Reading a book at 20, then again at 50, then again at 80 will hit very differently. I'm not yet 50 but I'm rereading books that already feel like an entirely new experience. The Hitchhiker trilogy is one example. I'm more ready to sympathize with Arthur than I was the first time around.
I have something like this. Nothing Was the Same by K. R. Jamison is about grief and about her experience of losing a loved one. I'm saving it for the moment I lose my parents. I know I'll need her to bring some consolation and perspective because it's going to hurt.
I've heard On the Beach by Nevil Shute is an interesting read. It's definitely on my to read list for sometime in the future. If you're already basically on death's door and gonna be gone soon, there won't be much time to get depressed over a depressing book about people in Australia awaiting radiation from nuclear world war slowly making it's way over to the last habitable place on the planet.
Edit:
As for books I have read, Fourteen Days, apparently by a collaboration of many authors, including Margaret Atwood. The caviat is I got most way through but didn't finish it in time before having to turn it back into the library. Follows a woman whose dad worked as basically a maintenance type person for those apartment buildings in New York. She ends up becoming one herself out of need for money while her dad stays in a care facility. COVID hits as she's starting, so she's in lockdown along with the other tenants. Throughout, they all start gathering on a rooftop every night ( even though they're not supposed to ) as the main character records what happens to basically eventually put it into a journal from the person who had her job before her.
I feel like that's such a personal choice as to what you'd like your final thoughts to be. I, "funny" enough, was just talking to a friend with terminal cancer about what they're reading yesterday. It was "The Once and Future King," a childhood favorite. Nostolgia aside, they love the sweet tragedy of the story, the silly and earnest warmth of it.
For me, maybe something like the Doadejing or Siddhartha, something reassuring that life had been good and that a peaceful end is the best outcome to a well-lived life.
If it's a book, and it's in 20-70 years from now, maybe Parable of the Sower and Parable of the Talents. By then, those books will probably read as a history and you can marvel at Octavia Butler's prescience.
Im going to deviate slightly. I'd say the last film I want to see is Synecodoche, NY. I hope that, on reflection, my life's work is as grand as that of PSH's character in the film.
I just hope that, despite the work, I get out more often.
The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. It's a farewell and reflection on his life as he faces his inevitable death from cancer. It's beautiful and sad and insightful
Poetry, I would suggest quite a few poets. If I had to pick one it would the French Paul Eluard... which is not even the greatest poet in my opinion, just the one I first fell in love with as a young reader. If not him I would pick Baudelaire (another French poet) or maybe René Char. In English this time, the amazing Emily Dickinson. Those wrote verses I would love to read one last time when time comes.
Philosophy? Here again it all depends the languages you can read. Spinoza, Nietzsche, Plato, Aristotle. a few selected pages from Marx. Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Diderot are way too often not read by too many people that so poorly speak of them and their ideas. Which is kinda sad but also very telling our days. I would consider re-reading Emmanuel Levinas.
Spirituality? I mean, the New Testament is a great text whether you believe in a god or not. So is Marcus Aurelius, or Saint Augustin.
Novels? Tolstoy 'War and Peace' and his 'Anna Karenina' (the best novel that was ever written), or my dear Flaubert 'Madame Bovary' (or his "La tentation de Saint Antoine"), Marcel Proust "A la recherche du temps perdu" (but here one would need to die real slow to be able to read it from start to finish ;)
Plays? The complete work of Molière, which is still the best playwright ever along with Racine, Shakespeare and the Ancient Greeks.
Or maybe get a taste of the root of all Western literature? Read Homer. Or a personal lifelong companion of mine: Ovid's 'Metamorphoses', a book that quite literally...metamorphosed my life.
Or maybe some comics? Watterson's "Calvin & Hobbes" would be my first pick. Then some Asterix (from the time their original creators were both alive, not their modern reboots)
I don't have a real recommendation, I just want to say that I think this is a bad idea; What if the highly recommended book turns out to be one you find mindnumbingly boring and/or stupid? I can see this working if it's the last book in a series you already like, but otherwise it's risky.
There's no way I'll want to read heavy shit when I'm already staring down the barrel of mortality. I'm going for some YA pulp nonsense that I can clown on with my contemporaries. maybe the Twilight saga.
Respectfully, how do you know your mind will start to fail after your body? If you keep avoiding not reading that book, your odds of permanently depriving yourself of it continue to increase... Read the book, discuss it with your loved ones.
