I’m also very down for vaginal mucus, but semen is different for me (it’s the bitterness and the egg white consistency that makes cleaning up annoying). Do you like your own semen?
Edit: not to sound like nobody likes it. I know two men and one woman who fucking love semen. But everyone else I’ve talked about it with who comes into contact with it… plays up their enjoyment of it to be a good partner.
I'm not gonna say I enjoy my own cum but i've certainly enjoyed scenes involving me swallowing my own cum. The cleanup aspect you just get used to it and the bitterness can be solved through diet.
I'm not gonna say I enjoy my own cum but i've certainly enjoyed scenes involving me swallowing my own cum.
That’s about where most people I know who aren’t especially into semen are, myself included. Maybe I made it sound like a more negative opinion than it is. It’s just one of those things where the reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy for me, so I’ve got opposing desires for the semen deposit location (I’m sorry, this is a horrible way to describe it) based on arousal and pragmatism.
For what it’s worth, the ranking for me for most to least pragmatic goes: condom, mouth, body, vagina, hair. For arousal, it depends on the situation, but hair is also always last, lol.
Finally, I’m autistic and I don’t think this is the exact same metric allistic people would use (and they might be less bothered by the feeling of semen leaking out of them), so take this with a grain of salt.
Oh, you don't like the feeling of cum in you? Yeah, that ones been outside the norm at least for me.
On my relationships we basically had the same kind of scale, we'd try it all but once we found what we liked we'd stick with it most of the time. Tho, I do have a clear oral fixation either in giving or enjoying, so mouth is pretty high up that list for me.
All in all, I personally appreciated this discussion, as it's fairly rare to discuss these things with someone other than your current partner.
Depends on the person. I've had partners that love getting hoses down like that, and others who would rather take it in the mouth than ever have it touch their skin.
I see Gen Z emos sometimes. Not nearly with the same frequency as millennials back in the day, but emo is still around. Always makes me feel strangely proud of them for some reason 😅
I have missed this somehow and I have a small musical project that's grateful dead music on instruments and in styles that are completely inappropriate for grateful dead music. Like dixieland jazz. And church music. What movie?
48 Comments
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world · 65 pts · 79d
Gonzako@lemmy.world · 36 pts · 79d
Ouch my ego. I thought girls enjoyed doing sex stuff.
idiomaddict@lemmy.world · 31 pts · 79d
There’s sex stuff, and then there’s the sticky, fragrant, bitter, salty, hard to wash off remains of sex stuff.
Gonzako@lemmy.world · 23 pts · 79d
Nah, its fine not to like cum. We all don't need to be cumsluts.
Tho, I am a personal enjoyer of the after effects of sex. Soak me in girl juice.
idiomaddict@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 79d
I’m also very down for vaginal mucus, but semen is different for me (it’s the bitterness and the egg white consistency that makes cleaning up annoying). Do you like your own semen?
Edit: not to sound like nobody likes it. I know two men and one woman who fucking love semen. But everyone else I’ve talked about it with who comes into contact with it… plays up their enjoyment of it to be a good partner.
Gonzako@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 79d
I'm not gonna say I enjoy my own cum but i've certainly enjoyed scenes involving me swallowing my own cum. The cleanup aspect you just get used to it and the bitterness can be solved through diet.
idiomaddict@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 79d
That’s about where most people I know who aren’t especially into semen are, myself included. Maybe I made it sound like a more negative opinion than it is. It’s just one of those things where the reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy for me, so I’ve got opposing desires for the semen deposit location (I’m sorry, this is a horrible way to describe it) based on arousal and pragmatism.
For what it’s worth, the ranking for me for most to least pragmatic goes: condom, mouth, body, vagina, hair. For arousal, it depends on the situation, but hair is also always last, lol.
Finally, I’m autistic and I don’t think this is the exact same metric allistic people would use (and they might be less bothered by the feeling of semen leaking out of them), so take this with a grain of salt.
