Your frustration is absolutely 100000% justified. Your kid is a kid. Your wife should know better and stop enabling water damage to the house.
You’re running on fumes. This is absolutely not sustainable, and especially not if you have a heart condition that is serious enough that your 4yo knows what to do in case anything happens to you. Clearly he still cares about you if he was trying to help.
Make amends with your son. Talk to your wife. Someone else said it too, but you have got to be on the same page to survive this insane phase of raising tiny people.
All the time. My mom never knocked. She went through my garbage, unfolding paper and gum wrappers and whatever else to be sure there were no hidden messages or notes or whatever the hell else she imagined.
We allow YouTube, but not without us present. We had a decent list of blocked channels, then went to edit it but that just cleared out the entire list. So much for usability.
As I stated in my reply to your direct message, please feel free to cross-post. This isn't a super overly active community as it is, but I want those participating actively or passively to feel comfortable.
There are even quite a few "not a parent" comments here, which I'm fine with as long as it's not judging parents who are actually living in the trenches.
Any parent I know who has had a child with specific medical stuff found their communities on FB. Reddit lacked specific support, and Lemmy even less so. I hope your daughter is ok!
It explains better than I could, and has other details I forgot about. All I could remember is that you have to loosen the wrap a little so the baby can slide down a little to nurse (upright), then scoot them back up and re-tighten. The logistics are hard at first. Good luck!
Ah yes, can’t go wrong with basically anything from Sally’s. Thank you!
Now I want chocolate cake or whatever this is making.
In my experience, only the fancier brands do this. But you can make your own and sew them on too.
They’d be stupid not to prepare.
Your frustration is absolutely 100000% justified. Your kid is a kid. Your wife should know better and stop enabling water damage to the house.
You’re running on fumes. This is absolutely not sustainable, and especially not if you have a heart condition that is serious enough that your 4yo knows what to do in case anything happens to you. Clearly he still cares about you if he was trying to help.
Make amends with your son. Talk to your wife. Someone else said it too, but you have got to be on the same page to survive this insane phase of raising tiny people.
My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic
My kids would think Butt Butt is hilarious. Colors would be blue and orange (Bluey and Bingo). Logo could be the Heeler house.
All the time. My mom never knocked. She went through my garbage, unfolding paper and gum wrappers and whatever else to be sure there were no hidden messages or notes or whatever the hell else she imagined.
How’d you prepare and cook the potatoes?
It's so unnecessarily cruel.
Does it all blend together at some point?
Ours said no melatonin til 3 yrs. 18 months seems early, even without that in mind.
I do basically the same as you but probably more maple syrup 😂 Or I make it with chocolate milk...
Sometimes I add freeze dried berries. They don't turn into brown gunk overnight.
What really helps it feel filling is 1 tablespoon of chia seeds.
More for you. And me. They're awesome.
We allow YouTube, but not without us present. We had a decent list of blocked channels, then went to edit it but that just cleared out the entire list. So much for usability.
Ohhh, I was wondering why you hadn't posted. That makes sense. Hope you got it sorted.
That sounds massively stressful. She's so fortunate to have you. I'm glad she's doing well now.
As I stated in my reply to your direct message, please feel free to cross-post. This isn't a super overly active community as it is, but I want those participating actively or passively to feel comfortable.
There are even quite a few "not a parent" comments here, which I'm fine with as long as it's not judging parents who are actually living in the trenches.
Any parent I know who has had a child with specific medical stuff found their communities on FB. Reddit lacked specific support, and Lemmy even less so. I hope your daughter is ok!
Maybe you've seen this site, maybe not: https://www.littlebearlactation.com/post/baby-wearing-breastfeeding-safely-breastfeed-while-babywearing#viewer-tua26269
It explains better than I could, and has other details I forgot about. All I could remember is that you have to loosen the wrap a little so the baby can slide down a little to nurse (upright), then scoot them back up and re-tighten. The logistics are hard at first. Good luck!