43 Comments
kindnesskills@literature.cafe · 18 pts · 117d
I wouldn't wait to read something I actually want to read, because life and death is unpredictable.
I would rather plan to reread a book at different stages of life and find out how much I've changed by how differently feel about the same story.
Or I'd (re)read something like House of Leaves, just because it'd be very funny to have that type of book be the thing that finally kills me.
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 116d
givesomefucks@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 117d
You want to save a book you want to read till you're super old?
Accidents happen...
If you want to read a book, read the book. Don't plan to read it in 20-60 years
Karl@literature.cafe · 5 pts · 117d
Probably.
But idk... Reading a book that you planned to read like 60 years ago when you were much different seems cool to me
queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone · 8 pts · 117d
Reading a book at 20, then again at 50, then again at 80 will hit very differently. I'm not yet 50 but I'm rereading books that already feel like an entirely new experience. The Hitchhiker trilogy is one example. I'm more ready to sympathize with Arthur than I was the first time around.
starlinguk@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 117d
I reread Pratchett's Night Watch every couple of years and it's different every time. Ditto Nation.
Katrisia@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 114d
I have something like this. Nothing Was the Same by K. R. Jamison is about grief and about her experience of losing a loved one. I'm saving it for the moment I lose my parents. I know I'll need her to bring some consolation and perspective because it's going to hurt.
porcoesphino@mander.xyz · 14 pts · 116d
If you're planning a suicide there are people out there to talk to:
https://therecover.com/suicide-hotline-numbers-by-country/
If not, don't waste the book by waiting
Karl@literature.cafe · 2 pts · 116d
Nahhh, I'm too much of a p*ssy for that
AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip · 6 pts · 116d
I've heard On the Beach by Nevil Shute is an interesting read. It's definitely on my to read list for sometime in the future. If you're already basically on death's door and gonna be gone soon, there won't be much time to get depressed over a depressing book about people in Australia awaiting radiation from nuclear world war slowly making it's way over to the last habitable place on the planet.
Edit:
As for books I have read, Fourteen Days, apparently by a collaboration of many authors, including Margaret Atwood. The caviat is I got most way through but didn't finish it in time before having to turn it back into the library. Follows a woman whose dad worked as basically a maintenance type person for those apartment buildings in New York. She ends up becoming one herself out of need for money while her dad stays in a care facility. COVID hits as she's starting, so she's in lockdown along with the other tenants. Throughout, they all start gathering on a rooftop every night ( even though they're not supposed to ) as the main character records what happens to basically eventually put it into a journal from the person who had her job before her.
That is all I will say on it.
double_oh_walter@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 116d
Tuesdays with Morrie. It gives a great perspective on how to have a positive outlook on life, even in its final days!
Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 116d
The very first book in The Wandering Inn series. You cant die until you finish it.
Immortality unlocked.
codexarcanum@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 117d
I feel like that's such a personal choice as to what you'd like your final thoughts to be. I, "funny" enough, was just talking to a friend with terminal cancer about what they're reading yesterday. It was "The Once and Future King," a childhood favorite. Nostolgia aside, they love the sweet tragedy of the story, the silly and earnest warmth of it.
For me, maybe something like the Doadejing or Siddhartha, something reassuring that life had been good and that a peaceful end is the best outcome to a well-lived life.
eightpix@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 116d
If it's a book, and it's in 20-70 years from now, maybe Parable of the Sower and Parable of the Talents. By then, those books will probably read as a history and you can marvel at Octavia Butler's prescience.
Im going to deviate slightly. I'd say the last film I want to see is Synecodoche, NY. I hope that, on reflection, my life's work is as grand as that of PSH's character in the film.
I just hope that, despite the work, I get out more often.
naught101@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 116d
Brutal.
farbidden_lands@quokk.au · 3 pts · 116d
ZombieCyborgFromOuterSpace@piefed.ca · 3 pts · 117d
I'd read an encyclopedia of the history of my lifetime to remember things I might have forgotten.
That and a photo album of my life.
frank@sopuli.xyz · 3 pts · 117d
The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. It's a farewell and reflection on his life as he faces his inevitable death from cancer. It's beautiful and sad and insightful
lokalhorst@feddit.org · 3 pts · 117d
Irvyn Yalom - Staring at the Sun
Libb@piefed.social · 3 pts · 117d
Depends what you're interested in?
