I feel a little bad for it, but like Im also looking at billboards, shop windows, my own reflection in cars, cats running across the road, cool looking bikes going past, odd shaped dog turds, the writing on the back of the guys shirt in front of me.
I dont have the mental fortitude to keep my eyes locked at exactly 12 o clock all the time I'm existing.
Look, people showing cleavage are aware it's going to draw attention. In the same way women know if they put words on their tits you're going to read them. There's a difference between noticing something and staring right at it
I had a dream I went to a thrift store and saw a miniskirt made out of that reflective fabric used for construction sites.
I was so pissed when I woke up
Don't feel bad about it. Just don't sit there slack-jawed and staring. Anyone who tries to make you feel bad about it is just too chronically online for their own good.
Almost like in Austin Powers:
(P.S.: Just saw that it was 1997 like FPS Redneck Rampage, which also had a "teat gun". Now I'm curious if that was coincidence.)
Yes. I work in a place that has dozens of gorgeous women come in every day. It's incredibly easy to not harass, stare, or generally be a creep. But there's nothing wrong with having a glance at someone who looks amazing.
I mean as a gay man I'm constantly checking out like 5 different areas of men constantly. Sorry I'm horny? I'm not making it obvious or them uncomfortable.
This was a hard question to answer for some reason. Probably because I'm into most types of guys. I like guys that are confident in themselves without trying too hard. You can tell when a man loves his body because it will show in his personality, mannerisms, and antics.
I love a big belly or a six-pack, but I lean more to the dad bod type. I love big arms and pecs, but it's not a requirement. That valley between the pecs and the stomach is somewhere I hope to take long naps. I could just curl up on a man's chest and just sleep for ages.
Love a man with thick thighs and calves. I'm a runner so I love when those calves are fucking rock hard.
Honestly, dick size isn't so important to me much. I can have fun with any size. Mostly, I want that dad bod or some pecs to suckle on.
Lastly, hair. I love a hairy man. Beards drive me insane. However, a man with a big belly but totally hairless is kinda hot.
I got really shallow in this post, but I'm okay with that. I like guys that are bigger than me physically, but twunks also get my heart pounding.
Oh shit, I almost forgot my favorite part. A huge badonkadunk. Love a man with an ass bigger than my head lol.
Wow, now I'm horny. I need to go take care of some things. BRB
They are not totally wrong. But not totally right either.
What we perceive as sexual and how we react to it has strong cultural and social influences, of course there is also the baseline biology.
There was a time when women's legs were "tobooed", since being considered as highly sexual and delibaretly hidden.
Nowadays it's no issue at all if women wear clothes that reveal their legs accross all occasions.
So there is some form of habit to it. If we are used to seeing naked body parts in non-sexual contexts, then we will see similar normalization in this regard as with legs or other body parts and areas.
We might benefit from normalizing this. Among other effects, this could help to counter many legal and social issues people have with revealed body parts between genders.
Nope, she's Power Girl. While still Superman's cousin, in this specific continuity (injustice), she's from an alternate timeline. So it's like half incest
Exactly. Why wear provocative clothes and make a bug fuss about men staring at you. Fuckin' women with their stupid logic.
At least here in Poland, I don't see women complaining about this shit, nor do they really care if you check them out. It's probably just a western culture thing.
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yermaw@sh.itjust.works · 187 pts · 355d
I feel a little bad for it, but like Im also looking at billboards, shop windows, my own reflection in cars, cats running across the road, cool looking bikes going past, odd shaped dog turds, the writing on the back of the guys shirt in front of me.
I dont have the mental fortitude to keep my eyes locked at exactly 12 o clock all the time I'm existing.
I kinda resent being made to feel bad for it.
makeshiftreaper@lemmy.world · 109 pts · 355d
Look, people showing cleavage are aware it's going to draw attention. In the same way women know if they put words on their tits you're going to read them. There's a difference between noticing something and staring right at it
LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 34 pts · 354d
But I'm a slow reader
dumbass@leminal.space · 20 pts · 354d
I can only read braile.
Jankatarch@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 354d
Distracted reader*
Ebber@lemmings.world · 16 pts · 354d
A couple of days ago I saw a woman with a fishnet shirt with a bright yellow piece covering the chest, saying "Caution!"
I think it's genius
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 353d
I had a dream I went to a thrift store and saw a miniskirt made out of that reflective fabric used for construction sites.
I was so pissed when I woke up
blarghly@lemmy.world · 88 pts · 354d
Don't feel bad about it. Just don't sit there slack-jawed and staring. Anyone who tries to make you feel bad about it is just too chronically online for their own good.
sentient_loom@sh.itjust.works · 44 pts · 355d
If I was less lazy I'd make an opposite picture where the cleavage is blasting men's eyes with a laser.
hakunawazo@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 353d
Almost like in Austin Powers:
(P.S.: Just saw that it was 1997 like FPS Redneck Rampage, which also had a "teat gun". Now I'm curious if that was coincidence.)
wowwoweowza@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 354d
Men’s eyes are not lasers. It’s a glance. Good grief.
