Mine is for a very specific kind of depression that's really more of a vibe of melancholic regret and realization of self limitations which breeds a strange, nearly apathetic anxiety. The Devil And God Are Raging Inside Me by Brand New (full album) just picks at a scab that you know probably isn't healthy but feels satisfying to indulge.
For existential dread, Dark Side of the Moon by Pink Floyd hits way different now than when I was young. Especially the songs Time and Great Gig In The Sky.
For depression depression, I couldn't be bothered to listen to any music. "Music is for winners" is kinda the mindset. Not helpful, but depression is a motherfucker and it's almost like self-inflicted emotional abuse when you're already vulnerable. You feel miserable and convince yourself that you deserve misery, so all is right in the world. It fucking sucks and I hope that if this comment causes anything in anybody's brain to light up, saying "hey wait a minute, is that not normal?", then please invest in yourself and spend some time with a therapist, take more vitamin D, and try to do what you can to get yourself to a place where those feelings are just memories that you can mention on Lemmy in hopes of helping others the same way that you needed help.
The Devil and God Are Raging Inside Me is such a good album. In some ways I hate listening to it because I know it's not helping me but at the same time everything about it is just perfect
This is probably the best answer I've seen. Watching them build the song over the OK Computer tour when you were sure they were going to implode... It hits just right.
It's not really a single song for me, it really depends on how depressed I am and whether I want to dive deeper into it (which really helps a lot sometimes) or make myself feel better.
Dive-in (including, but not limited to):
The album Spiderland by Slint is pretty much full of depression songs for me, gloomy and full of dread. Don, Aman and Washer in particular are very hard hitting for me.
F#A#∞ by Godspeed You! Black Emperor has similar vibes but is a lot more dystopian and pessimistic. Ever since hearing East Hastings in 28 Days Later it's been my favourite song on the album.
Feel better (including, but not limited to):
Everybody Hurts by R.E.M.; I normally don't like this kind of songs but this one just feels honest and sincere which I can appreciate, plus Michael Stipe just has a great voice.
Down Under by Men At Work; Pretty much the polar opposite of the post-punk/-rock songs mentioned above. I really want to move to Australia one day and this song reminds me of that goal.
Happiness/The Gondola Man by Elliott Smith; just a nice song and I really like Elliott's voice.
I've got a playlist, "Everything sucks but that's ok". This Year by The Mountain Goats is usually a solid pick. It's wistful and defiant without being too sweet.
I got so tired of discussing my future
I started avoiding the people I love
Evenings of silence and mornings of nausea
Shake and sweat and I can’t throw up
And if things are starting to get a little better Good As It Gets by Little Hurt is great. It is incredibly catchy.
Suite: Judy Blue Eyes by Crosby, Stills, and Nash (and sometimes Young). Also, Wooden Ships, same band. Four Way Street is an outstanding album full of heavy hitters
Owen's Theme from Torchwood. Not an amazing show, but the music was written and composed by Ben Foster & Murray Gold who brought us all the haunting music from the new Dr. Who series. The descending pattern, combined with Owen's own tragic story is one of the most indulgent depressing songs I've ever heard.
Album or song? Because for me, they both kinda blurred together when I was at my worst. That being said, I'd suggest the album Tomorrow is nearly yesterday and everyday is stupid by Crywank (UK). I listened and related so much to this album at one point that it's actually difficult for me to listen to anymore.
For any mundane depression, (you're gonna laugh, they're all gonna laugh at me) it's OK to laugh at this, believe it or not my go to song is "On a Clear Day" Yes that song from the musical of the same name. Stupid, I know - but it does the trick. For seasonal depression, my go to is "Sleigh Ride." How can you feel blue when you're balls are bouncing on a sleigh over the snowy hills and through the woods?
When I'm happy, I try not to listen to sad music because it brings the mood down. But when you're already feeling like shit, sad music helps you feel even worse. LPT
There is a small indie band called Kabir Cafe, whose songs are inspired by a 14th-15th century poet- philosopher called Kabir. Those are some amazing songs to hear to.
