I mean, I’ve got plans and I’m taking steps to achieve those plans, but things come up that I didn’t expect and am not sure how to handle all the time. I seek advice from others and do what I think is best, and though sometimes I handle things poorly, I try to learn from my mistakes and figure out how to do things better in the future. The next time something similar happens, I try not to do the same thing as before and over time, I’m getting better, even if I don’t always trend positively. I’m pretty sure that’s what life is.

If you’re sure about what to do in every situation, one of three things is true: you’re an incredibly wise and thoughtful person who so far exceeds human norms that you should probably work as a therapist or public speaker to help as many others as possible; you’re living your life in a very routine and solitary way (which is fine if that’s what makes you happy); or you’re not as wise as you think.

The likelihood of the last option dwarfs that of the first option.

teslekova@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 62d

Good. That's what your twenties are for.