Should I meet the guy I met from online cam modelling a couple yrs ago?

We talk on and off and he keeps bringing up seeing each other irl but idk.

Edit to add/ hes quite easy to talk to like I know him kinda easy and I’d say we get along ok. He said he loves me…

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zxqwas@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 202d

Sounds like you don't really want to.

blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 12 pts · 202d

Online cam modelling you say?

Jokes aside, that's a bad idea. You wouldn't be asking here else

SolidShake@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 202d (1 reply)

Nope

garth@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 202d

Nothing good can come of this.

Stormy@thelemmy.club · 6 pts · 201d

Horrible idea, especially if he's repeatedly asking or bringing it up, no.

FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 202d

Parasocial relationship... could be a stalker... also bad basis for a relationship (be thst friendship or something else)

Mac@mander.xyz · 5 pts · 201d

He's pressuring you to meet.
He told you he loves you.
You're uncomfortable.

Suuuuuuper sus. Definitely don't meet—in fact, cease contact.

Hopefully it's just parasocial and not something much more sinister.

lemeteque@slrpnk.net · 3 pts · 201d

Are you open to a relationship with him? If not, does he already know that?

Why would you want to meet up? Why wouldn't you want to meet up? Talk about it with him.

one_old_coder@piefed.social · 2 pts · 201d (1 reply)

Do you love him?

hayyy@thelemmy.club · 3 pts · 201d

I don’t think so…