The fuck it isn't! There are way too many shitty people in this world who use tone policing and shaming to win arguments they rightfully ought to lose.
I'd prefer a forthright jerk to a polite sociopath any day.
Why are people trying to justify who could be be equally as bad as the guy. People are just projecting and going off speculation without hearing both sides. As usual... on the Internet....
Sounds like she was being a rude asshole, he pointed it out, and she doubled down on being a rude asshole. I can literally smell the type of person who would say something like that from here.
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ceenote@lemmy.world · 83 pts · 202d
So he sucks for assuming she cares about attractiveness, and she sucks for being rude.
And I suck for finding a way to feel superior to both of them.
RickyRigatoni@piefed.social · 81 pts · 202d
i suck behind a 7-11
Leonixster@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 37 pts · 202d
Which one? Asking for me
ceenote@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 202d
Need to ask the price, too. Waiting til you find them in person gives them the edge in negotiations. Unless you're into that.
JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 202d
Edging you say?
ceenote@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 201d
The worst time to negotiate price.
Spacehooks@reddthat.com · 1 pts · 200d
Depends what you're into 😆
ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml · 12 pts · 202d
I was behind 9-11
FloatingAlong@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 202d
Get back to Hell, Cheney.
tomenzgg@midwest.social · 5 pts · 201d
*double-checks the shape of rigatonis before making joke*
Yeah; that checks out.
Skua@kbin.earth · 23 pts · 202d
I think the kind of guy who would, unprompted, tell someone they're being unattractive like this probably earned the rudeness
Good on him for apparently learning from the situation though
rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 1 pts · 198d
What could possibly prompt this exact phrasing?
scytale@piefed.zip · 37 pts · 202d
I mean, technically he didn't specify that her rudeness wasn't attractive to him specifically.
LadyMeow@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 30 pts · 202d
It’s ok, she not trying to attract you, either.
gustofwind@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 202d
Rudeness is good 💅
Saapas@piefed.zip · 13 pts · 202d
Still rude thoughÂ
erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 14 pts · 202d
its okay she isnt trying to attract you either
Saapas@piefed.zip · -3 pts · 202d
It's not okay to be rude
grue@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 202d
The fuck it isn't! There are way too many shitty people in this world who use tone policing and shaming to win arguments they rightfully ought to lose.
I'd prefer a forthright jerk to a polite sociopath any day.
Saapas@piefed.zip · 1 pts · 201d
Being rude is not an argument
tomiant@piefed.social · -1 pts · 200d
You are right and people who think she had a wow omzg comeback are juvenile.
tomiant@piefed.social · -2 pts · 200d
If that's how you feel, then go fuck yourself you twat.
See how your argument sucks?
peteypete420@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 202d
Meh, all we know is one person thought she was rude, we dont know if she was. Its ok if people think you are.
thatradomguy@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 201d
Why are people trying to justify who could be be equally as bad as the guy. People are just projecting and going off speculation without hearing both sides. As usual... on the Internet....
Saapas@piefed.zip · 3 pts · 201d
But the same thing applies to the guy. It's not okay for him to be rude either
vzqq@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 11 pts · 202d
That guy knows nothing. Rude girls go hard.
FartMaster69@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 12 pts · 202d
We found the twink she’s looking for.
vzqq@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 pts · 202d
Not really. More into brats. But I’m not judging.
SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org · 8 pts · 202d
"We're on a date..."
toynbee@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 200d
What does "sent me to sleep" mean here?
RedSnt@feddit.dk · 3 pts · 199d
Not sure, but maybe something like "floored me" or "left me flabbergasted"?
toynbee@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 199d
That's pretty much what I was guessing from context - "knocked me out" or "blew my mind" - but I've not heard it before.
edit: Correct a word.
flapperfivethousand@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 202d
Dude missed the easy comeback: "No, I meant generally."
Edit: Just to clarify: He started it, and they both sound rude. I was just making a joke.
tomiant@piefed.social · -2 pts · 200d
Sounds like she was being a rude asshole, he pointed it out, and she doubled down on being a rude asshole. I can literally smell the type of person who would say something like that from here.
RedSnt@feddit.dk · 3 pts · 199d
Humbling experience that one should learn from sooner rather than later in life.
thatradomguy@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 201d
bruv 💀
tomiant@piefed.social · 0 pts · 200d
He was not saying "I find you unattractive", he was saying "stop being an asshole".
It is, in fact, not a genuine question, it is an asshole comeback from an asshole person.