I'll be honest if they're talking politically, this still has not happened to me, like sure I have things that I think are right and wrong but I've never been super vocal
I'm 25 and still sorting out the books I care to read. I'm overwhelmed with choice, particularly interesting works in genres that I don't find much joy in.
You start to really see who is here for you and who is here just to fuck around. You are surrounded by people who are both and after I hit 30, a lot of it became clearer as to who I should be returning my energy to.
Yeah I can see that, I've been in that space. Ultimately at some point I decided if I was done, why not insteadtry doing something drastic like cutting all ties and trying to travel the world by any means necessary, just starting over and getting all the living I can done, you know?
a few years in my thirties was my best time of life. Was able to afford living near the city which was also near my work. I don't think that has to do with age though as much as stable employment.
29 Comments
Melobol@lemmy.ml · 67 pts · 233d
You start to develop the ability to not give a fuck.
Devadander@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 233d
It’s an absolute superpower, too
sireuz@sh.itjust.works · -1 pts · 233d
Nah, I've turned 30 this year and I already don't give a fuck and fear nothing. It scares me a little lol
tetris11@feddit.uk · 25 pts · 233d
You start to form genuine opinions on topics, not just parroting tidbits back to people.
otp@sh.itjust.works · 23 pts · 233d
I don't think age determines when that happens
blackbrook@mander.xyz · 9 pts · 233d
When? I think you mean "if".
tetris11@feddit.uk · 2 pts · 233d
I'd wager a level of maturity and overcoming insecurity is a requirement, which yes some people can achieve at an early age
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 233d
I'll be honest if they're talking politically, this still has not happened to me, like sure I have things that I think are right and wrong but I've never been super vocal
otp@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 233d
Or never at all! Haha
whyNotSquirrel@sh.itjust.works · 0 pts · 233d
oh? if you say so.
Hazy@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 233d
Age is definitely not a requirement for this lol
TheRealKuni@piefed.social · 23 pts · 233d
I once heard someone say:
“My teens were my body’s puberty, my twenties were my mind’s puberty. By my thirties I started to have a handle on things.”
That has really stuck with me. I’ve loved my thirties!
IWW4@lemmy.zip · 17 pts · 233d
For me it was when everything professionally and personally started taking off.
AlecSadler@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 13 pts · 233d
I'm in my 40s and, uhhhh...
Depending on how you've played your cards the best part is that you've ditched your shitty "friends" and have your 5 or less close friends now.
You've solidified the music you like. The books you care to read.
Tenderizer78@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 233d
I'm 25 and still sorting out the books I care to read. I'm overwhelmed with choice, particularly interesting works in genres that I don't find much joy in.
bobbyfiend@lemmy.ml · 9 pts · 233d
Finally being able to (mostly) make decisions without undue influence of horniness.
Rumo161@feddit.org · 9 pts · 233d
Calming the fuck down
southernbeaver@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 233d
You start to really see who is here for you and who is here just to fuck around. You are surrounded by people who are both and after I hit 30, a lot of it became clearer as to who I should be returning my energy to.
flamiera@kbin.melroy.org · 7 pts · 233d
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 233d
Yeah I can see that, I've been in that space. Ultimately at some point I decided if I was done, why not insteadtry doing something drastic like cutting all ties and trying to travel the world by any means necessary, just starting over and getting all the living I can done, you know?
Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml · 6 pts · 233d
Finally got my crap together. Career taking off, got rid of my toxic relationships, adopted several cats, getting into really good shape.
Today@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 233d
Every year is my favorite year. Currently 55. Only reason to go back would be to undo stupid shit i said/did.
HubertManne@piefed.social · 6 pts · 233d
a few years in my thirties was my best time of life. Was able to afford living near the city which was also near my work. I don't think that has to do with age though as much as stable employment.
umbrella@lemmy.ml · 0 pts · 233d
abcdqfr@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 233d
Sweet sweet brain maturity
spacemanspiffy@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 233d
Not wanting to go out or be social is more acceptable. Plus more excuses to stay home are available.
chunes@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 231d
Closer to being done with all this silliness.
notreallyhere@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 233d
cy_narrator@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 233d
Going to your religious place of worship and pray to your god to be taken to heaven
yool_ooloo@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 230d
Ten years until evereything ellse fetts worser 4vr
cerafredo@reddthat.com · 1 pts · 224d
PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 233d
What Conan said. But with more grumbling about this or that hurting.
gray@lemmy.ml · 0 pts · 233d
It's an arbitrary milestone. For me, I stopped worrying about money around 32.