Liquor Bottle by Herbal T. Has a nice faux-upbeat rhythm with jazzy kinda beats, but lyrics.are dark. Definitely helps me keep a sane face on the dark days:
For any mundane depression, (you're gonna laugh, they're all gonna laugh at me) it's OK to laugh at this, believe it or not my go to song is "On a Clear Day" Yes that song from the musical of the same name. Stupid, I know - but it does the trick. For seasonal depression, my go to is "Sleigh Ride." How can you feel blue when you're balls are bouncing on a sleigh over the snowy hills and through the woods?
Have been too depressed for too many decades. Lost the ability to enjoy music. Miss it, but anytime I try it feels contrived and I hear people from my past deriding my selections for various reasons.
The whole soundtrack (and game) is wonderful, and it develops across the album through to hope. The first few tracks though, they take me back to a point of great sorrow and straight through the stages of grief.
I'm a big music snob, and I'm in my forties, but Decompression Period by Papa Roach hit me really hard the first time I heard it, and it's always one I go back to. I've never had a bad breakup or anything, but it really captures the feeling for me.
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arthur@lemmy.zip · 11 pts · 2y
It depends on what you mean.
A single song: Hurt - Jonny Cash
Playlist to feel that:
To recover from that:
This second playlist is named "Keep Walking". The first one, translated, could be "wheel's bottom".
Venicon@sopuli.xyz · 4 pts · 2y
Where My Heart Will Take Me
JONATHAN ARCHER INTENSIFIES
arthur@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 2y
Exactly
TheWeirdestCunt@lemm.ee · 4 pts · 2y
Honestly hurt is my go to song when I’m feeling like shit.
shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee · 10 pts · 2y
What's a depression anthem? I never expected sufferers of depression to feel like singing a theme song to it.
OozingPositron@feddit.cl · 4 pts · 2y
Depression is a mess, it can have lots of symptoms. Same as antidepressants kek.
shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee · 0 pts · 2y
True, though I thought being "not in the mood" (for a lack of a better word) is required before all diagnoses of depression.
cowfodder@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 2y
Down in a Hole - Alice in Chains, from the unplugged album. Just such a raw song.
flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 2y
Yes, those harmonies are rough!
That was an exceptional performance. MTV unplugged was a great era
RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 2y
Roads by Portishead.
She knows. She gets it.
space_of_eights@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 2y
Ecellent choice! My personal choice is "threads" from their third album.
Raverbunny@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y
Nice choice, probably the best from Dummy for this topic. I'd also like to mention Over from their second, self titled album.
troyunrau@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 2y
Oh, solid track
MrVilliam@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 2y
Mine is for a very specific kind of depression that's really more of a vibe of melancholic regret and realization of self limitations which breeds a strange, nearly apathetic anxiety. The Devil And God Are Raging Inside Me by Brand New (full album) just picks at a scab that you know probably isn't healthy but feels satisfying to indulge.
For existential dread, Dark Side of the Moon by Pink Floyd hits way different now than when I was young. Especially the songs Time and Great Gig In The Sky.
For depression depression, I couldn't be bothered to listen to any music. "Music is for winners" is kinda the mindset. Not helpful, but depression is a motherfucker and it's almost like self-inflicted emotional abuse when you're already vulnerable. You feel miserable and convince yourself that you deserve misery, so all is right in the world. It fucking sucks and I hope that if this comment causes anything in anybody's brain to light up, saying "hey wait a minute, is that not normal?", then please invest in yourself and spend some time with a therapist, take more vitamin D, and try to do what you can to get yourself to a place where those feelings are just memories that you can mention on Lemmy in hopes of helping others the same way that you needed help.
Venicon@sopuli.xyz · 4 pts · 2y
Dark Side is such a good album. Great Gig in the Sky never resonated with me as a kid but now it’s a whole different story.
Asturie@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 2y
The Devil and God Are Raging Inside Me is such a good album. In some ways I hate listening to it because I know it's not helping me but at the same time everything about it is just perfect
WeAreAllOne@lemm.ee · 7 pts · 2y
The Cure, Disintegration
hal_5700X@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 2y
How to Disappear Completely - Radiohead
mceldritch@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 2y
This is probably the best answer I've seen. Watching them build the song over the OK Computer tour when you were sure they were going to implode... It hits just right.
