Anyone else?

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plyth@feddit.org · 20 pts · 142d (7 replies)

Still unlearning.

Any advice?

lobut@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 142d

Be kind to yourself.

Kn1ghtDigital@lemmy.zip · 8 pts · 142d

It's not a race

CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 142d

Self trust is just as important as self love

FuyuhikoDate@feddit.org · 5 pts · 142d

You can be loves even if you don't love yourself.

NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 142d

It took a therapist telling me I could get better for me to actually believe it.

captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 142d

Practice boundaries and while discussing them is fine, never get to the position of letting them be debated

fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 141d

going in to fight or flight mode is not a failure, and breathing exercises can help you come out of it before you do something you regret

also, it's better to practice those breathing exercises BEFORE you need them lol

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz · 12 pts · 142d

Too many people don't understand this. They just expect me to be "normal," as if I can just magically choose to do that.

It's not my fault they weren't surrounded by toxic people growing up and never learned what that does long-term to one's psyche!