Poetry, I would suggest quite a few poets. If I had to pick one it would the French Paul Eluard... which is not even the greatest poet in my opinion, just the one I first fell in love with as a young reader. If not him I would pick Baudelaire (another French poet) or maybe René Char. In English this time, the amazing Emily Dickinson. Those wrote verses I would love to read one last time when time comes.
Philosophy? Here again it all depends the languages you can read. Spinoza, Nietzsche, Plato, Aristotle. a few selected pages from Marx. Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Diderot are way too often not read by too many people that so poorly speak of them and their ideas. Which is kinda sad but also very telling our days. I would consider re-reading Emmanuel Levinas.
Spirituality? I mean, the New Testament is a great text whether you believe in a god or not. So is Marcus Aurelius, or Saint Augustin.
Novels? Tolstoy 'War and Peace' and his 'Anna Karenina' (the best novel that was ever written), or my dear Flaubert 'Madame Bovary' (or his "La tentation de Saint Antoine"), Marcel Proust "A la recherche du temps perdu" (but here one would need to die real slow to be able to read it from start to finish ;)
Plays? The complete work of Molière, which is still the best playwright ever along with Racine, Shakespeare and the Ancient Greeks.
Or maybe get a taste of the root of all Western literature? Read Homer. Or a personal lifelong companion of mine: Ovid's 'Metamorphoses', a book that quite literally...metamorphosed my life.
Or maybe some comics? Watterson's "Calvin & Hobbes" would be my first pick. Then some Asterix (from the time their original creators were both alive, not their modern reboots)
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 117d
Solid answer!
thesohoriots@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 117d
Allegedly Shakespeare said not to see King Lear until you’re old. It’s pretty brutal. I recommend it sooner.
neidu3@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 117d
I don't have a real recommendation, I just want to say that I think this is a bad idea; What if the highly recommended book turns out to be one you find mindnumbingly boring and/or stupid? I can see this working if it's the last book in a series you already like, but otherwise it's risky.
Read what you want, and don't hesitate.
Also, phonebook.
FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 117d
Something lighthearted and not depressing. Anne of Green Gables
pdxfed@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 116d
HHGTTG, Les Miserables or Don Quixote.
toiletobserver@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 117d
The far side comic collection
gigastasio@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 117d
The Road.
By the time you finish it, you’ll be glad you’re almost dead.
Karl@literature.cafe · 1 pts · 117d
Ah I've read that one. and that's just an old man torturing himself lol
queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 117d
There's no way I'll want to read heavy shit when I'm already staring down the barrel of mortality. I'm going for some YA pulp nonsense that I can clown on with my contemporaries. maybe the Twilight saga.
Grail@multiverse.soulism.net · 2 pts · 117d
Look to Windward by Iain M Banks.
osanna@lemmy.vg · 1 pts · 117d
well, the best book I've EVER read was Abandoned by Anya Peters. So sad. I'm glad she came through okay and lived a better life.
Janx@piefed.social · 1 pts · 117d
Respectfully, how do you know your mind will start to fail after your body? If you keep avoiding not reading that book, your odds of permanently depriving yourself of it continue to increase... Read the book, discuss it with your loved ones.
NoSpotOfGround@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 117d
Whatever book you remember reading first, read it again at the end.
Karl@literature.cafe · 2 pts · 117d
Well... My first book was Harry Potter T-T
But I guess I could read the book I read after that series
one_old_coder@piefed.social · 1 pts · 103d
Read Bladerunner because you will spend your last days wondering whether Rick is a replicant or not.
Karl@literature.cafe · 0 pts · 103d
There's a book like that? I thought it was a movie or game or something
one_old_coder@piefed.social · 1 pts · 103d
A troll it is then.
Appleseuss@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 116d
Daytripper by Gabriel Ba and Fabio Moone
luthis@lemmy.nz · 1 pts · 117d
I heard an owl call my name
AstroLightz@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 117d
Tuesdays with Morrie. One of my favorite books.
clag@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 116d
The Giving Tree
MintyFresh@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 116d
Old man and the sea
Flyswat@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 0 pts · 117d
Personally I'd recommend the Quran. Although I wouldn't recommend delaying reading it.
Karl@literature.cafe · 2 pts · 116d
Yeah I don't want it to be my last book, but I am planning on reading it someday.
MysticMushroom1776@fedinsfw.app · 0 pts · 117d
newton@feddit.online · 3 pts · 117d
It's here in the adult section on the left, next to porn and bestiality.
MysticMushroom1776@fedinsfw.app · 0 pts · 117d