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FireWire400@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 2y
It's not really a single song for me, it really depends on how depressed I am and whether I want to dive deeper into it (which really helps a lot sometimes) or make myself feel better.
Dive-in (including, but not limited to):
The album Spiderland by Slint is pretty much full of depression songs for me, gloomy and full of dread. Don, Aman and Washer in particular are very hard hitting for me.
F#A#∞ by Godspeed You! Black Emperor has similar vibes but is a lot more dystopian and pessimistic. Ever since hearing East Hastings in 28 Days Later it's been my favourite song on the album.
Feel better (including, but not limited to):
troyunrau@lemmy.ca · 5 pts · 2y
The Great Below -- Nine Inch Nails. (About 5 months in 2001 while addicted to Everquest).
The Beginning is End is the Beginning -- Smashing Pumpkins (this version: https://youtu.be/0fDZD46IZ5Q?si=CyfMtrWL7YbtsEs7) (during my undergrad thesis crunch time crisis circa 2009)
There's more but these are good examples.
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Klordok@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 2y
I've got a playlist, "Everything sucks but that's ok". This Year by The Mountain Goats is usually a solid pick. It's wistful and defiant without being too sweet.
Misanthropic Drunken Loner by Days N Daze is bleak with a wry smile.
Nausea by Jeff Rosenstock.
And if things are starting to get a little better Good As It Gets by Little Hurt is great. It is incredibly catchy.
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univers3man@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 2y
Stone Sour - Bother
LinyosT@sopuli.xyz · 4 pts · 2y
On GP - Death Grips
benignintervention@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 2y
Suite: Judy Blue Eyes by Crosby, Stills, and Nash (and sometimes Young). Also, Wooden Ships, same band. Four Way Street is an outstanding album full of heavy hitters
Trollivier@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 2y
Broken, by Sentenced.
antlion@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 2y
Nine Inch Nails album With Teeth. Every Day is Exactly the Same, Only, and Right Where it Belongs.
Saigonauticon@voltage.vn · 3 pts · 2y
No room to live, and no room to die / Hell is a kettle with a concrete sky.
Life in a big city in the developing world. Makes you hard like hunger, sharp like regret.
DoNotDisplay@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 2y
These songs will always make me cry when I'm down in the dumps
Pelicanen@sopuli.xyz · 3 pts · 2y
My go-to song for turning into a sobbing mess on the floor is Sting (feat. Ray Chen) - What Could Have Been. Hits very hard.
anothermember@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 2y
Daniel Johnston - Cold Hard World
What I listen to when I'm depressed and want to be, not the best song to lift you out of it.
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Yerbouti@lemmy.ml · 3 pts · 2y
The Wall is a special album for me, usually makes want to kill myself so I have to carefully pick the moments I listen to it.
5in1k@lemm.ee · 3 pts · 2y
LDLHA‐IBCSYWA by Twiztid
When my dog died I’d listen to it and cry a ton.
Doubleohdonut@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 2y
Owen's Theme from Torchwood. Not an amazing show, but the music was written and composed by Ben Foster & Murray Gold who brought us all the haunting music from the new Dr. Who series. The descending pattern, combined with Owen's own tragic story is one of the most indulgent depressing songs I've ever heard.
PP_BOY_@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 2y
Album or song? Because for me, they both kinda blurred together when I was at my worst. That being said, I'd suggest the album Tomorrow is nearly yesterday and everyday is stupid by Crywank (UK). I listened and related so much to this album at one point that it's actually difficult for me to listen to anymore.
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Sabata11792@kbin.social · 2 pts · 2y
Lately, its been Oni by Swersvlt. The mood of just staring miserably into space wile zoning out.
space_of_eights@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 2y
I have several actually:
electric_nan@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 2y
Desperados Under the Eaves (but really, lots of Warren Zevon songs)
That's the Way the World Goes Round (John Prine)
ShittyBeatlesFCPres@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
https://youtu.be/lSWv9qodOAs?si=teXNFUnC19ETe6TB Al Green - How Can You Mend a Broken Heart.
I especially like how the “rain falling down” metaphor comes back when he’s going off and he says, “My clothes are all wet, tell me!”
