From what you've described, it sounds like you're fine. If you'd like leaned over the counter to get a better view, or tried to look through the glass in front of the counter, or made some obnoxious sounds or some other such thing, you probably would have crossed the line, but from the sound of it she was aware of what she was wearing and how she was bending, and she probably forgot you were even there once you left.
Struggling with scope creep right now. Started writing a story last year that's now up to 32 pages and only about 1/3 to 1/4 done. It'll probably end up a short novella by the time its done. So the other day I was like, "I should write something shorter and more fun," then wrote 10 pages of character building and no sex. It'll probably get up to 50 pages before its done. I've got a problem.
The way this question is phrased is bizarre, but I'm going to try to answer you in good faith knowing that might be a trap.
In general, most societies and cultures are set up around monogamous partnerships, so people are born into those roles and expectations. People may learn as they grow up that they prefer polyamory, but that doesn't make it like 'correct' for everyone. I know polyamory isn't for me personally because I don't like people generally and need devotion from my partner and a poly relationship would get in the way of that for me. Cheating happens in polyamorous relationships too, so if you're looking at polyamory as a solution for being unfaithful, you're probably going to be disappointed. I think looking at people having sexual relationships throughout their lives as trying to 'collect' sexual partners is a really immature way of seeing people. People fuck. Sometimes people fuck one person their whole lives, some people fuck a bunch of different people through their lives. That doesn't have any effect on whether they prefer monogamy or polyamory, it's just what people do. If you yourself like polyamory, that's awesome! Your experiences are not universal. Sex in advertisements is designed to manipulate base emotions because those emotions work on large swaths of people, it's not indicative of society's attitude or even awareness of monogamy. People are gooning because capitalism took all the third spaces and only left the internet to replace it. Gooning is one of the few things people can do for free now. If you own a phone or a laptop, you have the ability to goon. You're statistically unlikely to be near a mall or a recreation center or somewhere else you can spend time without having to spend money. If you're in America, you're statistically in a food desert. So people are going to goon and thirst over the things they see in their little internet box, which is again completely unrelated to monogamy or polyamory.
I like being bitten, scratched, having my hair pulled, and being spanked up to a point. I don't mind my partner drawing blood, but I don't like dull pain or repetitive pain, like being pinched or scratched over the same spot a bunch of times. I like biting, scratching, pulling hair and spanking. Something oddly calming about it when your partner is into it. I've tried choking and asphyxiation in the past, but I'm too worried about hurting my partner to really commit.
You are absolutely welcome to post your original stories here.
I'd recommend keeping a backup somewhere, like on your own machine or on tumblr or literotica or something just in case FediNSFW ever goes the way of LemmyNSFW, but please post as much as you like. Breathe some life into this place.
I told both these stories on LemmyNSFW, but I'll retell them here
In college I worked pizza delivery. I was delivering one Friday night and a woman in a big house opened the door in a nightie and pulled the "Oh no, I just realized I don't have any money. Is there anyway else I could pay for this?" trick. I had a girlfriend at the time and I had multiple deliveries to make, so I was just like "Oh, don't worry about it, I'll cover it."
One of my exes was helping her mom out at a local church, so we were in the back organizing stuff. After a bit, everyone but the two of us left to go do other things, so it was just the two of us alone in the church. We looked at each other and were like "Want to sin a little?"
Trimmed is favorite, I like the sensation and the way it looks.
Landing strip is nice, but not my favorite.
I like bush, but it can get in the way. If you've ever gone down and gotten a hair stuck in the back of your throat, you know how distracting it can be.
Not a fan of bald, I think it's less pleasing both on a sensation level and an aesthetic level.
Some communities are set up so that only mods/admins can post in them, but most communities are open. If there's a community you'd like to post in but there's no "create post" button, you may want to search for another community or even create your own community where you can make your own rules.
I'm usually more concerned with quality over quantity. Ideally once or twice a week, more if we're really going at it, but if my partner is only in the mood every once in a while, I'm still happy.
