while it’s not intrinsically bad or evil, i would do internal investigation as to why your first reaction to seeing a picture of a woman was to comment on her breasts 🤨
Is this your first time being told that women are human beings?
I actually spend a lot of fucking time trying to encourage internet spaces to not make women feel like objects first and human people second, thank you very much.
Your comment not only serves to normalize objectifying comments, it shows women that any time they ask not to be objectified they will be shot down.
Normalization refers to social processes through which ideas and actions come to be seen as 'normal' and become taken-for-granted or 'natural' in everyday life.
Your dismissive response to someone asking for better behavior normalizes both the original sexist behavior and your own act of dismissal. What you said isn’t half as important as the context in which you said it.
The mods are aware of this and that’s why your comment was removed.
You're in shit posting and trying to police what people say and change something philosophically. As much as I agree to your sentiment, maybe read the room. We are here to fuck around.
36 Comments
Teppichbrand@feddit.org · 11 pts · 1y
It's a record
lablelabel :)spujb@lemmy.cafe · 6 pts · 1y
the way you spelled lable gives me seratonin lol it sounds so fancy
rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee · 2 pts · 1y
Lah bley
prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 1y
JoShmoe@ani.social · 11 pts · 1y
Do what better?
Rusty@lemmy.ca · 23 pts · 1y
IT tech support
whoisearth@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 1y
Talk with their hands
BatrickPateman@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 1y
🤌
JoShmoe@ani.social · 2 pts · 1y
We got ourselves a wiseguy eh
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 8 pts · 1y
lies what about the Deaf community
KomfortablesKissen@discuss.tchncs.de · 7 pts · 1y
Still losing to Italians. Now deaf Italians, well, they get featured in religions.
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 5 pts · 1y
When a deaf Italian signs the word “intersectionality” universes are formed at their fingertips
dragonfucker@lemmy.nz · 12 pts · 1y
Kill billionaires
Luigi Mangione isn't guilty though
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 6 pts · 1y
it
Kandy4me@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Exceptionalism
originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com · 6 pts · 1y
eh madonna pulled it off better in the papa dont preach video
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 4 pts · 1y
trisha is my madonna
Obnomus@lemmy.ml · 5 pts · 1y
I don't get it
StinkySocialist@lemmy.ml · 5 pts · 1y
I guess it's in reference to Luigi the suspected CEO shooter 🤷
Sendpicsofsandwiches@sh.itjust.works · 0 pts · 1y
She looks like if someone microwaved angelina jolie like a peep and set her tits from stun to kill
1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 1y
thanks for the shitty review farmer brown.
No_Ones_Slick_Like_Gaston@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Hands on your knees, I'm Angelina Jolie Hands on your knees, Angelina Jolie Let me put my hands on your knees, you can braid my hair Do a fat ...
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 1 pts · 1y
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prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works · -9 pts · 1y
She’s bent in half to hide most of her mass
Machinist@lemmy.world · -27 pts · 1y
I mean, I still totally probably would.
Back in my drinking days, I definitely would have taken her home at last call.
leftytighty@slrpnk.net · 10 pts · 1y
Machinist@lemmy.world · -6 pts · 1y
1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 1y
ew dude. gross comment.
paddirn@lemmy.world · -11 pts · 1y
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 13 pts · 1y
while it’s not intrinsically bad or evil, i would do internal investigation as to why your first reaction to seeing a picture of a woman was to comment on her breasts 🤨
GladiusB@lemmy.world · -8 pts · 1y
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 24 pts · 1y
Is this your first time being told that women are human beings?
I actually spend a lot of fucking time trying to encourage internet spaces to not make women feel like objects first and human people second, thank you very much.
Your comment not only serves to normalize objectifying comments, it shows women that any time they ask not to be objectified they will be shot down.
GladiusB@lemmy.world · -2 pts · 1y
I said nothing of the sort. I affirmed that it is exactly as you say it is. Commonplace.
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 3 pts · 1y
Your dismissive response to someone asking for better behavior normalizes both the original sexist behavior and your own act of dismissal. What you said isn’t half as important as the context in which you said it.
The mods are aware of this and that’s why your comment was removed.
GladiusB@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 1y
You're in shit posting and trying to police what people say and change something philosophically. As much as I agree to your sentiment, maybe read the room. We are here to fuck around.
Zess@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
"It's ok to act like a bigoted piece of shit as long as the situation is right" that's you
spujb@lemmy.cafe · 1 pts · 1y
i beg your pardon? trying to? your comment is removed, my friend. 😝 ending this conversation
dragonfucker@lemmy.nz · 8 pts · 1y
Everyone knows the internet is disgusting, that's not the complaint. The complaint is that it shouldn't be.
GladiusB@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
I never denounced nor affirmed as such. I simply stated it is.