tbf it is possible, I can imagine someone who's fine with their AGAB but just wants different genitals.
And maybe it's a good thing to detangle that from being trans even for trans people, because then people can explore things at their own pace without immediately having to confront the big gender question.
I've seen that sentiment a lot in lesbian circles tbh. Where they might have a breeding kink but can't live it that well due to genitals and those straps you can use fake cum with don't do it for them
i think that's how body dismorphia then gender disphoria. and I'm assuming the post refers to gender disphoria, ie, guy who wants a vagina or lass who wants a shlong.
Honestly as a transfem with mostly social and biochemical dysphoria, but with no bottom dysphoria at all, it makes at least a small amount of sense.
If I can be a girl who wants to keep her OEM dick, then why can't a cis girl want one too?
Same kind of stuff that makes people get a salmacian. People are allowed to want whatever genitals they want, regardless of identity. It just hits weird to think of it that way 🤷♀️
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zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 37 pts · 259d
tbf it is possible, I can imagine someone who's fine with their AGAB but just wants different genitals.
And maybe it's a good thing to detangle that from being trans even for trans people, because then people can explore things at their own pace without immediately having to confront the big gender question.
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 pts · 259d
Honestly, that's a good point.
atom@pawb.social · 3 pts · 257d
it certainly is, i'm one of those people xP
renegadespork@lemmy.jelliefrontier.net · 17 pts · 259d
Is that like a cis man wishing their penis was bigger?
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 22 pts · 259d
They probably mean "I'm totally a cis girl, but it makes me really sad that I don't have a penis"
Sas@piefed.blahaj.zone · 16 pts · 259d
I've seen that sentiment a lot in lesbian circles tbh. Where they might have a breeding kink but can't live it that well due to genitals and those straps you can use fake cum with don't do it for them
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 259d
Could also be a cis guy who just hates having a dick. Idk i get hating having one
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 259d
i think that's how body dismorphia then gender disphoria. and I'm assuming the post refers to gender disphoria, ie, guy who wants a vagina or lass who wants a shlong.
Hexarei@beehaw.org · 10 pts · 258d
Honestly as a transfem with mostly social and biochemical dysphoria, but with no bottom dysphoria at all, it makes at least a small amount of sense.
If I can be a girl who wants to keep her OEM dick, then why can't a cis girl want one too?
Same kind of stuff that makes people get a salmacian. People are allowed to want whatever genitals they want, regardless of identity. It just hits weird to think of it that way 🤷♀️
birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 237d
Maybe it could be like wanting a bigger dick or less outie-ish vulva?