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I'm sitting in my bathroom, imagining good things for you. This neither improves nor detracts from your situation, but I just thought you might like to know.

That's why I always go to bed with a hyperfocus to fixate on.

Is this a real thing people do?

try imagining what you would do in their spot. how would you communicate, what would you show?

its a much better starting point than making up situations that may not be realistic... for me at least.