so late I'm not even sure it's still possible to massively move back to a pre corporate-owned tech. People have been taught to expect convenience above anything else... it will be hard work to change that... which doesn't go along very well with the idea of convenience.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 0 pts · 143d
To be honest, Zuckerberg and l are of the same age. He's looking how to give younger people more convenience, whereas l would love to take the internet out of the clutches of the big corps.
HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
Bulletin board system https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulletin_board_system
ITGuyLevi@programming.dev · 1 pts · 143d
Totally counts my man. In the early-mid '00s my wife and I were stationed in Germany and she knew no one so I hatched a plan. I registered a domain, set up a basic BBS, and we had business cards printed out with her name, email, and the address. Anytime she ran into another mom at the commissary, px, or just around base she would pass them out and organize a playgroup. From what I've heard it is still around, it just moved to Facebook.
She really got out of her shell and she organized a ton of playgroups (reserving community centers or organizing backups in case of bad weather). It was called K-Town Moms (the K was for Kaiserslautern). Good times and fond memories.
Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu · 9 pts · 143d
IRC.. Does that count?
CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 143d
I still jump on IRC from time to time
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
What's that ??π€π€π€
HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social · 5 pts · 143d
Internet Relay Chat. It was developed in the late 1980s or early 1990s, I dont remember which. Its still going. I'm using it daily.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
Could you tell me how to register on this ???
HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social · 3 pts · 143d
You don't need to register... but, this is where things get complicated... First you need a IRC client (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_IRC_clients), doesn't really matter which one, some are more simple, some are not. Some look nice, some dont.
When you have a IRC client, you need to find a IRC network (https://netsplit.de/networks/top100.php), then you have to connect to that network.
Then you have to find a channel in that network to connect to and then you can start chatting. Note that all networks have their own channels. For example if theres a #India channel on Quakenet, that is different from the #India channel in IRCnet etc.
Edit: A lot of IRC networks have a webchat possibility, for example Quakenet has one, https://webchat.quakenet.org/ Put in a username, write a channel you wish to join and click "join chat"
ClipperDefiance@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 143d
Does Neopets count? I think I made my first account there in either late 2002 or early 2003.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
I too had opened my first account around that time, but I came across Neopets today.
AndyMFK@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 pts · 143d
First social media account I signed up up for was msn to talk to a girl I liked. Msn is long gone, but that girl is now my wife
nocturne@slrpnk.net · 4 pts · 143d
Here is to us that met our wives on the internet before online dating. We will be married 25 years this year.
ITGuyLevi@programming.dev · 3 pts · 143d
Congrats! My wife and I hit 21 this year... though we met in person, in a cage filled with vending machines.
Crazy to think she has been a contact on almost all of them, at least the main ones of the time AIM/ICQ/IRC/MSN/YAHOO...
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
What sort of cage is that ??? Not in a zoo of course ??π³π³π³
ITGuyLevi@programming.dev · 1 pts · 143d
Lol... Nah, there was an area at our high school with a row of vending machines, to keep kids from buying stuff outside of lunchtime they put two big sliding metal grates in front of them with a padlock on it. At lunch they would remove the lock and slide the grates in front of each other a bit and put the lock back on. It left us with a little cage with an entrance on each end.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
π€―π€―π€―....... You actually remained married that long ??π³π³π³π³π³π³
ohulancutash@feddit.uk · 2 pts · 143d
You get less for murder
isgleas@lemmy.ml · 4 pts · 143d
Remember we used
fingerto list the users on another university's server then usedtalkto chat with them. Thenbbsfor boards/forums,ircfor large chat rooms,mudfor game (shadows of the mind - the one I used to play on).Can I feel old now?
HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social · 4 pts · 143d
Must have been early 2001 when I joined http://www.irc-galleria.net/
I think I was amongst the first few thousand users on the site.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 3 pts · 143d
I began my internet journey around that time. There was the internet explorer as the main browser back then.
HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social · 3 pts · 143d
I went from Netscape to Firefox. Never really used IE
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
From lE, l jumped straight into firefox. There was also a yahoo browser back then ??π€π€π€
HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social · 3 pts · 143d
I wouldn't know about that. Yahoo wasn't really a thing where I am from.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
I used yahoo for searching and mailing in lndia. Where are you from ??
HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
Finland.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
Okay ππ
Salvo@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 143d
Slashdot and Segfault.
