I don't hate it, but it doesn't really feel like anything to me. One of my ex partners was so excited to show off her blow job skills on me cause she said she was really good at it, but it didn't really do anything for me so I was just kind of lying there awkwardly and she was clearly disappointed. I'd much rather give than receive.
Suuupppeerrr insecure when I was younger (ok ok a bit now too, just a bit I promise) and I hated it (both oral and myself at the time lol) ... but after finding my first long term partner and slowly opening up (heh) it became more and more awesome, and I am now a total convert... but it took a few years to get out of my head about it!
Have you got a favourite position for receiving oral, e.g. do you like to be able to look down and see their tongue on you or would you rather they eat you from behind?
15 Comments
dabw1@fedinsfw.app · 15 pts · 133d
I don't hate it, but it doesn't really feel like anything to me. One of my ex partners was so excited to show off her blow job skills on me cause she said she was really good at it, but it didn't really do anything for me so I was just kind of lying there awkwardly and she was clearly disappointed. I'd much rather give than receive.
deezcashews@fedinsfw.app · 11 pts · 133d
I enjoy it but I've never cum from it (cis male)
blindpuskas@piefed.world · 4 pts · 132d
Same here!
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 132d
Turns out that about as many women are as bad at oral as men are.
blindpuskas@piefed.world · 1 pts · 131d
In my case I think it's more related to the fact that I'm not able to relax completely when I'm getting a blowjob
Dultas@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 132d
In my case I wouldn't say bad. I've only cum for oral alone a handful of times, and those probably weren't even the best blow jobs I've received.
CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.app · 10 pts · 133d
bendovertherainbow@fedinsfw.app · 8 pts · 133d
Can't say thats a problem for me, giving or receiving its all a blast! Sorry that hasn't been your experience
Mandredge@fedinsfw.app · 7 pts · 133d
I am so-so with it. It can feel nice, but I have only managed to get off from a blowjob a few times. It is still fun, though.
FineRoses@fedinsfw.app · 4 pts · 132d
LemonMan@fedinsfw.app · 4 pts · 132d
I like it myself. But ultimately, it doesn't matter, everyone has their own preferences and they're all valid.
AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app · 4 pts · 132d
Suuupppeerrr insecure when I was younger (ok ok a bit now too, just a bit I promise) and I hated it (both oral and myself at the time lol) ... but after finding my first long term partner and slowly opening up (heh) it became more and more awesome, and I am now a total convert... but it took a few years to get out of my head about it!
Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 132d
Have you got a favourite position for receiving oral, e.g. do you like to be able to look down and see their tongue on you or would you rather they eat you from behind?
AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 132d
How conventionally attractive is this theoretical person 😅
Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 132d
If they eat it well they're gonna get more and more attractive as you start to lose it all over their tongue 🤭
AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 132d
nerv@fedinsfw.app · 3 pts · 132d
stockings_n_summer@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 131d
Username checks out. It's giving giver 👷🏻♀️