The title of the post is inflammatory and misleading. If someone didn't read the body of the post, they would come away with the impression that fedinsfw is hosting child pornography. Because that's what the title of the post says. In the body of the post the admin clarifies that they're talking about material that could be interpreted to be child pornography under the legal definition in Australia, but by then people have already read the inflammatory title and are already primed to be angry.
Age verification is an attempt to de-anonymize the internet. I like having an internet where people can be anonymous. If a site capitulates and wants age verification, I simply won't use that site anymore.
There's a woman who works in the same building as me, different departments, different employers, but our jobs overlap, so we end up working together a few times a week. She's got cool tattoos, she's got a nice butt, we have similar interests. She's a little awkward, but in a cute kind of way. If she wasn't happily married and currently pregnant, I'd have probably asked her out for drinks over a year ago.
There's another woman in a different building than the one I work at, but I have to go to that building a couple times a week, so I see her a couple times a week. We technically have different employers, but we're under the same program. She looks extremely similar to a porn star whose content I've enjoyed in the past. I've always tried to keep it professional, but it's hard not to think about what she probably looks like naked sometimes while we're yapping about work and invoices and other boring stuff.
I don't usually feel guilty about my debauchery, but I'd love to find a few women and femmes for an irl erotic roleplay group, spend a few months or maybe a year just living together, playing out each others' fantasies, dressing up in cosplay or something, marking things off our fuck-it lists. Maybe end it off with a big orgy to celebrate. And if one of them was a sugar momma who could cover me so I didn't need to work and could focus on writing and learning guitar and getting back in shape during, even better.
I don't hate it, but it doesn't really feel like anything to me. One of my ex partners was so excited to show off her blow job skills on me cause she said she was really good at it, but it didn't really do anything for me so I was just kind of lying there awkwardly and she was clearly disappointed. I'd much rather give than receive.
From what you've described, it sounds like you're fine. If you'd like leaned over the counter to get a better view, or tried to look through the glass in front of the counter, or made some obnoxious sounds or some other such thing, you probably would have crossed the line, but from the sound of it she was aware of what she was wearing and how she was bending, and she probably forgot you were even there once you left.
Struggling with scope creep right now. Started writing a story last year that's now up to 32 pages and only about 1/3 to 1/4 done. It'll probably end up a short novella by the time its done. So the other day I was like, "I should write something shorter and more fun," then wrote 10 pages of character building and no sex. It'll probably get up to 50 pages before its done. I've got a problem.
The way this question is phrased is bizarre, but I'm going to try to answer you in good faith knowing that might be a trap.
In general, most societies and cultures are set up around monogamous partnerships, so people are born into those roles and expectations. People may learn as they grow up that they prefer polyamory, but that doesn't make it like 'correct' for everyone. I know polyamory isn't for me personally because I don't like people generally and need devotion from my partner and a poly relationship would get in the way of that for me. Cheating happens in polyamorous relationships too, so if you're looking at polyamory as a solution for being unfaithful, you're probably going to be disappointed. I think looking at people having sexual relationships throughout their lives as trying to 'collect' sexual partners is a really immature way of seeing people. People fuck. Sometimes people fuck one person their whole lives, some people fuck a bunch of different people through their lives. That doesn't have any effect on whether they prefer monogamy or polyamory, it's just what people do. If you yourself like polyamory, that's awesome! Your experiences are not universal. Sex in advertisements is designed to manipulate base emotions because those emotions work on large swaths of people, it's not indicative of society's attitude or even awareness of monogamy. People are gooning because capitalism took all the third spaces and only left the internet to replace it. Gooning is one of the few things people can do for free now. If you own a phone or a laptop, you have the ability to goon. You're statistically unlikely to be near a mall or a recreation center or somewhere else you can spend time without having to spend money. If you're in America, you're statistically in a food desert. So people are going to goon and thirst over the things they see in their little internet box, which is again completely unrelated to monogamy or polyamory.
I hope this was a useful explanation for someone.
