This is the ideal male body. You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.

At around 22 years old, I met an athletic little stick of a 19 year old lady who hadn't grown out of her rebellious phase yet. She was into a somewhat rare combination of dad-bod and bad boy, trying to maximize parental upset. Going for the complete opposite of how she appeared at first glance.

A friend in their late 20s had brought the young one along to help pretend they weren't rounding the corner on 30 themselves. Funny thing is, the 19yo and nearly 30yo had a falling out later when the younger one settled into responsible adulthood before the older one.

Younger one got out from under her parents and settled into responsible (and domestic) adulthood almost immediately, dropping the bad boys and keeping the dad-bod thing. Married pretty quick too, to what looked like a kind snuggly bear of a guy, before I lost touch with her.

I don't have a dad bod, but on the behalf of all the dad-bod having guys who would have a conflict of interest in telling you, you are appreciated ❤️ may your future be full of tender nice moments with a lovely dad-bod having man

But if you meet someone looking for a twink I'd welcome a referral lol 😅

There is always someone out there who finds you attractive.

It may take more tries to find than average, but once (and this is key), you understand that rejection is thoroughly harmless, you will find one of these.

How you doing?

Because you are chunky too. :) I have never rarely seen a couple where the woman is thin and the guy is overweight.

Its just life philosophy. If you both feel like the body can be chunky, it's because you want to eat nice things and enjoy life.

I dunno, I kind of want it

Yes, I mean I also look wrinkled as the blanket.