Yeah it hurts her in moments that matter, and I feel like I’m constantly looking crazy when I insist on clarifying communication processes that just get disregarded anyway.
The worst is the dr office, the can only have a single message address for apt reminders…. If I take mom off and put me it will cause a LOT of drama that I don’t need with the dr…. But at the same time mom won’t be showing up or taking her to the appts anyway…
Sorry you got to feel any of that, it’s super not your fault.
We are economistswho study gender and families. We wanted to understand whether schools themselves might unintentionally contribute to this imbalance by defaulting to contacting mothers more than fathers. Our recent research suggests they do.
As a Dad with majority custody who does all the school coordination, homework, extracurriculars, and various appointments, this is maddening and real. Mom is assumed to be the default parent even when they aren’t.
Agree, I have them curated lessons.md anytime they make a mistake and have found that to be highly effective. Every now and then a lesson goes defunct and needs pruned, but I think that’s just part of the new swe skill set.
Some of this does not line up with my lived experience pretty starkly.
Repo level markdown files with architectural guidance not working for example… I’ve found that works quite well.
Not perfectly well, but llms are designed specifically NOT to be perfect deterministic executioners. Still though, pretty well.
I have seen that in a jr engineers hands llms get to bad outcomes fast, and unintuitively (to leaders…) usage of llms in coding does not provide a path for a he engineer to upskill into a sr engineer. A sr engineer with llms though is almost always radically augmented regarding their output speed on task completion.
You could not be more misinformed here. I say this as someone who drives an electric. The modern corvettes are insane value for a sports car, extremely moddablr and reliable, as quick or quicker than an ev while annihilating most evs on top speed.
You sir, are the worst kind of incorrect. You are confidently incorrect.
The drama would be with mom, at the doctor, who would be an innocent bystander. Nobody wins there…
Yeah it hurts her in moments that matter, and I feel like I’m constantly looking crazy when I insist on clarifying communication processes that just get disregarded anyway.
The worst is the dr office, the can only have a single message address for apt reminders…. If I take mom off and put me it will cause a LOT of drama that I don’t need with the dr…. But at the same time mom won’t be showing up or taking her to the appts anyway…
Sorry you got to feel any of that, it’s super not your fault.
Does it matter if the coffee is decaf or caf?
As a Dad with majority custody who does all the school coordination, homework, extracurriculars, and various appointments, this is maddening and real. Mom is assumed to be the default parent even when they aren’t.
I couldn’t help but read the last comment in the voice of Jeff Hayes doing Princess Donut the Queen Anne Chonk.
This is one of those posts that makes no sense if you’re not in on it, to be in on it read Dungeon Crawler Carl. You’re welcome.How early are all of you morning gym goes going to bed? I feel like I would have to sacrifice a lot of sleep to be up any earlier than I am.
Yeah for sure, I’ll max lvl the 10th anniversary hundo too.
918121902279 Btw!
It kinda feels way less special knowing everyone got it.
Can you imagine how mad someone would be if they had bottlecapped a mewtwo and were hyper training it?
My most recent cap went on a shiny mewtwo, but I would be livid had it gone on a regular.
Agree, I have them curated lessons.md anytime they make a mistake and have found that to be highly effective. Every now and then a lesson goes defunct and needs pruned, but I think that’s just part of the new swe skill set.
Some of this does not line up with my lived experience pretty starkly.
Repo level markdown files with architectural guidance not working for example… I’ve found that works quite well.
Not perfectly well, but llms are designed specifically NOT to be perfect deterministic executioners. Still though, pretty well.
I have seen that in a jr engineers hands llms get to bad outcomes fast, and unintuitively (to leaders…) usage of llms in coding does not provide a path for a he engineer to upskill into a sr engineer. A sr engineer with llms though is almost always radically augmented regarding their output speed on task completion.
I wonder how much of that was confidence changes.
Sounds like you were dating my ex spouse and have absolutely dodged a bullet, congratulations!
This might be the funniest Garfield comic I’ve seen. I like the implied order.
You’re not wrong, but you can’t patent physical activity which would make it the least attractive option in their partners portfolios.
Sure let me reframe that.
Don’t be a shithead like them yelling on the plane.
Then you’re just making you look as shitty as them. Don’t do that.
Because there’s no profit in it?
Never knew my wall outlet was catholic
The art and the artist.
You could not be more misinformed here. I say this as someone who drives an electric. The modern corvettes are insane value for a sports car, extremely moddablr and reliable, as quick or quicker than an ev while annihilating most evs on top speed.
You sir, are the worst kind of incorrect. You are confidently incorrect.