UnPassive

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When you're approaching the final moments before orgasm, relax your gooch/bridge/perineum. You'll feel your approach instantly slow, but if you achieve orgasm anyway, it'll be MUCH stronger and longer. It sort of slows the build up down, and results in a bigger O. Should only add around 30 seconds of delay - we're not trying to edge all day. Sometimes riding the edge feels great, so stay there as long as you can, but make sure you fall over, instead of losing the orgasm.

I used to wonder why my orgasms felt so different every time, but now they're always really good. You might have to dance a few perineum flexes in, to get over the hill, but try to avoid many. 100% practice while masturbating while laying down. It's super hard to have a fully relaxed perineum while thrusting. Also, try to make sure you're really hard before relaxing your P muscles. Softer orgasms always are weaker for me.

Advanced users may find there is a muscle you can flex in kinda in opposition to flexing your P muscles, but I'm finding it hard to explain... So start with the basics.

on type shit · c/lemmyshitpost · 1 pts · 113d

Not true. Foreskin restoration uses a natural skin growth process called mitosis. Same thing that happens when people put on weight, or muscle, or get pregnant. Their skin doesn't get stretched thin and have less nerves relative to the area it covers. You do grow new nerves, and not just generic nerves, but nerves relative to the neighboring skin - so in the penis's case, the erotic kind.

I used to have just a little dot of sensitive frenulum, but after restoring a couple years it's around 1.5 CM long and this is a huge sensitivity boost for me. I don't want to oversell it, my penis was pretty great before, but I feel like I'm still not used to the improvement and will continue the annoying restoration process for these little gains gladly

Halo 3, and black ops 1 zombies were my favorites. Halo reach and ODST are great. We also used to play Left 4 Dead 2 at LAN parties

Those are all on PC though (BO1 PC port kinda sucks)

on What do you make of foils? · c/mtg · 4 pts · 120d

I won't play with them and always trade them of they're valuable. The only time I ever play with them is in limited, and I hate it.

I live in a dry environment and they curl an insane amount in less than 5 minutes. They curl through sleeves, and even double sleeves. You can uncurl them in a tupperware with a wet sponge for a few days, but they will not stay flat so what's the point.

on *Permanently Deleted* · c/showerthoughts · 15 pts · 121d

Atheists here who's favorite holiday is Christmas.

I do kinda wish it had a different name, and kinda wish it was on the winter solstice; but as long as no one wants to go to church, read the Bible, or reinact the nativity; it's a fantastic areligious holiday to enjoy with loved ones.

Most Christians I know only pretend it's a religious holiday while they enjoy family, food, and gifts. Though some actually go to church, and I kinda feel bad for them.

I hope you find one! Until then, remember it's fun to be nice and thoughtful to others! So you can be that friend yourself. Hopefully you know someone who deserves some kindness :)

Same... But if there's a studio near you, you can usually use theirs. I also used to pit fire some of mine, but that's not an option where I rent now

We use the brown paper filters (and compost them). But my in-laws have a stainless steel reusable filter and it works pretty well. You have to change your pour "recipe" to avoid pushing grounds through the mesh