My therapist must have been dying on the inside for the months of âugh, I hate being a guy, I donât want anyone to look at me and lump me in with the rest of the menâ before I finally figured it out lol
Haha sorry about that! It took me staring so many obvious signs in the face before I got it. That doesnât necessarily mean youâre trans or not, but just know that there are no wrong answers either way, and this community is certainly accepting of folks who are questioning đ
Omg that was me too. Trans friend to egg me: "have you ever had any gender feelings?". My dumb ass: "no not really, I mean I absolutely hate being a man and I hate everything masculine about myself, and I don't want to be seen as a man, but I guess I am one so i guess I'll continue to deal with it". Her: "okay then...".
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compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone · 26 pts · 20d
My therapist must have been dying on the inside for the months of âugh, I hate being a guy, I donât want anyone to look at me and lump me in with the rest of the menâ before I finally figured it out lol
Hazel@piefed.blahaj.zone · 26 pts · 20d
The worst part of being a man is other men đĽ˛
thurstylark@lemmy.today · 17 pts · 20d
Oh, god. Why you gotta hit me with another sign all casually like that >:|
compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 17d
Haha sorry about that! It took me staring so many obvious signs in the face before I got it. That doesnât necessarily mean youâre trans or not, but just know that there are no wrong answers either way, and this community is certainly accepting of folks who are questioning đ
Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 pts · 18d
Omg that was me too. Trans friend to egg me: "have you ever had any gender feelings?". My dumb ass: "no not really, I mean I absolutely hate being a man and I hate everything masculine about myself, and I don't want to be seen as a man, but I guess I am one so i guess I'll continue to deal with it". Her: "okay then...".
compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 17d
Oh god, I said that exact sentence so many times đ âI guess I am one so I guess Iâll just keep dealing with itâ
I want to go back and shake egg-me by the shoulders and tell her that you can just⌠be a girl!
Rugnjr@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 20d