At the time, all my online friends used it to discuss techie things.
First social network with real people in my local area? Whirlpool.net.au
It started as a site for peer support for one ISP but became a forum for local and regional technological issues.
There were also other niche forums for niche interests, including a Nissan Pulsar forum; we would organise cruises IRL and share technical information.
Most of these communities have been subsumed by Meta, which I believe is a terrible thing. Their platforms are not as conducive for that sort of socialising, without significant amounts of friction.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
These names l'm hearing from you..... Thanks for sharing πππ
Salvo@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 143d
I will admit that segfault was not a great community. It was a humour site, a parody of Slashdot similar to The Onion.
One of the features of Segfault was a poll. Due to how it was coded, it was trivial to add custom answers to any poll. Due to the nature of the Internet (with a capital I) at the time, quite a few βnetizensβ were very deviant. Any time a new poll was created, one of the options would be βNatalie Portman Toplessβ.
I am pretty sure all the people responsible for this have either grown up and learnt the errors of their ways of gone to 4chan.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · -1 pts · 143d
I remember that phrase now, Natalie Portman Toplessπππππ
tiredofsametab@fedia.io · 3 pts · 143d
If IRC or Usenet count, sometime in the '90s for my own account. I had a myspace fairly early and Facebook back when it was .edu only (I forget which was earlier). I'm old
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Oh yes..... Now l remember..... I had created account on myspace as well..... Thanks for coming up with the name πππ
bunkyprewster@piefed.social · 3 pts · 143d
Compuserve, dialing in, pre-internet
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Absolutely new termsπππ
TabbsTheBat@pawb.social · 3 pts · 143d
My first social media was facebook :3 which I joined as a kid entirely for the facebook games
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Which year that must have been ??π€π€π€
TabbsTheBat@pawb.social · 2 pts · 143d
Like 2008 or 2009 I think. I hardly remember lol, I was very young
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
I had created my first facebook account in 2006. And l did a lot of things on Facebook. If you're still using Facebook, do you realise that it's not the same when you had initially started ??π€π€π€
TabbsTheBat@pawb.social · 2 pts · 143d
I never really used it other than the games tbf. I had a bunch of people added on there, and used the messenger service throughout my school years, but other than that I didn't really use it as a social media to any major amount
Though looking at it by the time I deleted my account vs when it started it had definitely changed a lot from my feed being mainly my friends to it being various random pages I hadn't followed, posting whatever shortform content.. a lot of it in arabic for some reason Β―β \β _β (β γβ )β _β /β Β―
Ja7sh_The_Donkey@piefed.social · 3 pts · 143d
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
What's app came in later, after apps got developed for mobile phones. Actually l grew up seeing pagers in people's pocket. They were fairly well to do people according to our social standards.
Ja7sh_The_Donkey@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
jode@pawb.social · 3 pts · 143d
I guess, Gaia Online? That's the first thing I can think of making an account on.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
Do you remember when it was ??π€π€π€
jode@pawb.social · 2 pts · 143d
Oh man, 04? 05?
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Hearing about it in 26.
jode@pawb.social · 1 pts · 143d
Yeah I was in 5th grade I think. Long fuckin time ago. Lots changed since then I'm sure.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
I'm an 80s generation by the way.
jode@pawb.social · 1 pts · 143d
Oh right ok so you may have been slightly "too old" for that at the time.
droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 143d
Facebook. I thought it was an email service back then.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
You're right about that. It worked in tandem alongwith yahoo mail and hotmail. My first email accounts were in these websites back then πππππππ
TheFrirish@tarte.nuage-libre.fr · 2 pts · 143d
To any French person here. Skyblog
That shit was lit, everyone was on it in France at some point but it then disappeared when Facebook arrived.
Kolanaki@pawb.social · 2 pts · 143d
CompuServ chat rooms when I was 8.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
Anything to do with nickserv ??π€π€π€
Kolanaki@pawb.social · 1 pts · 143d
lol no. It was pre-IRC. Technically pre-WWW. This was in a weird period between when the first commercial ISPs became a thing and websites as we know them today began to pop up. It was all kind of self-contained. You were connecting to a curated network of things and not untethered to explore everything connected to "the internet."
