Looking absolutely stunning! I'm super jelly! Sorry it turned south so quickly, that is truly awful to hear. I hope you feel better, we are here for you in good times and bad. hugs
Welcome to the community! So happy you are here, feel free to post or comment to your hearts content, no pressure to post photos. It's all about love and support here, chase your joy we will be here when you need us!
Do you enjoy reading? In my youth i would often go to bars and just sit at the bar reading a book. You'd be surprised the number of people would strike up a conversation about whatever I was reading. We would typically chat for a bit and when they were done I'd go back to reading. Sometimes people would invite me to join them or when they were leaving invite me to wherever they were going next, whether it was another bar for a show or back to their place to play some magic the gathering. You aren't obligated to join them, but don't hold back if they make you feel comfortable. There is probably a place in your area that is lgbtq+ friendly and would be a great place to start.
Another option is to learn to play pool. There are several bars i know that have a pool table or two and if you comment on the game they will likely invite you to play next. Pool players always want new people to play with.
Your feeling are completely normal, alot of us go through the same thing. I'm going through something similar myself. Constantly questioning if I'm Trans, questioning if I just gaslit myself. But I always come back to the same conclusion:
If I were 100% cis, would I be questioning it at all? Would I have ever come here and asked the question? Would I have a story to share?
When I first reached> out I was told "there is no wrong way to be trans". I remind myself of this all the time. I don't have to have dysphoria to be Trans, but because being fem brings me joy I'm allowed to lean into it. It doesn't have to be all the time, I don't have to come out entirely, I don't have to start HRT or voice training. I just follow the joy.
I do not have a female form and it bugged me alot when trying out fem clothing. This article really helped:
No one can make this decision for you, but we will be here for you regardless. This community is all about love and support. It's all I've ever received, and all I give out. Just follow the joy, see where it leads, that's all that matters.
I am happy and sad for you! You are taking so many wonderful steps forward to living your best life but having to cut out someone who is supposed to love and support you no matter what is heart wrenching. Always remember the idiom 'the blood of the coven is thicker than the water of the womb'. i.e. the family you choose will always be more important than the one you were born into. Focus on the good, continue to move forward with your independence, you were going to do it eventually anyway. We will always be here when you need us. Keep being you!
Slay girl, slay! Love to see the youth still listen to good music. Sum41 is easily in my top 5
YAY!!! So happy for you, this sounds like a lovely experience and a great end to your day. I hope you continue have these moments.
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Looking as beautiful as the day your having! Don't forget to wear a helmet, safety first!
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Looks lovely! Can't wait to figure out make up myself. Love the blouse or is it a kimono?
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Looking absolutely stunning! I'm super jelly! Sorry it turned south so quickly, that is truly awful to hear. I hope you feel better, we are here for you in good times and bad. hugs
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Thanks, I really appreciate that!
Welcome to the community! So happy you are here, feel free to post or comment to your hearts content, no pressure to post photos. It's all about love and support here, chase your joy we will be here when you need us!
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
Super cute and comfy for sure!
I'm glad to hear it's helped others like it helped me. Thanks for making the post, I hope it can help more ladies here
Absolutely stunning!
Sorry your feeling blue, but gotta say the vlue really suits you! Looking great
Oh no! I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to make you cry! I'll remember that next time I share it.
Happy I could help
Do you enjoy reading? In my youth i would often go to bars and just sit at the bar reading a book. You'd be surprised the number of people would strike up a conversation about whatever I was reading. We would typically chat for a bit and when they were done I'd go back to reading. Sometimes people would invite me to join them or when they were leaving invite me to wherever they were going next, whether it was another bar for a show or back to their place to play some magic the gathering. You aren't obligated to join them, but don't hold back if they make you feel comfortable. There is probably a place in your area that is lgbtq+ friendly and would be a great place to start.
Another option is to learn to play pool. There are several bars i know that have a pool table or two and if you comment on the game they will likely invite you to play next. Pool players always want new people to play with.
Hope that helps
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
Your feeling are completely normal, alot of us go through the same thing. I'm going through something similar myself. Constantly questioning if I'm Trans, questioning if I just gaslit myself. But I always come back to the same conclusion:
If I were 100% cis, would I be questioning it at all? Would I have ever come here and asked the question? Would I have a story to share?
When I first reached> out I was told "there is no wrong way to be trans". I remind myself of this all the time. I don't have to have dysphoria to be Trans, but because being fem brings me joy I'm allowed to lean into it. It doesn't have to be all the time, I don't have to come out entirely, I don't have to start HRT or voice training. I just follow the joy.
I do not have a female form and it bugged me alot when trying out fem clothing. This article really helped:
https://margaretkilljoy.substack.com/p/brick-pride
No one can make this decision for you, but we will be here for you regardless. This community is all about love and support. It's all I've ever received, and all I give out. Just follow the joy, see where it leads, that's all that matters.
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
Girl, same. Totes jelly
No effort gorgeous over here!
Too cute! Soo comfy, totes jelly!
It looks absolutely lovely on you! Super comfy too! Congrats on the find! Have a lovely and and continue to slay girl
Totes adorbs! Love the accessories, very punk rock, very nostalgic of my youth. Keep it up!
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡
I am happy and sad for you! You are taking so many wonderful steps forward to living your best life but having to cut out someone who is supposed to love and support you no matter what is heart wrenching. Always remember the idiom 'the blood of the coven is thicker than the water of the womb'. i.e. the family you choose will always be more important than the one you were born into. Focus on the good, continue to move forward with your independence, you were going to do it eventually anyway. We will always be here when you need us. Keep being you!
♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