Zabby [he/him]

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You know, even throwing in the niche ones (celebrity drag race) AND the untucked, I still think there are more distros. Did I miss any?

  • RuPaul's Drag Race
  • The Switch Drag Race
  • RuPaul's Drag Race UK
  • Canada's Drag Race
  • Drag Race Holland
  • Drag Race Down Under
  • Drag Race España
  • Drag Race Italia
  • Drag Race Philippines
  • Drag Race France
  • Drag Race Belgique
  • Drag Race Sverige
  • Drag Race Brasil
  • Drag Race México
  • Drag Race Germany
  • Drag Race Thailand
  • Drag Race South Africa
  • RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars
  • Drag Race España All Stars
  • Drag Race France All Stars
  • Canada's Drag Race All Stars
  • RuPaul's Drag Race UK: All Stars
  • RuPaul's Drag Race: UK vs. the World
  • Canada's Drag Race: Canada vs. the World
  • Drag Race Down Under vs. the World
  • RuPaul's Drag U
  • RuPaul's Secret Celebrity Drag Race
  • RuPaul's Drag Race Global All Stars
  • Drag Race Philippines: Slaysian Royale
  • Drag Race México: Latina Royale
  • RuPaul's Drag Race: Untucked
  • RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars: Untucked
  • Drag Race Philippines: Untucked
  • Drag Race Sverige: Untucked
  • RuPaul's Drag Race Live Untucked

Something I stumbled upon when doing some adoption related reading was a book called The Highly Sensitive Child (ISBN 978-0767913904). I was originally looking for something pretty tightly focused on sensitivities to sensations, noises, tastes and things like that.

But it ended up being a lot more well-rounded and incredibly educational about kids that often are noticed as being shy. They tend to be the ones that sit at the back of the classroom and observe for a while long before they feel comfortable stepping in and trying to make a friend. Or kids that might startle easy, get overwhelmed in a loud room, or tend to notice a lot of details that maybe others around them don't.

I have no idea how much applies to your kiddo. But I figured if that sounded familiar to you it might be a good read and I might give you some good advice. (I also recognize that you posted this 7 months ago and you might already have figured this out for all I know 😅)

on Jackpot · c/memes · 13 pts · 45d

I'm honestly so grateful for Star Trek. And there are enough episodes between TOS, TNG, VOY, DS9, and Lower Decks that I can pretty much infinitely rewatch them in an endless loop. Especially if you also throw in The Orville, The Expanse, any of the Stargates, or Battlestar Galactica into that watch loop.

I'm grateful you shared this and I hope you find comfort as you process your loss.

Hearing someone as thoughtful as you sharing the end of a father's life really helped to frame the life of my own Dad who has really surprised me with his recent attempts to mend his many mistakes.

This story really motivated me to give him a visit.

on I love 2D animation! · c/animation · 24 pts · 199d

Dude. Pantheon blew my mind. I have several scenes burned into my mind forever (Chanda being scanned).

I love all four that you posted, but I can't remember the last time a show stayed with me as well as Pantheon did 🤯

on Worst day of my life · c/tenforward · 1 pts · 203d

You're probably right! Anybody who's watched it can tell the ratings dropped because it was a slow, relatively uninteresting episode. Not because of a few seconds of a non-straight relationship. 👏

on Worst day of my life · c/tenforward · 11 pts · 204d

The thing that gets me is that so many people are talking about a fucking KISS ON THE CHEEK.

But they aren't talking about the fact that this Klingon guy is so different from other Klingons that he didnt want to participate in a hunt and shoot a bird??!

There are many things to complain about, but this gay relationship isn't one of them 👏

Is anybody else a bit surprised by the pessimism surrounding seeing movies in theaters?

I'm not surprised to see people shit on AMC specifically, given some of the moves they've made with acquiring smaller theaters and hiking prices. But, I'm also seeing a lot of people hating on the very idea of seeing a movie outside the comfort of their home.

I guess I love movies more than most. Enough to go to the movies and see three movies back-to-back-to-back in an evening. I mean, over the course of 2025 I saw over two dozen movies and only two or three of them were a bad experience (loud/distracting audience members, poor seating or outdated audio / visual infrastructure). The vast majority of the time, my experience was much better than watching it on my 60" TV screen at home. I can honestly say that my most tranquil and relaxed moments of last year were when I was free from all distractions and enjoying a cinematic moment with a crowd of other people.

I guess it's just sad to see streaming services get rewarded for pumping out a ton of slop. While creative and unique movies only sell a few tickets on opening weekend. The people that fund movies definitely have to be noticing those trends, which I'm sure is why we're seeing fewer and fewer interesting movies each year. We ultimately end up with endless sequels, live-action-remakes of successful animated movies/video games, and endless waves of things we've already seen before.

What a shitty time to live in: We live our lives with less money than our Grandparents. We see a constant stream of sad, frustrating, or disheartening news 24/7. Then, we try to take a second to relax and step away from the madness. But, many of our beloved hobbies are in a nosedive so it's hard to truly get away from it all:

  • Video games are crashing with crazy numbers of studios shutting down or laying people off. We have to lean on Indie games, and a few hit games to keep the medium bearable. Not to mention AI is making gaming far too expensive.
  • Great movies are getting way less attention, and instead we're getting Five Nights at Freddy's 2 because it'll sell tickets to the kids.
  • And it gets continuously harder to watch good TV without being subscribed to a dozen different subscription services. No wonder people are sailing the seas like it's the 1700s.

Long story short: Anybody else frustrated right now?

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

on Games with friends · c/games · 2 pts · 205d

Deadlock for the intense sometimes competitive gameplay. For the chill side, Tower Unite. And for the laughs: Super Battle Golf!

on Acceptable loss. · c/tenforward · 3 pts · 205d

I honestly wouldn't have watched Star Trek TNG if I hadn't randomly scrolled through the channels and seen a boy my age on a spaceship.

So regardless of how well written or acted the character is, I'm always really grateful! (But I recognize that's probably a pretty niche situation compared to what other Trekkies feel)