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
You mean before the dot com boom ??π€π€π€π€π€
Kolanaki@pawb.social · 3 pts · 143d
I mean slightly before dot com even existed.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
I turned 8 in 92 by the way πππππππ
Snoopy@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
My first social media....that's a difficult question, i used a lot...tumblr, msn messenger, pidgin, blogspot, google +,facebook...
But i have lot good memories with an online game, the mmo Dofus. I was in a guild (GaΓ―a) on an international server at 13 years old. It was fun, i talked to a chinese person, she encouraged me to learn english, shared her favorite music. :)
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Now I remember msn.
Snoopy@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
I hope we are not getting old π
we are getting old anyway but that's fun to discovers how we used internet. :)
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
π―π―π―
Nemo@slrpnk.net · 2 pts · 143d
I think it was livejournal, but there's a chance I had some forum account somewhere even before that.
ITGuyLevi@programming.dev · 2 pts · 143d
Deadjournal had a better color scheme but thanks for the reminder.
dkppunk@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
Bolt was my first social media experience in the mid 90s. I hardly ever hear people talk about it and I didnβt notice anyone mention it in this thread. There were forums, games, chat rooms, and you could earn different badges. It was perfect for middle school me. I was introduced to a lot of good punk bands through forums there.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bolt/_(website)
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 3 pts · 143d
In the mid90s, l too was in middle school, but that was the time when l was actually getting acquainted with world wide web.
dkppunk@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
I started typing classes in 2nd grade and I spent a ton of time at my local library going into middle school. My intro to the internet was Bolt and the SciFi channel chat rooms in 6-7th grade. We watched a ton of SciFi channel stuff and they were constantly advertising their chat rooms.
Go Sliders chat!
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Were you born in 84 ?? Anyways, since you're so close to my age, I might learn more new stuff about internet history from you, as you've actually been using the internet back then.
dkppunk@piefed.social · 2 pts · 143d
I am an 84 baby! I donβt remember a whole lot about that time as I only had access at the library, but we did go a few times a week. Most of my time was spent on either Bolt talking about punk music and books or in chat rooms talking about Sliders, Star Trek, and science fiction. I was part of the initial push to renew MST3K way back in the day when online petitions were far less frequent. I remember building my first web page on Geocities and how everyone had a visitor tracker to compare how βpopularβ our websites were. It was a simple time with a lot less distraction.
I didnβt have a computer at home until I turned 18. When I finally did, I played a lot of Quake and hung out in some IRC channels. Again, talking about punk, scifi, and books.
Other than no longer having a Geocities page, my internet activities havenβt changed much over the last 30ish years. I still primarily talk about punk, Star Trek, science fiction, and books, now splashed with bunnies and plants lol
On the off chance that any of my old scifi channel chat room friends are out there, Pony says hi to Carly, Joe, and Drew.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
It was in 98 probably....... Definitely before the Y2K π, that l got a hands on exposure to the internet at the British Council Library. Also to multimedia at the same time.
dkppunk@piefed.social · 1 pts · 143d
Itβs good you still got in early so you can remember what it was like before enshittification. Libraries are magical places. I used to spend entire weekends there online or reading. I still go at least once a week to borrow blurays and books. Iβm building a digital collection of moves and tv shows with my borrowed media.
What was the first place you remember hanging out online?
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
Myspace ??π€π€π€
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 143d
Hi5 and MSN (although MSN was more like Discord), and then Facebook happened!
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 0 pts · 143d
Which year was it Hi5 ??π€π€π€
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 143d
Early 2000s, when I was just a horny preteen/teenager. π
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 1 pts · 143d
It was around that time that time when l had created my Orkut account. Probably we're about the same age. I too was a teenager with raging hormones πππππππ
robocall@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 143d
A guy at my highschool had set up his own website, forum, and email. A handful of people were active on there. It was a simpler time.
Also I used those AOL chat rooms before that. So many pedophiles on there looking for children. It got tiresome because I was just looking for kids my age to talk with.
Vaelix_Prism@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 143d
A simpler time ??πππ When was it ??π€π€π€
robocall@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 143d
The forum that I was active on was the early 2000s before Myspace and Facebook.
The AOL chat rooms were before that in the 1990s. I did successfully befriend someone my age on there, through the sea of pedophiles. He had a different area code for his phone number, even though we lived relatively close to each other, so it was long distance pricing to call each other, which put a big damper on developing a closer friendship.