Just a quick post to remind my older girlies that its never too late ❤️
Im 32, struggle a lot with having waited too long or being too late. Its not true! Its never too late to be happy. Its never too late to stop hating yourself. Its never too late, regardless of what other people say or think.
You do this for you and your happiness and noone should take that from you.
I LOVE OUR OVER 30'S OVER 40'S AND BEYOND! It shouldnt be lost on the younger people that trans people didnt make it to those ages historically, and im so happy your here now ❤️❤️
Plus, some of our most gorgeous girls are over 30 and 40 😍😍
Ily all, dont let the bastards grind you down! ❤️❤️❤️
37 Comments
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 13d
Ewww shoulda cropped this picture 😂😂😂
eestileib@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 13d
This is an accurate portrayal of a renting woman's bathroom countertop, this is verité.
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 13d
Im all about accuracy 😂
Quokka@quokk.au · 2 pts · 13d
…Renting?
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 12d
Well theyre not wrong, i am a renting leech lol
Wont someone think of the poor landlords?? /s
Quokka@quokk.au · 2 pts · 12d
I bought my own apartment and my bathroom still looks like this.
tanisnikana@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 13d
You’re keeping everyone honest.
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 13d
True, although being honest its easier to do makeup and post than it is to clean my bathroom ❤️❤️
Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 13d
GO OFF BESTIE!
its never too late, there is still time. you only get one life, live it to the fullest :3
you look great, love the sink mess lmao
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 13d
IM YOUR BESTIE!? WOOOOOT 🥰😂
dont know if you saw, but there was a pretty terrible no good awfule post earlier. This is mostly in response to that lol. It got nuked
Getting compliments from you makes my whole day! Plus i got called ma'am in a store to for first time just 😍🥰😍🥰😍
Tyty your the best ❤️
Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 13d
ye I saw that post, I had a reply drafted and my break ended before I sent it. post was gone by the time I got back to it lol
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d
Yeah it got nuked pretty quickly lol
Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 13d
Omg! Look at the camera, woman!
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 13d
But i get nervous..
Seriously i have a problem with eye contact and therefore eye contact with myself while posting is extra icky 😂😂
Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 13d
It's fine. It's not as bad as my problem with photos (resting terrorist face).
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 13d
Scares the reich wingers tho! ❤️
Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 13d
True, but there are also disadvantages to walking around looking like Thea Kaczynski.
hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 13d
Some people say it can be too late to transition, but they can no longer say it here. Thanks Ada and collaborators!
You look great, but I've seen this outfit at least 3 times. Do you have more??
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d
Its different promise!
Just love this button up, thats the only same thing as yesterday
It perfect for when its not too hot and not too cold
Plus it says "tempt me with a good time" on the back ❤️❤️
irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 13d
I started physical transition in my mid 40s. Never too late.
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 13d
Hell yeah ❤️❤️
joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 13d
Hear hear ❤️ it's never too late to feel the best you have ever felt in your life, I am 49 and I felt so good out and about today, it was a blast. I am so proud of all the beautiful 30-40+ years olds we have here too ❤️ Clean up girl 😄 but I can't talk I just did mine for the pictures I took lol
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 13d
To be honest i think it was selfie day, got us a lot more attention, been a couple of shitheels on here since then
joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 13d
Some people just can't stand to see other people being happy and enjoying themselves and loving themselves
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d
Its sucks to see really. I genuinely hope Sidal and Hated from the other day both find happiness in their lives. I hope they find peace. ❤️
joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d
Yes perhaps I was a little harsh with my post title but I wanted to make a point, I do hope that too
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d
You do you! I have this really like zen positivity about things like that. But i also dont mind other feelings about stuff like that, feel what you feel! ❤️
joeljoelle@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d
I normally do about most things, too, but I do not suffer bullies, but I gotta remember online ones are different. That's a great attitude to have ❤️ and I strive for it, I think I've got to a pretty good place with MOST things ;)
Sunshine@piefed.ca · 2 pts · 13d
A particular amazing digital circus character should’ve seen this lovely post.
Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 12d
I woke up this morning crying, thinking of the time I've lost transitioning at 38. It's something I will always feel a deep pain about. The only thing sadder would be waiting any longer. I've never been happier than I am now.
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 12d
Aww girl im sorry. I wont lie those feelings hit and when they do they hit hard. I wish we didnt have to feel that 💔
As they say, the best time to start is yesterday, the second best time is today. Itd be worse if we didnt do it at all. The amount that i hated myself before all this, idk that i woulda survived past my 30's. It was horrible, painful, and just made me not want to live. And i never knew why!!
I thank gaia every day for finding the trans communities, egg_irl, traaaaaaaaans, mtf, trans_joy, all of it
I wouldnt have survived otherwise
Im glad youre here, im sorry you woke crying. I hope you have an absolutely beautiful day and everything you want and more happens today ❤️❤️
Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 12d
Thank you sweetie. I'm trying to keep reminding myself that I'm going through puberty again right now and big emotions are a part of it.
So glad we both made it xx
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 12d
Omg girl the emotional swings are crazzzyyy
I cried at a trans person being accepted by family today, wasnt even real, just an animated video
I also cried at a song thats not even sad really the other day 😭
Im a mess lol
Im glad your here tooo ❤️
Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 12d
Kindof love being able to cry ngl. It was one of the effects I was most excited for and I really love it. I cry so much now. Mostly happy cries but today was a big sad. I'm through the other side of it now mostly. Night night Brooke (from UK timezone)
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 12d
I love being able to access that part of myself too its wonderful, can get annoying sometimes tho 😂
Nighty night girly sweet dreams! ❤️❤️
jckwik@discuss.online · 2 pts · 13d
💖
brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d
❤️❤️