c/trans_joy · by Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 37d

Sunshine and Rainbows

I've thought about posting for so long but I'm still not comfortable with sharing my face. I hope this is ok for the sub. It's been a very hot summer.

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29 Comments

brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 12 pts · 37d

Girls you know me, i dont like being super thirsty under peoples posts

But i might have a crush 😍

SpikesOtherDog@ani.social · 8 pts · 37d (4 replies)

I had to take a look at the community because I thought it was someone looking for my male attention. At second glance it was just a woman sharing her outfit. Just keep being you! Normal (non-thirst bait) pictures of people need to be on here too.

Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 11 pts · 37d (2 replies)

I don't mind male attention... 😏

swab148@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 pts · 37d

You've definitely got it!

Quatlicopatlix@feddit.org · 1 pts · 35d

Respectfully, looking cute and thats a great outfit :3

gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 35d

we also definitely need the thirst-bait though

Cris_Citrus@piefed.zip · 7 pts · 37d

Daaaaymn~

brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 37d (11 replies)

Its always ok to post whatever youre comfortable with, and no more than that ❤️❤️ always

Plus just 😍😍😍 youre beautiful definitely dont be a stranger ❤️

Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 8 pts · 37d (10 replies)

Thanks hun. I'm on the older side and sometimes i struggle with my weight. I have to watch myself for ed issues cause i know I'm at a good weight but that body dysmorphia hits hard sometimes 😅

brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d (9 replies)

Oh girl im so sorry to hear that! 😭

Your look in this picture is fucking fit tho so keep at it i guess lol

I get the dysmorphia, i had an eating disorder for much of my life.

Your not alone in being "old" i myself am 32, i know personally a 40 ish yr old here, and someone posted the other day that was 49 i think? I love that we can get to these ages now

For real, keep slaying. Whatever youre doing its working ❤️

Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 37d (6 replies)

I'm 42... 😬

joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d

You look great! anyways, long way to go, aging can be a lot more graceful if you're taking care and you look like you're doing well despite your struggles, keep at it

brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d (2 replies)

And???

Look i get it, looking at the younger girls on here can invoke feelings of jealousy or just like being too late. People in our age range grew up in a world where this wasnt remotely acceptable. Hell people still regularly used slurs (Fslur and Rslur) in common conversation. White kids saying the Nword. Shit was ridiculous back then.

But were here now, and loving ourselves. Regardless of age, skin color, assigned gender, orientation, whatever you think is wrong with you i guarantee its not and someone here will love you for it. You might even inspire someone

Ill be honest, ive been kinda having a (lighthearted) competition in my head with nikki, over popularity lol. The first thing i thought seeing your post is fuck as soon as she shows her face shes going to be more popular than both of us 😂

Which is great, i love seeing new girls here! I love that your 42 and still rocking it girl! Never let that stop you, it isnt a problem for me.

Ill be watching your career with great interest ❤️

Plus, ill just say it lol, youre hot! No lying there

Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 37d (1 reply)

Thank you so much. I hate phishing for the compliments but it really does help my self esteem hearing from everyone in the blahaj zone. I can recognize I'm doing great but inside won't listen haha. Hopefully this is the start of a recurring post. Think I'll just paint a circle over my face next time and not rely on an app to do it.

brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d

Girl same with me when i started

The attention definitely helps lol, and you definitely have my attention ❤️

Hope you can get over the self esteem stuff, its shitty. I dealt with it by just not thinking and pressing the send button instead. Cant think about it if its already done!

Come out of your shell on your own time, but dont mind me if i hold treats outside your shell to lure you out more 😅❤️

Quokka@quokk.au · 2 pts · 37d (1 reply)

I’m 38! And I hope my body looks as good as yours in a few more years time.

There’s dozens of us older women here, dozens!

brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 36d

Literally scores! ❤️

joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d (1 reply)

I am 49 too

brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d

See? Age is but a number, i like it when people refer to it as levels ❤️

joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d (4 replies)

hihi, so happy you decided to post congrats on making the leap <3 you have a great bod and your hair is crazy wow, killing it girl ❤️ hot summer indeed

Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 37d (3 replies)

Thanks. Maybe one day I'll feel comfortable enough to post without a face cover.

joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 37d (2 replies)

Take your time :) mind if I ask what's up with the woof woof btw?

Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 37d (1 reply)

Ha, a sticker to cover up the app tag. Used a photo app to put the face cover on the picture. Might be a little Freudian slip happening too hehe.

joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 37d

hehe I gotcha just curious is all

neo2478@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 37d