It is , we're quite civil most of the time these days. I had to let go of a lot of resentment about the past. When we had kids I expected him to be my "other half" but he wasn't and there's no point dwelling on that now. We were both different people back then, and I realised it was my own resentment which was stopping me from moving forward now and just living a happy life.
If it's a not a tough thing, even when you know it's right, it's another whole basket of issues. Hope you're doing okay, happy to lend an ear either way!
Thanks. There was no "thing" wrong, it just wasn't right. Previously idve spent a few months growing to resent things before acting, so I guess this is an improvement.
Funny story about that brand name - at a past job the company promoted that a switch would be given out as the prize for the winner of the internal hackathon. A few of us were quite disappointed to learn it was a gaming console and not networking equipment!
Mathematics and crawling into the roof for breakfast. Apparently we have enough points to get the insulation for 'free' and really want it done before the expected horrid summer. Seems to be enough old copper up there to be worth selling too. Bonus 🕸️🕸️
Idk about Big Karma, but Small Karma is real. The other day I was doing laundry and a lady asked for help with how to pay; she'd never been to a laundromat before and she was washing stuff per her work duties. I showed her the touch screen thing, and as she went to start the machine I went to pay. I clicked out of the "do you want a receipt" screen and not a millisecond later she said "they don't give receipts then?" and I said no.
Anyway, because I'm a small time scumbag, my compromised thumbnail has totally snapped off.
anyone know why Boomer women have suddenly been all about Appreciate The Men In Your Life? Not just talking FD, but they're all about the mens loving. It's something I've seen flung a bit.
Some women push other women down, perpetuating the misogynistic, patriarchal system. They don't want change, because they don't think they can benefit from it, therefore no one can benefit from it.
I'd feel sorry for them, but their peers were out in the streets fighting for our rights, so fuck them cunts.
60 Comments
SaneMartigan@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 7d
The relationship has ended by my decision. :(
PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 7d
I feel for you, it's a hard decision to have to make. 🫂
SaneMartigan@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 4d
I remember your breakup. I hope its going well these days.
PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 3d
It is , we're quite civil most of the time these days. I had to let go of a lot of resentment about the past. When we had kids I expected him to be my "other half" but he wasn't and there's no point dwelling on that now. We were both different people back then, and I realised it was my own resentment which was stopping me from moving forward now and just living a happy life.
SaneMartigan@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 3d
That sounds very positive for you.
imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 7d
Hugs. Be gentle with yourself. Even if you ended it it still sucks
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 7d
I'm sorry to hear that 😔
Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 7d
I'm so sorry. 🫂
Catfish@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 7d
Hard even when it's for the best. Internet hugs.
SpinMeAround@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 7d
If it's a not a tough thing, even when you know it's right, it's another whole basket of issues. Hope you're doing okay, happy to lend an ear either way!
SaneMartigan@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 7d
Thanks. There was no "thing" wrong, it just wasn't right. Previously idve spent a few months growing to resent things before acting, so I guess this is an improvement.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
Sorry to hear it man. Be extra kind to yourself for a while ❤️
SituationCake@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
So sorry. It’s a hard thing to have to do.
tombruzzo@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
Sucks to hear it happened that way but glad you made the right choice early
lowtheseal@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 7d
I'm sorry to hear that :(
A1kmm@lemmy.amxl.com · 10 pts · 7d
Awww, my family made me baked beans with hot sauce for fathers' day. HFD to all the other fathers out there.
useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 7d
That sounds perfect. I got a coffee and a bouquet of flowers 🙂
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 7d
I decided to fuck off the nicotine spray. Now im rawdogging the cravings.
Fuck you nicotine, I've beaten far worse lol
CadMunt@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
You got this bro.
Taleya@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 7d
::: spoiler mwahahah
Happy birthday to me :)
:::
imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
Gul Dukat approved
SpinMeAround@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 7d
My body is so mad at me, I hope I sleep well tonight.
CadMunt@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 7d
I went for three runs this week and am feeling it.
Taleya@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 7d
Holy Shit his lordship got me a switch 2. In this economy???
A1kmm@lemmy.amxl.com · 5 pts · 7d
Funny story about that brand name - at a past job the company promoted that a switch would be given out as the prize for the winner of the internal hackathon. A few of us were quite disappointed to learn it was a gaming console and not networking equipment!
Taleya@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 7d
IDK are we talking a basic gigabit or L3?
CadMunt@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 7d
Catfish@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 7d
Mathematics and crawling into the roof for breakfast. Apparently we have enough points to get the insulation for 'free' and really want it done before the expected horrid summer. Seems to be enough old copper up there to be worth selling too. Bonus 🕸️🕸️
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
I'm going to ask the awkward but hard question... wh... why is there a lot of copper up there?
Taleya@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
If the house is old enough it had a tank up there
Catfish@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
Correct
Catfish@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
Defunct hot water heater and piping
StudChud@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 7d
Idk about Big Karma, but Small Karma is real. The other day I was doing laundry and a lady asked for help with how to pay; she'd never been to a laundromat before and she was washing stuff per her work duties. I showed her the touch screen thing, and as she went to start the machine I went to pay. I clicked out of the "do you want a receipt" screen and not a millisecond later she said "they don't give receipts then?" and I said no.
Anyway, because I'm a small time scumbag, my compromised thumbnail has totally snapped off.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 7d
The punishment is 10 public lashes.
StudChud@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 7d
Taleya@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 7d
anyone know why Boomer women have suddenly been all about Appreciate The Men In Your Life? Not just talking FD, but they're all about the mens loving. It's something I've seen flung a bit.
CadMunt@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
It's not the scumbag media pushing it pretending it's coming from boomer women?
Taleya@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
No, this is literally out of the mouth of four today
CadMunt@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
oh dear
StudChud@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
CadMunt@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
Some women push other women down, perpetuating the misogynistic, patriarchal system. They don't want change, because they don't think they can benefit from it, therefore no one can benefit from it.
I'd feel sorry for them, but their peers were out in the streets fighting for our rights, so fuck them cunts.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
" They don’t want change, because they don’t think they can benefit from it, therefore no one can benefit from it."
This is the mentality of the racist white woman.
StudChud@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
A racist white woman is very unlikely to be a true ally to anyone but her white man and her church.
A truly untrustworthy specimen of the human race lol
Pilk@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
The rot is accelerating.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 7d
that's a good thing tho?
Catfish@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
Not if it's an adjunct of TradWifing
Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 7d
🤢
Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 7d
some traditional freesias , the perfume is heavenly
Eagle@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
They grow wild near me, I pick bunches on my walks
Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
lovely 🙂
Catfish@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 7d
Most here seem to be tech not trade, but why not...
Cash job next weekend, lugging up stairs and assisting wool roof insulation. Some clue preferred. Maribyrnong. Ping me.
bacon@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
Beep Beep 🚚
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Force_majeure1234@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
Buttery popcorn on top of chilli scrambled eggs on toast please
bacon@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 7d
🧈🍿
🌶️🌶️🥚🥚
🍞
TheWitchofThornbury2@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
Coconut macarooons and a cup of tea please chef.
bacon@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 7d
🥥🧁☕️
TheWitchofThornbury2@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
Thanks chef - very tasty.
Catfish@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
Asparagus, bacon & poached egg please Chef
bacon@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
🎍🥓🥚
Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 7d
good morning