Honestly, my first answer was "nothing, I don't deserve something nice because I haven't been hitting my goals recently". Then I felt bad about that because being too hard on ourselves is counterproductive, so now I'll set aside some time to stretch tomorrow.
This question is valuable, because it helped me crystallize some things in my head:
I don't have the energy to make plans.
I don't believe that I deserve something nice.
The only nice things I dream about and have the strength to keep in mind from time to time (a female body and voice, immortality for me and my family, the eradication of racism, transphobia and macho culture) are unattainable.
I'm writing this down and bringing it to my doctor next time I see them.
I’m going to the music night put on by the local public radio station at the local semi-pro soccer game. It’s a double header and there’s a bunch of concerts in between. I think it’s gonna be a lot of fun.
played a little minecraft after all my yard work was done. i had the intention of starting a small fence in the front yard but my wife took the wind out of my sails by telling me, in a drunk and manic moment she was having, that she didn’t believe in me to do it right let alone good. so i’ve been feeling shitty. so in minecraft i started a new house lol. nothing but dull shit here. sorry.
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Bustedknuckles@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 68d
Honestly, my first answer was "nothing, I don't deserve something nice because I haven't been hitting my goals recently". Then I felt bad about that because being too hard on ourselves is counterproductive, so now I'll set aside some time to stretch tomorrow.
akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 68d
Stretching is amazing and underrated. Have a good sessh. 🧘♀️
dethedrus@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 7 pts · 68d
Trying to make a handful of new dessert recipes, ostensibly for my granddaughter's wedding this fall.
It's completely coincidental that they're all things I want to shove in my word hole.
akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 68d
This question is valuable, because it helped me crystallize some things in my head:
I'm writing this down and bringing it to my doctor next time I see them.
Beth@piefed.social · 5 pts · 68d
Ordered some new earrings and pants. Gonna eat my favorite spicy ramen. Not gonna step on the scale.
akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 68d
Spicy ramen is teh shit 🤤 dunno where you live but if you can find it: https://www.amazon.com/Mouko-Tanmen-Nakamoto-6cups-%E3%80%90Japan/dp/B00KEU4BFQ
Beth@piefed.social · 3 pts · 68d
I am blessed to have two Asian markets near me. Currently having spicy tteokbokki.
rimu@piefed.social · 5 pts · 68d
Playing a ton of Stellaris.
Planting some trees with a community group beside a river.
Go for a walk in the sun with the dog.
CombatWombat@feddit.online · 4 pts · 68d
I’m going to the music night put on by the local public radio station at the local semi-pro soccer game. It’s a double header and there’s a bunch of concerts in between. I think it’s gonna be a lot of fun.
boltzbruh@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 68d
Going to the Utrecht pride with my bf and friends :D
Briguy@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 68d
It's my birthday today so I'm having some friends over to grill and have a fire later
djmikeale@feddit.dk · 1 pts · 68d
Happy birthday!
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org · 3 pts · 68d
Hitting the gym, on both weekend days. It's questionable how nice it is, but I'm most definitely doing it for my own enjoyment and benefit.
Bipauler@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 68d
Maybe I'll see my parents and hang with my sister a bit.
HubertManne@piefed.social · 1 pts · 67d
playing to much video games.
flandish@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 68d
played a little minecraft after all my yard work was done. i had the intention of starting a small fence in the front yard but my wife took the wind out of my sails by telling me, in a drunk and manic moment she was having, that she didn’t believe in me to do it right let alone good. so i’ve been feeling shitty. so in minecraft i started a new house lol. nothing but dull shit here. sorry.