I might have terrible grammar and everyone knows it except for me

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Mothra@mander.xyz · 19 pts · 127d (2 replies)

Just post online more often. People will point at your mistakes

corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 127d

I'm doing my part!

123@programming.dev · 2 pts · 127d

Peepol we'll point at ur mis 🍖.

MaggiWuerze@feddit.org · 14 pts · 128d

Yeah, we know

Codpiece@feddit.uk · 8 pts · 128d (10 replies)

Correct usage of punctuation is equally important.

Edit: for the pedants :)

Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 9 pts · 128d (7 replies)

Nuh uh. You can also use incorrect punctuation,

lath@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 128d (6 replies)

Every punctuation is correct, just not always placed correctly.

Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 5 pts · 128d (5 replies)

,,()?,...

So I guess I can just like put all the punctuation at the beginning of a comment or whatever segment of text on any medium It looks like it takes a bit too much effort but I suppose it can protect me from scrutiny

teft@piefed.social · 5 pts · 127d

There was an author who did that for the second edition of his book. First edition had no punctuation so the second edition he added a few pages of punctuation at the end for complainers. He said they could put them where they wanted to.

Codpiece@feddit.uk · 2 pts · 128d (2 replies)

What’s like putting?

Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 128d (1 reply)

It means putting something in a likely way (?)

Codpiece@feddit.uk · 3 pts · 128d

That’s like a good answer.

Saapas@piefed.zip · 2 pts · 127d

Reverse Polish Punctuation

AmidFuror@fedia.io · 1 pts · 127d

For the OP, your title has two independent clauses, and you need to separate them with a comma before the word "and."

Dicska@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 127d

I might easily be wrong, but isn't punctuation just part of grammar (along with spelling, which I used to confuse with grammar)?

bryndos@fedia.io · 4 pts · 128d (4 replies)

Do you notice people misunderstanding you? That's how you'd know.

If you are not getting feedback from your readers, then fair enough, you'll never know; but in that case, how do you even know anyone is reading your writing?

I tend to think my grammar its like a tree falling in the woods, the few squirrels that notice it can probably find another tree to harass.

agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 127d (1 reply)

Ironically, I've found that in many cases, frequently I find perfectly correct grammar to be more a hindrance to communication than a boon. In certain cases, grammatically wrong leads to fewer misunderstandings.

bryndos@fedia.io · 1 pts · 126d

Yes, I reckon that mutual sensitivity between parties is more important than any rules.

corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 127d (1 reply)

I might have terrible grammar and everyone knows it except for me Do you notice people misunderstanding you? That’s how you’d know.

The case where people know about a grammar issue but still understand the writer is a counterexample to your claim.

As someone who was raised Rural and will drop a lot of dialect into speech, I've seen how it colours the response and taints the message. I've seen where people spot a bad habit and just let it go. People know.

The more one learns about structure and form, the more one notices these gaffes; and not only does it change how the message was received, but it can also be one-sided. For instance: people who say "some emails" don't realise how discordant it sounds to people who don't say "some mails". People who say "some email" I think aren't generally noticed by people who say "the mails".

What you do with what you notice? That's on you. But in a world where first impressions are actually a thing, it'll be noticed.

bryndos@fedia.io · 1 pts · 126d

Misunderstanding is where I'd put the dividing line between style and grammar, or at least useful grammar.

I didn't know anyone cares how I pluralise emails though; I'll be making sure to include the 's' from now on though, maybe I can use it to literally get some nob-heads to reveal their true nature.

teft@piefed.social · 2 pts · 127d (1 reply)

My fear when talking in my second language.

corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 127d

I claim all bets are off with a non-native tongue. But spelling-checker tools are a thing, so we're not completely off the hook.

I just don't do any French or Spanish here ! ;-)

hexagonwin@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 127d

lol same