Oof, I feel that on 2... I haven't been able to actually play a game in weeks. I just feel guilty that I should be doing something productive instead and I can't enjoy it.
I think I'm the sad one, I wish I passed better. I pass alright from what people say but my voice doesn't. I've tried voice training but no matter what I still sound like a man (I asked outside opinions, people without seeing me said my voice sounded masculine).
I wish I could get voice fem surgery so I could pass better, also bottom surgery since I hate those parts so much (not as much as I did before estrogen shriveled them up, but I still wish I didn't have things sticking out down below).
My advice for voice training is to make it fun. I could not get myself to do it until I started singing along to music in the car. I kept adding on techniques until I mastered all of them, but eventually, I needed to stop singing fem and start talking fem 100% of the time. If I didn't have fun doing it, I never would have made progress.
I have tried, I've tried for years. My voice is just too deep for it to sound feminine no matter how I speak, and it's not to say that I haven't been trying. I won't deny that I sound slightly more feminine than I did before but it still doesn't pass.
Some people tell me it does but I do know they're only saying it to be nice, because anyone else will greet me as miss or ma'am when they see me but then change to sir when they hear me speak, even if I'm speaking fem.
33 Comments
Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 26 pts · 1y
wow this really is some free engagement bait.. woah
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 1y
True, but you can also just consider which ones fit you. For me:
Eepy transfem: Absolutely, especially since I ran out of ADHD meds 🥲
Gamer: Used to, but can't(damn you ADHD!)
Sad transfem: Yes, but to an reasonable degree given the circumstances
Programmer: Somehow, no
Umm: A bit, as a treat :3
Artist: Yes. My dumbass even wants to write music right now 🙄
Really sad transfem: No! The horrors persist and so must I 😤
Buff transfem: I'm fine with noodle arms, but I really need to bake cake 😩
Tank enthusiast:
socialpankakemix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 pts · 1y
now I really want to hear a song of yours
Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 1y
NOOOO now I have 8 likes!
now i have to be either buff or a tank person...
socialpankakemix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 12 pts · 1y
as I type this my eyes are refusing to stay open how did you know?
Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 1y
That's very artistic of you
socialpankakemix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 1y
you misspelled autistic
MossyFeathers@pawb.social · 11 pts · 1y
Combo of 1, 2, 5, 7
Valmond@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 1y
4&6!
MossyFeathers@pawb.social · 7 pts · 1y
Coincidentally, I actually have some programming and artistic skill too, I just don't do it very often which is why I didn't include them lol.
Valmond@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 1y
Same here for 1,2,5,7 😚
Arkhive@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 9 pts · 1y
I’m at least 4 of these lol, no shot I could narrow it down from there.
Also as a programmer transfem I’m obligated to say, “it’s arch btw” might want to tweak the logo on that laptop lol.
Good meme XD
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y
Thank ShaveYourEyebrows!
Isabella@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 1y
I don't understand so I chose 0-1 eep!
WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 9 pts · 1y
I got sad transfem, peobably true
dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 1y
I assume they belong in /c/transmemes, but I bet nobody cares 😆
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 1y
Memes and other image content are allowed here!
dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 1y
thanks for the clarification! ❤️
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 1y
I figured since it was a transfem specific meme, here would work better.
dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 1y
this community is also larger / more frequented - so good call all around
ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 1y
None of them really fit me. Do I need to hand in my transfem card? :P
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
Not even Eepy?
ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y
Not even!
0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 1y
guess we'll list out ours
1: zzzzzz
2: used to but depression :3
3: :c
4: we use nixos btw
5: awwwrrrufff!!!
6: no
7: :c
8: no
9: no
Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y
Oof, I feel that on 2... I haven't been able to actually play a game in weeks. I just feel guilty that I should be doing something productive instead and I can't enjoy it.
RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 1y
Umm
...
Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 1y
Yes?
Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online · 4 pts · 1y
I think I'm the sad one, I wish I passed better. I pass alright from what people say but my voice doesn't. I've tried voice training but no matter what I still sound like a man (I asked outside opinions, people without seeing me said my voice sounded masculine). I wish I could get voice fem surgery so I could pass better, also bottom surgery since I hate those parts so much (not as much as I did before estrogen shriveled them up, but I still wish I didn't have things sticking out down below).
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y
My advice for voice training is to make it fun. I could not get myself to do it until I started singing along to music in the car. I kept adding on techniques until I mastered all of them, but eventually, I needed to stop singing fem and start talking fem 100% of the time. If I didn't have fun doing it, I never would have made progress.
Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online · 3 pts · 1y
I have tried, I've tried for years. My voice is just too deep for it to sound feminine no matter how I speak, and it's not to say that I haven't been trying. I won't deny that I sound slightly more feminine than I did before but it still doesn't pass. Some people tell me it does but I do know they're only saying it to be nice, because anyone else will greet me as miss or ma'am when they see me but then change to sir when they hear me speak, even if I'm speaking fem.
jbk@discuss.tchncs.de · 3 pts · 1y
yeah idj if I'll really become an artist lol
Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y
0 through 5 (both 0 and 1 because so tired).
kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 1y