Bryllyg

u/Bryllyg@piefed.blahaj.zone
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on My Name is Vivian · c/mtf · 9 pts · 31d

Thank you for opening your zine for us, it speaks volumes about your journey and is so special and precious. Really hits me in all the right places and the art style is really neat.

I love it!!

on Bad day... · c/mtf · 11 pts · 33d

Oh honey I am so sorry. Dealing with people who barely make an effort is so fucking exausting. Maybe you can talk to your bf after you collect yourself and do some self care. His comment was definitely unhelpful at a time when you needed a hug and a friend.

🫂

One thing i can think of is be sure to get their preferred name in addition to pronouns, and that all staff use that name. Perhaps your software has a space for preferred name and pronouns already. I have found that many systems don't have those data entry fields or even on the off chance they do, it is often overlooked if staff aren't trained to pay attention to them.

And honestly, the biggest gripe i had before legally changing my name was telling people that info only for it to be ignored the next time i went there especially when it is right there on the paper they are reading from.

The second biggest gripe is getting deadnamed in emails, phone calls and texts even when a business has a preffered name field.

I am so glad this person is already starting off with a concerned and caring staff member. Good for you.

on Came out to my mother today · c/mtf · 4 pts · 39d

I am so glad that went well for you. Always a very stressful moment especially with a family member. Good for you.