On a first date I'm looking for common interests, and gauging how easy the conversation flows. Do we feel natural together? Does the time go too fast and do I not want it to end? I want to establish a connection on a first date and leave with us both wanting more.
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tonyn@lemmy.ml · 25 pts · 216d
On a first date I'm looking for common interests, and gauging how easy the conversation flows. Do we feel natural together? Does the time go too fast and do I not want it to end? I want to establish a connection on a first date and leave with us both wanting more.
Vex_Detrause@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 214d
I read gauging as gagging. I was like hmm that's like 4th base already?
Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world · 17 pts · 216d
To know they're not a bigot of some kind.
My bad for starting a fight.
MotoAsh@piefed.social · -7 pts · 216d
skavau is a clown
_druid@sh.itjust.works · 11 pts · 216d
Paradox of tolerance
MotoAsh@piefed.social · -6 pts · 216d
skavau is a clown
_druid@sh.itjust.works · 9 pts · 216d
I never stated any level of support for them, so I have no idea why you're directing those comments at me.
MotoAsh@piefed.social · -3 pts · 216d
skavau is a clown
Nemo@slrpnk.net · 2 pts · 216d
It's not bigotry if your opinion is based on evidence.
MotoAsh@piefed.social · -1 pts · 216d
skavau is a clown
lolo@sh.itjust.works · 14 pts · 216d
Genuine laughter. If we’re relaxed and laughing most of the time, I want to be around that person again :)
gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 216d
I want to see how they react when I put on my robe and wizard hat
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 215d
School of magic? unless you were a grander wizard then expected.
Diddlydee@feddit.uk · 7 pts · 216d
Anal (want, not expect, right?)
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml · 3 pts · 215d
I give oral first for obvious reasons buddy guy.
IWW4@lemmy.zip · 7 pts · 216d
just a good time.
daggermoon@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 216d
First date is for vibe checks and making sure she's not a fascist.
Nemo@slrpnk.net · 4 pts · 216d
First date is to see if they can carry a conversation and hold their hooch.
Second date is to see if they can cook.
victorz@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 216d
To make sure they're on your level, right?
Right?
Nemo@slrpnk.net · 9 pts · 216d
Obviously, since the second date is also where they see if I can cook.
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml · 3 pts · 215d
Now im imagining your 2nd date cook off competition with categories to win and judges to score it.
victorz@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 216d
🥰
kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 216d
I want the Chaos Emeralddss of course!!
jet@hackertalks.com · 4 pts · 215d
Vibe check
See if there is a spark
DFX4509B@lemmy.wtf · 3 pts · 215d
If we're compatible with each other, and also to just have fun.
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 215d
I think the first date is exchanging dick pics and stats on grindr. Engagement is when we first hook up. Getting hitched is the 2nd hookup.
fyrilsol@kbin.melroy.org · 1 pts · 215d