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tygerprints@kbin.social · 2 pts · 2y
For any mundane depression, (you're gonna laugh, they're all gonna laugh at me) it's OK to laugh at this, believe it or not my go to song is "On a Clear Day" Yes that song from the musical of the same name. Stupid, I know - but it does the trick. For seasonal depression, my go to is "Sleigh Ride." How can you feel blue when you're balls are bouncing on a sleigh over the snowy hills and through the woods?
Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
Yoko Kanno and Seat Belts - Blue
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orsetto@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 2y
Mostly Leaf Ellis from Sorority Noise
HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone · 2 pts · 2y
steiner's theme from ff9
4350pChris@feddit.de · 2 pts · 2y
Solace by Earl Sweatshirt.
https://youtu.be/k2HFehg2BfY?si=59XU06XWTQ9HTNUA
PP_BOY_@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
Good pick, I don't even have to click the link to recognize that pink background. I'd throw in most of SRS in there, too.
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BiggestBulb@kbin.social · 2 pts · 2y
Doomed by I Prevail
eezeebee@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 2y
This album does the trick.
Planning for Burial - Below the House
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_lX7Y_8v8ReyLynZVcEua1Kcs9PMcVL9Ow
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Noedel@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
Y'all are in the mood for music when you're depressed?
dingus@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
Yeah I cry to sad songs when I'm depressed.
When I'm happy, I try not to listen to sad music because it brings the mood down. But when you're already feeling like shit, sad music helps you feel even worse. LPT
PlexSheep@feddit.de · 2 pts · 2y
The Burgundian lullaby perhaps
fckreddit@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 2y
There is a small indie band called Kabir Cafe, whose songs are inspired by a 14th-15th century poet- philosopher called Kabir. Those are some amazing songs to hear to.
Kiwi_Girl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 2y
oshitwaddup@lemmy.antemeridiem.xyz · 1 pts · 2y
https://songwhip.com/tokyo-police-club/ready-to-win
DahGangalang@infosec.pub · 1 pts · 2y
Liquor Bottle by Herbal T. Has a nice faux-upbeat rhythm with jazzy kinda beats, but lyrics.are dark. Definitely helps me keep a sane face on the dark days:
Dangy@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 2y
Wax and Herbal T both nail those faux-upbeat type songs
dessalines@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 2y
Deerhunter - helicopters
PeterLossGeorgeWall@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 2y
Whipping boy - we don't need nobody else
tygerprints@kbin.social · 1 pts · 2y
For any mundane depression, (you're gonna laugh, they're all gonna laugh at me) it's OK to laugh at this, believe it or not my go to song is "On a Clear Day" Yes that song from the musical of the same name. Stupid, I know - but it does the trick. For seasonal depression, my go to is "Sleigh Ride." How can you feel blue when you're balls are bouncing on a sleigh over the snowy hills and through the woods?
dewritoninja@pawb.social · 1 pts · 2y
Giving up by Corbin and sodus cementeries
bruhduh@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 2y
808 OG trap beats
Meltrax@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 2y
Bad Life by Sigrid+Bring Me The Horizon. Very on-the-nose but it's a damn good song.
bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de · 1 pts · 2y
The Depression Song by Caroline Konstnar
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starlord@lemm.ee · 1 pts · 2y
Eye of the Tiger
Froyn@kbin.social · 0 pts · 2y
After opening the news and gandering at the state of the world for a different perspective; I drop back to AJR - Way Less Sad.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlVhUbGa2pg
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uphillbothways@kbin.social · 0 pts · 2y
Have been too depressed for too many decades. Lost the ability to enjoy music. Miss it, but anytime I try it feels contrived and I hear people from my past deriding my selections for various reasons.
ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk · 0 pts · 2y
Gris Soundtrack - Gris Part 1
The whole soundtrack (and game) is wonderful, and it develops across the album through to hope. The first few tracks though, they take me back to a point of great sorrow and straight through the stages of grief.
anti@lemm.ee · 0 pts · 2y
I'm a big music snob, and I'm in my forties, but Decompression Period by Papa Roach hit me really hard the first time I heard it, and it's always one I go back to. I've never had a bad breakup or anything, but it really captures the feeling for me.