Its can't get away with sweet. Not my vibe. I'm gonnasay it instead of thank you. Like 'wow this was really great service, not all men.' Or like 'and an order of baklava. Not all men.'
I'm more amused about it than anything. I will fully admit I used Reddit and similar sites for conversing and such before and my comments on Lemmy are very similar. But the amount of screeching manosphere types are SO LOUD on Lemmy! It's astonishing the kinds of things people say to me here.
I call out bullshit when I see it, but I'm rather kind and positive in general. So when I've got a message telling me that my attitude is why women should be subjugated or raped, I feel a little pride in upsetting a truly horrible person just by being myself.
Have you expressed that you are of the female persuasion? They need to know you are before they feel the need to correct you. Otherwise youre just a guy to them and will be ignored beyond a stupid comment.
Not all men but most men, and I say this as a NB AMAB.
Yep! I've noticed women are more likely to get that. It's really obvious. I've had incels follow me round lemmy making passive aggressive remarks... I honestly feel sorry for them, all that hate and anger can't feel good for them. But they don't do the work on themselves that they need to do, so they're trapped with that anger eating them alive.
Not too boast but I regularly get called things like a "well known misandrist". I genuinely don't think they understand how proud I feel when incels call me that.
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velma@sh.itjust.works · 33 pts · 62d
Definitely would start some shit if we started using that outside of this community.
I'm not encouraging anyone to do so, but it would be worthy of some popcorn.
cecinestpasunecommunication@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 7 pts · 61d
I'm doing this to the next man I speak to who doesn't fuck up, even if I have to be weird to a waiter.
velma@sh.itjust.works · 11 pts · 61d
Say it real saccharine sweet, too. “Oh why THANK YOU for being SO kind, y’know not all men are like this!”
cecinestpasunecommunication@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 7 pts · 61d
Its can't get away with sweet. Not my vibe. I'm gonnasay it instead of thank you. Like 'wow this was really great service, not all men.' Or like 'and an order of baklava. Not all men.'
velma@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 61d
Hahahah that’s perfect
LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 61d
Always be nice to wait staff!
cecinestpasunecommunication@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 5 pts · 60d
Nice from me creeps people out.
Wren@lemmy.today · 20 pts · 62d
I don't get enough DMs anyway.
velma@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 62d
Oh they slide into your DMs on a regular basis, too? Hahaha it's so predictable
Wren@lemmy.today · 10 pts · 62d
Not toooo regular, but it happens.
velma@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 62d
I get scolded a lot for being too outspoken. Apparently I’m holding women back lol
Anyway, it can be fun to see the tantrums in my DMs so oh well.
Zizzy@piefed.blahaj.zone · 19 pts · 62d
I never get DMs i must be doing something wrong
hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 pts · 62d
Saaame I feel left out.
ZDL@lazysoci.al · 9 pts · 61d
Same here! What do I do to get DMs from whiny manosphere types?
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 8 pts · 61d
velma@sh.itjust.works · 9 pts · 61d
I'm more amused about it than anything. I will fully admit I used Reddit and similar sites for conversing and such before and my comments on Lemmy are very similar. But the amount of screeching manosphere types are SO LOUD on Lemmy! It's astonishing the kinds of things people say to me here.
I call out bullshit when I see it, but I'm rather kind and positive in general. So when I've got a message telling me that my attitude is why women should be subjugated or raped, I feel a little pride in upsetting a truly horrible person just by being myself.
cecinestpasunecommunication@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 5 pts · 61d
No, but it could be server choice.
ZDL@lazysoci.al · 5 pts · 61d
Not really. I was joking about being jealous. 😉
Beth@piefed.social · 5 pts · 61d
Nah I’m also fine without.
HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 pts · 61d
Have you expressed that you are of the female persuasion? They need to know you are before they feel the need to correct you. Otherwise youre just a guy to them and will be ignored beyond a stupid comment.
Not all men but most men, and I say this as a NB AMAB.
velma@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 61d
That's the real clincher there. When someone even sees my clearly female name, I get mass downvotes on all my comments and posts.
LadyButterfly@reddthat.com · 3 pts · 61d
Yep! I've noticed women are more likely to get that. It's really obvious. I've had incels follow me round lemmy making passive aggressive remarks... I honestly feel sorry for them, all that hate and anger can't feel good for them. But they don't do the work on themselves that they need to do, so they're trapped with that anger eating them alive.
HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 61d
Why are men 😔 I wish I could just bitchslap the toxic masculinity outta these fucks
velma@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 62d
Someone linked the book "Feminist Killjoy" in this comm recently. I highly recommend ;)
LadyButterfly@reddthat.com · 8 pts · 61d
Not too boast but I regularly get called things like a "well known misandrist". I genuinely don't think they understand how proud I feel when incels call me that.
velma@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 61d
Damn, that label kinda goes hard. You should be proud hahaha
Lady Butterfly: Well Known Misandrist
LadyButterfly@reddthat.com · 3 pts · 61d
My mate said she's gonna get mr a t shirt with that on. I'll wear the shit out of it
velma@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 60d
That’s the sweetest! I hope you share a pic here when it happens
Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 58d
It's damaging your cause (says man who hates you and your cause)
Taleya@aussie.zone · 11 pts · 61d
Also fun ti respond to "men don't like it when -"
ChicoSuave@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 62d
Actually, yeah.
cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 58d
seems weird to just have a rule solely for tom holland but i get it