MrSulu@lemmy.ml · 86 pts · 355d
Even ladies look.
python@lemmy.world · 55 pts · 355d
Nothing wrong with a polite glance, just don't make it awkward
ordnance_qf_17_pounder@reddthat.com · 38 pts · 354d
Yes. I work in a place that has dozens of gorgeous women come in every day. It's incredibly easy to not harass, stare, or generally be a creep. But there's nothing wrong with having a glance at someone who looks amazing.
CanadianCarl@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 354d
https://tenor.com/view/crazy-eyes-steve-buscemi-big-eyes-gif-11491116276663604660
janus2@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 354d
especially us ladies who like ladies :]
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 64 pts · 355d
I mean as a gay man I'm constantly checking out like 5 different areas of men constantly. Sorry I'm horny? I'm not making it obvious or them uncomfortable.
sk1nnym1ke@piefed.social · 36 pts · 355d
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 26 pts · 355d
Ass, crotch, thighs, chest and arms. Eyes are a bonus. Pretty much everything about men just revs my engine.
aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 354d
This guy knows how to like men
whoisearth@lemmy.ca · 24 pts · 355d
Ass, dick, chest, shoulders, forearms?
Just a guess I'm a straight dude I have no fucking clue
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 355d
Forearms is a good one. Also I love a man with good hands. A little rough is nice.
whoisearth@lemmy.ca · 6 pts · 355d
You ain't gonna like my hands then hahahaha
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 354d
I mean I don't hate on soft hands. If anything, that tells me you take care of your skin
yermaw@sh.itjust.works · 13 pts · 355d
Real questions
sentient_loom@sh.itjust.works · 17 pts · 355d
Do men even have 5 areas?
socsa@piefed.social · 18 pts · 354d
Left thumb, upper ankle, clavicle, ears, appendix
swab148@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 11 pts · 354d
Can't stand my appendix being ogled
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 354d
Well, maybe your appendix shouldn't have been wearing that. /s
captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 354d
Especially since the operation.
eager_eagle@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 354d
all the areas missing on women
90s_hacker@reddthat.com · 1 pts · 354d
Clavicles are unironically fucking sexy though
ordnance_qf_17_pounder@reddthat.com · 7 pts · 354d
In your opinion, what makes a man look good? I don't mind being checked out.
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 354d
This was a hard question to answer for some reason. Probably because I'm into most types of guys. I like guys that are confident in themselves without trying too hard. You can tell when a man loves his body because it will show in his personality, mannerisms, and antics.
I love a big belly or a six-pack, but I lean more to the dad bod type. I love big arms and pecs, but it's not a requirement. That valley between the pecs and the stomach is somewhere I hope to take long naps. I could just curl up on a man's chest and just sleep for ages.
Love a man with thick thighs and calves. I'm a runner so I love when those calves are fucking rock hard.
Honestly, dick size isn't so important to me much. I can have fun with any size. Mostly, I want that dad bod or some pecs to suckle on.
Lastly, hair. I love a hairy man. Beards drive me insane. However, a man with a big belly but totally hairless is kinda hot.
I got really shallow in this post, but I'm okay with that. I like guys that are bigger than me physically, but twunks also get my heart pounding.
Oh shit, I almost forgot my favorite part. A huge badonkadunk. Love a man with an ass bigger than my head lol.
Wow, now I'm horny. I need to go take care of some things. BRB
EfreetSK@lemmy.world · 47 pts · 355d
So I hate women because I'm attracted to women?
Linearity@infosec.pub · 43 pts · 355d
I think the joke is about staring at them, not shooting them with a deadly laser
Lev@europe.pub · 21 pts · 355d
He was probably referring to the misogyny in the title
blarghly@lemmy.world · -8 pts · 354d
Looking at boobs is misogyny.
snooggums@piefed.world · 6 pts · 354d
I chuckled.
slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org · 1 pts · 354d
Uff, that could've gone wrong.
carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone · -27 pts · 355d
there’s a big difference between being attracted to women and staring at their boobs
lesbians can manage one without the other just fine, why can’t you?
alk@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 46 pts · 355d
You are mistaken, lesbians definitely stare too.
Contentedness@lemmy.nz · 32 pts · 355d
Straight women stare at a nice rack, too.
blarghly@lemmy.world · -21 pts · 354d
"straight"
slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org · 41 pts · 355d
If guys had half their dicks out, people would state too.
But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world · 27 pts · 354d
We should create a new fashion where men wear underwear that shows ball cleavage
snooggums@piefed.world · 20 pts · 354d
Like truck nuts, but for people!
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 353d
I don't know how to feel about this sentiment
Duamerthrax@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 354d
Bring codpieces back!
