I will say, sometimes you need space/time to settle an argument. Not saying let it hang but I think understanding your partners space/time needs is critical.
Still saying I love you every night helps a ton though!
The amount of concessions you grant are tied directly to what time your alarm clock is set to.
Sure thing honey, I was totally flirting with the pizza delivery girl for the entire 4 seconds the door was open. Very disrespectful. Won't do it again. Honestly. Please let me sleep.
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zoloftt@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 13d
I will say, sometimes you need space/time to settle an argument. Not saying let it hang but I think understanding your partners space/time needs is critical.
Still saying I love you every night helps a ton though!
Broadfern@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 13d
Saying “We’ll figure this out, I still love you” when you need that time break is the secret code to that balance imo.
Still stressed from the argument but it’s a reminder that it’s not fighting against your partner, but with them against the misunderstanding.
Hello_there@fedia.io · 18 pts · 13d
Hard to settle an argument before end of day when the partner waits until it's late at night to bring shit up
Aralakh@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 13d
Ah yes, something I've been working on with my partner too. I'm way too tired for this shit at 2am
acockworkorange@mander.xyz · 4 pts · 10d
It's bad wording. The message is to not bottle feelings, resolve the issues. Bottling up leads to resentment and that's poison for any relationship.
yermaw@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 13d
The amount of concessions you grant are tied directly to what time your alarm clock is set to.
Sure thing honey, I was totally flirting with the pizza delivery girl for the entire 4 seconds the door was open. Very disrespectful. Won't do it again. Honestly. Please let me sleep.
whaleross@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 13d
Is hitting hard part of the strategy?