You're the one calling it a problem. Different people are wired different. I'm not going to label you like you are me, but 30min is not my jam, I got stuff to do or need to sleep that sounds like a chore to me personally.
For me, I've noticed it's heavily correlated with frequency and how turned on i am. Like once in a few weeks and being really turned on under good conditions and yeah it takes less than 10 seconds to bust a nut, just gotta make sure that the partner is already satisfied by that time.
On the other hand with higher frequency, like once in every few days and similarly it can take a while as well. Basically it becomes a race against time before i get bored and lose erection, even with boner pills, usually 30-45 min(absolute max) and i just give up.
I am rather healthy and athletic in my 30s, just fucked up brain.
I had the opposite when I was younger I was all "yeah staying power!" now I know it was ADHD all along and thinking about other things during sex is one way to wear out your partner
When I worked at Blockbuster my managers were dating and they would do this lol They learned where the blind spots from the cameras were so they would do it in the middle of the sales floor
29 Comments
gigastasio@sh.itjust.works · 87 pts · 131d
Door unlocks, and it’s just the one guy working and all the Krispy Kreme donuts look funny.
Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world · 38 pts · 131d
Funny? Funny how? Like I'm a clown? Do I amuse you?
helpImTrappedOnline@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 131d
Lad, I think you've lost your mind.
Gork@sopuli.xyz · 6 pts · 131d
So that's how they get glazed, TIL.
UninvestedCuriosity@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 131d
Doesn't matter I've already preplanned the high five based on the information in the note and that is happening.
UninvestedCuriosity@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 131d
Zachariah@lemmy.world · 78 pts · 131d
qwertyasdf@feddit.uk · 46 pts · 131d
DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world · 35 pts · 131d
They gotta clean up and cuddle a bit.
Godnroc@lemmy.world · 22 pts · 131d
Commute time.
a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world · 18 pts · 131d
25 bonus minutes to hide the body.
prex@aussie.zone · 14 pts · 131d
Fuck me dead, that took a turn.
popekingjoe@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 131d
Looks like we got another. Grab the spades boys.
a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 131d
Thank God, I've been horny for like 5 minutes.
CameronDev@programming.dev · 21 pts · 131d
They have 60 partners to please
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 131d
it's just me or that's a young people problem?
when I was younger climaxing in a minute was a problem.
I'm almost 40 now, and it takes my at least 30 minutes of rigorous fucking to climax. quikies are a thing of the past.
I'm not particularly healthy nor athletic.
Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works · 12 pts · 131d
You're the one calling it a problem. Different people are wired different. I'm not going to label you like you are me, but 30min is not my jam, I got stuff to do or need to sleep that sounds like a chore to me personally.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org · 9 pts · 131d
Just a wiring difference in people.
For me, I've noticed it's heavily correlated with frequency and how turned on i am. Like once in a few weeks and being really turned on under good conditions and yeah it takes less than 10 seconds to bust a nut, just gotta make sure that the partner is already satisfied by that time.
On the other hand with higher frequency, like once in every few days and similarly it can take a while as well. Basically it becomes a race against time before i get bored and lose erection, even with boner pills, usually 30-45 min(absolute max) and i just give up.
I am rather healthy and athletic in my 30s, just fucked up brain.
TerraRoot@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 131d
I had the opposite when I was younger I was all "yeah staying power!" now I know it was ADHD all along and thinking about other things during sex is one way to wear out your partner
DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 131d
60 here. I'd probably need to abstain for a week to get done in 30 minutes.
Asfalttikyntaja@sopuli.xyz · 3 pts · 130d
I don’t know how others feel but in my age it takes 29 minutes to get it up, and after that one more minute it’s all over.
JoMiran@lemmy.ml · 11 pts · 131d
Growing up the saying was "the first shot is just the start of the race".
N0libri@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 22 pts · 131d
Caution: wet floor :3
jaybone@lemmy.zip · 14 pts · 131d
Well there’s a humble brag…
slaacaa@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 130d
Includes parking and shower
SSETranquility@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 130d
When I worked at Blockbuster my managers were dating and they would do this lol They learned where the blind spots from the cameras were so they would do it in the middle of the sales floor
DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 131d
Karen banging on the door: "I need to talk to the manager!", but the manager was busy.
SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml · 6 pts · 131d
Well Karen was banging
yermaw@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 130d
Might write a few signs like this and just stick them on unsuspecting shop windows.
dan69@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 130d
Bro out here lasting 30x longer
Echo5@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 130d
Y’all all forgetting about foreplay