Wish me luck everyone

Gonna come out to my entire social circle in the village I am originally from. This means coming out to 30 people at once and hope it goes well :3

Update: it went well, did not receive any negative "feedback", but got some compliments on being so brave to do that in this round.

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37 Comments

cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone · 48 pts · 307d (1 reply)

you're using :3 they already know

(but for real good luck :3)

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 28 pts · 307d

Havent used :3 around them. They just saw me with painted nails once or twice.

ItsLucky@pawb.social · 30 pts · 307d (2 replies)

Good Luck :3

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 23 pts · 307d (1 reply)

Good Lucky :3 pat pat

ItsLucky@pawb.social · 9 pts · 307d

I see what you did there hehe >:3

Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 24 pts · 307d (2 replies)

If it destroys your social circle, you need a new social circle.

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 21 pts · 307d (1 reply)

I will report back how it goes (gonna do that today in the evening). I have to do it since I started HRT now and so I kinda want to avoid for people to realise changes without knowing I'm trans.

Also I dont want to hide who I really am any longer.

Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 307d

That's fair. I'm in the ... Enviable?.. position, that I don't have a social circle to come out to. So I'll just take it as it comes.

Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 307d (1 reply)

Yay, congrats! I’m so glad your social circle was supportive. 💕

I just shared your story with my girlfriend (we’re both women, we know what it’s like to “come out.”) She wanted to share that she’s so glad for you, and that she wishes you a beautiful life journey!

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 7 pts · 307d

Thank you (and your girlfriend)

Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 13 pts · 307d (2 replies)

Jokes on you, I don't have a social circle!

sighs and goes back to watching anime

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 10 pts · 307d (1 reply)

hugs you

Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 pts · 307d

hugs back

AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net · 10 pts · 307d

Congrats!

Edit: thanks for taking the time to update us. It means a lot to see small snippets of good news like this.

maya@piefed.blahaj.zone · 8 pts · 307d

Hell yeah, I'm glad that coming out went well for you :3

MissyBee@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 8 pts · 307d (1 reply)

You won't be living there forever. And friends who accept your queerness are way better.

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 9 pts · 307d

Im not there most of the time, so it isnt to bad if that social circle dies, but it would still be sad to lose literally all social contacts when I'm there (and also lose the contact to all this people I've known for years) just because they aren't accepting.

osaerisxero@kbin.melroy.org · 8 pts · 307d (3 replies)

⬆️➡️⬇️⬇️⬇️

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 5 pts · 307d (2 replies)

OK, what Am I calling in when pressing that combimation?

(I'm assuming its a Helldiver's 2 reference)

thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 307d (1 reply)

I think that's the 500kg bomb from the eagle

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 4 pts · 307d

Was my first guess, but couldn't look it up

Cass@piefed.blahaj.zone · 7 pts · 307d (1 reply)

Today? Good luck!!!

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 11 pts · 307d

Thanks. I will definitely need that. Will Update once I knew how it went

rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 5 pts · 307d

I'm pressing thumbs for you!

TechieDamien@lemmy.ml · 5 pts · 306d

I'm right behind you! The only people I haven't come out to yet are in the workplace and can't be ditched as easily if things go sour. I'm glad everything worked out well for you!

RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 307d

30 people at once? that's... gl

AntiBullyRanger@ani.social · 4 pts · 307d (3 replies)

Heh, the Thanksgiving tradition of coming out to your formers. hehehehe.

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 3 pts · 307d (2 replies)

Its not thanksgiving (I'm not from the us, so it doesn't even get celebrated here) but instead the general assembly of a club I'm part of.

AntiBullyRanger@ani.social · 1 pts · 307d (1 reply)

🔥 hope they are welcoming.🤞
I’ve read you will update here several times, no need to repeat yourself:3

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 3 pts · 307d

Post is updated

thelsim@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 307d

Best of luck!
I hope everything will go smoothly :3

SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 304d

we did it, team!

StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 307d

They know :3

Estiar@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 307d (1 reply)

I gotta know how it goes

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 3 pts · 307d

I will Update The description once I get the time for it. This will probably be in around 5 hours or so.

lwhjp@piefed.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 306d (1 reply)

Good luck to you. I sincerely hope it goes better than you imagine.

Although I suspect and hope your friends will be accepting. Best wishes!

cows_are_underrated@feddit.org · 2 pts · 306d

See the updated description, everything went well