I've been spending the last two weeks clearing a lot of bush and felling a few trees at the reclaimed communal factory space. It's allowed me to feel much more comfortable doing masc things, without getting dysphoric. Now I can dress dyke ish and rock it :3
Oh boy! So I came across a recent photo on social media of an ex who broke my heart 15 years ago. He looks like absolute shit now! Meanwhile, I may have a couple of fine lines and a few grays, but I look relatively the same and I’m in better shape than I was back then.
I know it shouldn’t, but it gave me such a massive boost in confidence because I’ve aged much more gracefully than he did. Serves him right for being a lying cheating dick! 😊
This reminds me when my ex tried to get back in touch with me. I loved him more than he loved me and I overlooked his dickish behaviour, anyway about 10 years later he messaged me out of the blue wanting me to get back in touch with him... It was very satisfying to not respond
I got 100% on my citizenship test yesterday... But then life decided that it was fair trade to kick my butt from 30 minutes afterwards through to this afternoon... So about 24h so far. 😂😢😭
Oh, and less back pain, and I've picked up my favourite sport again.
Oh! And another win is I finally got a full uninterrupted night of sleep last night with the help of a sleep aid. I haven’t slept well in over a week, so it felt amazing!
Perimenopause has me awake in the night for hours at a time, plus the sweating for no reason, plus the anxiety, all for PMS. I’m only 42 and I’m so ready for menopause 😩
Oh, and I started to make natural hair mask from oils and herbs to make hair grow fast, stay strong, keep scalp nourish and healthy.
I already tried and i can see little affect after first use ,now sitting with this hair oil for second time. Please comment after some months for update.
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kamillz@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 12 pts · 29d
I've been spending the last two weeks clearing a lot of bush and felling a few trees at the reclaimed communal factory space. It's allowed me to feel much more comfortable doing masc things, without getting dysphoric. Now I can dress dyke ish and rock it :3
quinacridone@mander.xyz · 12 pts · 28d
I managed to sort out the paperwork/admin last week and I'm now readying myself for the next step 👍
dkppunk@piefed.social · 11 pts · 28d
Oh boy! So I came across a recent photo on social media of an ex who broke my heart 15 years ago. He looks like absolute shit now! Meanwhile, I may have a couple of fine lines and a few grays, but I look relatively the same and I’m in better shape than I was back then.
I know it shouldn’t, but it gave me such a massive boost in confidence because I’ve aged much more gracefully than he did. Serves him right for being a lying cheating dick! 😊
velma@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 28d
Sometimes it feels good to be the tiniest bit petty!!
dkppunk@piefed.social · 4 pts · 28d
The guy was a hobosexual that took waaaayyyy too much advantage of my kindness and hospitality.
I have definitely upgraded and I’m allowing this petty to make me feel better 😊
quinacridone@mander.xyz · 2 pts · 27d
This reminds me when my ex tried to get back in touch with me. I loved him more than he loved me and I overlooked his dickish behaviour, anyway about 10 years later he messaged me out of the blue wanting me to get back in touch with him... It was very satisfying to not respond
StickyDango@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 29d
I got 100% on my citizenship test yesterday... But then life decided that it was fair trade to kick my butt from 30 minutes afterwards through to this afternoon... So about 24h so far. 😂😢😭
Oh, and less back pain, and I've picked up my favourite sport again.
dkppunk@piefed.social · 5 pts · 28d
Oh! And another win is I finally got a full uninterrupted night of sleep last night with the help of a sleep aid. I haven’t slept well in over a week, so it felt amazing!
Perimenopause has me awake in the night for hours at a time, plus the sweating for no reason, plus the anxiety, all for PMS. I’m only 42 and I’m so ready for menopause 😩
dkppunk@piefed.social · 3 pts · 27d
And slept like poop again last night. At least I had one good night’s sleep this week 🥱
Newhere@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 23d
Read about night primrose , melatonin. Maybe could make you feel a bit better..
dkppunk@piefed.social · 1 pts · 23d
Unfortunately, melatonin has not helped, only when I take store brand Unisom do I get a full night sleep. I’ll look into the primrose, thanks!
Sunshine@piefed.ca · 4 pts · 28d
I downloaded my favourite YouTube videos to reduce reliance on YouTube.
Newhere@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 23d
Had found super sale and got some really funny things for quarter of a dollar 😁😅 and kept house tidy as museum 🤣
Newhere@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 23d
Oh, and I started to make natural hair mask from oils and herbs to make hair grow fast, stay strong, keep scalp nourish and healthy. I already tried and i can see little affect after first use ,now sitting with this hair oil for second time. Please comment after some months for update.