MintyFresh@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 354d
slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org · 1 pts · 354d
But dick or balls?
But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 354d
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 354d
Imagine dudes walking around with a little cut out in their pants for the nut sack.
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 354d
only 1 ball is allowed to show. 1.5 if you're going to the club
urheber@discuss.tchncs.de · 6 pts · 354d
Right, dick = breasts
RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com · 32 pts · 354d
they both got piss in them, so yeah
cmgvd3lw@discuss.tchncs.de · 21 pts · 354d
left dick = ?
Zacryon@feddit.org · 3 pts · 354d
They are not totally wrong. But not totally right either.
What we perceive as sexual and how we react to it has strong cultural and social influences, of course there is also the baseline biology.
There was a time when women's legs were "tobooed", since being considered as highly sexual and delibaretly hidden.
Nowadays it's no issue at all if women wear clothes that reveal their legs accross all occasions.
So there is some form of habit to it. If we are used to seeing naked body parts in non-sexual contexts, then we will see similar normalization in this regard as with legs or other body parts and areas.
We might benefit from normalizing this. Among other effects, this could help to counter many legal and social issues people have with revealed body parts between genders.
slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org · 0 pts · 354d
Alright, so moobs and boobs are equal in your opinion?
wowwoweowza@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 354d
Stare.
But fellows do not mosey around finding ways to cleverly expose their shafts unless you give them your cell number, and that makes it okay.
iamdefinitelyoverthirteen@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 354d
Nice ball rack, bro.
Jankatarch@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 354d
Optional homo :3
badcommandorfilename@lemmy.world · 41 pts · 355d
I won't apologize for my gender.
Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 354d
Not being gay means your anti trans somehow.
ileftreddit@piefed.social · 36 pts · 354d
Tonava@sopuli.xyz · 2 pts · 354d
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 353d
"boobs. noted."
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 24 pts · 354d
this aired in 2002
so it's not like media hasn't been both calling out, taking advantage of, and making fun of male gaze
bunchberry@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 354d
it's hard for us male gays, always being made fun of 😔
vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 353d
Some Femboys have tits, is it gay to like femboy tits? I mayhaps found a loophole for you lot.
NONE_dc@lemmy.world · 18 pts · 355d
Isn't she Kara, AKA Supergirl...?
They are cousins... That makes it weirder.
RedStamp@piefed.social · 14 pts · 354d
Nope, she's Power Girl. While still Superman's cousin, in this specific continuity (injustice), she's from an alternate timeline. So it's like half incest
SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca · 6 pts · 354d
It's quantum incest... you just made it be incest by observing it.
rainwall@piefed.social · 4 pts · 354d
A clone of his cousin, then.
We should toss superboy in there, get Superman's/luthors clone involved.
Call it half of a half incest.
rovingnothing29@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 355d
Smallville is Alabama now? Is this another reboot?
King3d@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 354d
Dean Cain is a hillbilly, so yeah.
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world · 17 pts · 354d
If Power Girl didn't want people to stare at her cleavage, maybe reconsider the outfit
But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 354d
Cousin cleavage
DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social · 1 pts · 354d
I think she's a cousin of a Superman from another universe so technically it's cool.
Unless it's different in the Injustice setting...
iamdefinitelyoverthirteen@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 354d
Bewbs
daggermoon@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 354d
Titties are cool
Liljekonvalj@feddit.org · 10 pts · 354d
Butcracks also exist
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 28 pts · 354d
omniman@anarchist.nexus · 9 pts · 354d
homelander drinking milk gif
pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 7 pts · 354d
omniman@anarchist.nexus · 7 pts · 354d
thx
realitista@piefed.world · 4 pts · 355d
She's very well drawn.
globuli@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 351d
The laser eyes are strong with this one.
chunes@lemmy.world · -2 pts · 354d
If only there was a way to prevent people from looking at your cleavage...
Bo7a@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 354d
Boob kerchief?
AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip · 8 pts · 354d
I actually dont know what you mean lol. Reduction surgery? Full burka???
Gork@sopuli.xyz · 8 pts · 354d
Boobka
Squirrelanna@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 353d
Blindfold.
SippyCup@feddit.nl · -2 pts · 354d
Yeah it's called Look Up.
Are you looking at cleavage? Stop it. Look up.
I like boobies too but dude take some personal responsibility. Let people live their lives
protogen420@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 0 pts · 354d
it is called not showing them
tatterdemalion@programming.dev · 3 pts · 354d
What an idiotic suggestion. Hetero men everywhere will rejoice in you shutting the fuck up right now.
Matriks404@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 354d
Exactly. Why wear provocative clothes and make a bug fuss about men staring at you. Fuckin' women with their stupid logic.
At least here in Poland, I don't see women complaining about this shit, nor do they really care if you check them out. It's probably just a western culture thing.
gaybriel_fr_br@jlai.lu · -16 pts · 355d
You're dumber than the 0.1%