Gonzako@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 79d
Oh, you don't like the feeling of cum in you? Yeah, that ones been outside the norm at least for me.
On my relationships we basically had the same kind of scale, we'd try it all but once we found what we liked we'd stick with it most of the time. Tho, I do have a clear oral fixation either in giving or enjoying, so mouth is pretty high up that list for me.
All in all, I personally appreciated this discussion, as it's fairly rare to discuss these things with someone other than your current partner.
teslekova@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 78d
Allistic people: onion people?!!?
Senseless@feddit.org · 5 pts · 79d
Pineapple!
D_C@sh.itjust.works · 13 pts · 79d
THIS IS NO TIME FOR PIZZA!!
Senseless@feddit.org · 4 pts · 79d
If I can combine sex and pizza I will.
Gonzako@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 79d
Oh hell yeah! Pineapple juice becomes water to me whenever i'm on a relationship.
daggermoon@piefed.world · 2 pts · 79d
I'll clean up after myself, if you catch my drift.
Passerby6497@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 79d
Depends on the person. I've had partners that love getting hoses down like that, and others who would rather take it in the mouth than ever have it touch their skin.
StillAlive@piefed.world · 1 pts · 79d
They do but not with men.
Gonzako@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 79d
Sounds like a you problem
StillAlive@piefed.world · 0 pts · 79d
Is it?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsory_heterosexuality
Gonzako@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 79d
It is.
StillAlive@piefed.world · 2 pts · 79d
No
hOrni@lemmy.world · 57 pts · 79d
It looks kinda nice. I mean, if it didn't immediately make you think of squirting semen on someone's chest.
programmer_belch@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 22 pts · 79d
Make them red and it would look pretty rad
hOrni@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 79d
That would be for the goth crowd. Or emos, but I don't think they're still around.
thousandyardstare@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 7 pts · 79d
We lurk in the shadows and wait for the trend to be popular again.
Hazel@piefed.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 79d
I see Gen Z emos sometimes. Not nearly with the same frequency as millennials back in the day, but emo is still around. Always makes me feel strangely proud of them for some reason 😅
Obi@sopuli.xyz · 18 pts · 79d
Agreed, without the context this would kick ass. This is why we can't have nice things.
Odo@lemmy.world · 47 pts · 79d
Don't forget your earrings:
diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 79d
Please tell me that’s a cinnamon bun and not just missed spunk
modus@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 79d
Oh, I never miss. 😏
diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 79d
A wizard arrives precisely where he means to
MasterNerd@lemmy.zip · 6 pts · 79d
I thought some monster just came on a snail
Kolanaki@pawb.social · 18 pts · 79d
"We need to be saving money, not buying dogs and members of the Grateful Dead!"
"Hey, man, you told us how you got Mary Jane a pearl necklace."
"...You entirely missed the point of that story."
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 79d
I have missed this somehow and I have a small musical project that's grateful dead music on instruments and in styles that are completely inappropriate for grateful dead music. Like dixieland jazz. And church music. What movie?
sundray@lemmus.org · 13 pts · 79d
Stolen valor 😑
fenrasulfr@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 79d
It would have worked if it was blood red.
pammyfromthesticks@mander.xyz · 6 pts · 79d
It kinda looks cummy it not just the shape....
blarghly@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 79d
/c/theyknew
Gates9@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 78d
Eternal192@anarchist.nexus · 6 pts · 79d
Design by Mia Khalifa jewelry?
Etterra@discuss.online · 4 pts · 79d
When AI gets confused by sex terms.
Velypso@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 79d
AI bullshit.
Completely fake.
SethTaylor@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 79d
I'm gonna be rich
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 79d
Reminds me of the Liz Truss Day Collar
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 79d
The fucking what now?
okwhateverdude@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 79d
Sounds like he had a wank on a head of lettuce
Resonosity@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 79d
You just can't make this shit up 🤣🤣
diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world · -5 pts · 79d
That’s cum your girlfriends a whore