I like being bitten, scratched, having my hair pulled, and being spanked up to a point. I don't mind my partner drawing blood, but I don't like dull pain or repetitive pain, like being pinched or scratched over the same spot a bunch of times. I like biting, scratching, pulling hair and spanking. Something oddly calming about it when your partner is into it. I've tried choking and asphyxiation in the past, but I'm too worried about hurting my partner to really commit.
You are absolutely welcome to post your original stories here.
I'd recommend keeping a backup somewhere, like on your own machine or on tumblr or literotica or something just in case FediNSFW ever goes the way of LemmyNSFW, but please post as much as you like. Breathe some life into this place.
I told both these stories on LemmyNSFW, but I'll retell them here
In college I worked pizza delivery. I was delivering one Friday night and a woman in a big house opened the door in a nightie and pulled the "Oh no, I just realized I don't have any money. Is there anyway else I could pay for this?" trick. I had a girlfriend at the time and I had multiple deliveries to make, so I was just like "Oh, don't worry about it, I'll cover it."
One of my exes was helping her mom out at a local church, so we were in the back organizing stuff. After a bit, everyone but the two of us left to go do other things, so it was just the two of us alone in the church. We looked at each other and were like "Want to sin a little?"
It's so hot that you and he have that kind of relationship
Trimmed is favorite, I like the sensation and the way it looks.
Landing strip is nice, but not my favorite.
I like bush, but it can get in the way. If you've ever gone down and gotten a hair stuck in the back of your throat, you know how distracting it can be.
Not a fan of bald, I think it's less pleasing both on a sensation level and an aesthetic level.
Some communities are set up so that only mods/admins can post in them, but most communities are open. If there's a community you'd like to post in but there's no "create post" button, you may want to search for another community or even create your own community where you can make your own rules.
I'm usually more concerned with quality over quantity. Ideally once or twice a week, more if we're really going at it, but if my partner is only in the mood every once in a while, I'm still happy.
https://fedinsfw.app/c/eroticliterature
The title of the post is inflammatory and misleading. If someone didn't read the body of the post, they would come away with the impression that fedinsfw is hosting child pornography. Because that's what the title of the post says. In the body of the post the admin clarifies that they're talking about material that could be interpreted to be child pornography under the legal definition in Australia, but by then people have already read the inflammatory title and are already primed to be angry.
So you're single and a cult leader, you say?
Happy birthday, and thank you for the present
Age verification is an attempt to de-anonymize the internet. I like having an internet where people can be anonymous. If a site capitulates and wants age verification, I simply won't use that site anymore.
There's a woman who works in the same building as me, different departments, different employers, but our jobs overlap, so we end up working together a few times a week. She's got cool tattoos, she's got a nice butt, we have similar interests. She's a little awkward, but in a cute kind of way. If she wasn't happily married and currently pregnant, I'd have probably asked her out for drinks over a year ago.
There's another woman in a different building than the one I work at, but I have to go to that building a couple times a week, so I see her a couple times a week. We technically have different employers, but we're under the same program. She looks extremely similar to a porn star whose content I've enjoyed in the past. I've always tried to keep it professional, but it's hard not to think about what she probably looks like naked sometimes while we're yapping about work and invoices and other boring stuff.
Literotica is where I've always had the largest readership. There's always AO3, but I've heard OC/non-fandom works don't get as many reads.
I've gotten a few custom videos made from different fan sites
I don't usually feel guilty about my debauchery, but I'd love to find a few women and femmes for an irl erotic roleplay group, spend a few months or maybe a year just living together, playing out each others' fantasies, dressing up in cosplay or something, marking things off our fuck-it lists. Maybe end it off with a big orgy to celebrate. And if one of them was a sugar momma who could cover me so I didn't need to work and could focus on writing and learning guitar and getting back in shape during, even better.
I don't hate it, but it doesn't really feel like anything to me. One of my ex partners was so excited to show off her blow job skills on me cause she said she was really good at it, but it didn't really do anything for me so I was just kind of lying there awkwardly and she was clearly disappointed. I'd much rather give than receive.