I mean I wouldn't say my parents were abusive. They just loved telling stories and getting attention with their peers and our secrets were just prime material. But yeah still fucked up
Abuse is a pattern. No parent is perfect. Abuse is about power and control, and as you noted this specific action is part of a larger abusive system. So absent that larger system of abuse, being a blabbermouth is a normal ass character flaw. Stop trying to diagnose people on the internet.
Come on. You've never told something to someone else that someone confided in you, because you didn't think it was a big deal (and ultimately it wasn't)?
Cool story bro. When did I ever say that I’m deciding it for you? Why don’t you look into it because all these people downvoting me are only feeding into the delusions of psychopaths. I’m only looking out for you and I’m guessing you don’t have the ability to make up your own mind because “you don’t think” I get to decide things for you.
23 Comments
vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 42 pts · 9d
abusive parents be like
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 28 pts · 9d
I mean I wouldn't say my parents were abusive. They just loved telling stories and getting attention with their peers and our secrets were just prime material. But yeah still fucked up
boobookittyfrick@lemmy.zip · -12 pts · 9d
No they were abusive you just haven’t realized it yet
Eheran@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 9d
Not everything is abusive.
boobookittyfrick@lemmy.zip · -6 pts · 9d
What they are doing is part of a major system of abuse and the fact that I’m being downvoted is a symptom of it
DisasterTransport@startrek.website · 11 pts · 9d
Abuse is a pattern. No parent is perfect. Abuse is about power and control, and as you noted this specific action is part of a larger abusive system. So absent that larger system of abuse, being a blabbermouth is a normal ass character flaw. Stop trying to diagnose people on the internet.
tetris11@feddit.uk · 4 pts · 8d
Come on. You've never told something to someone else that someone confided in you, because you didn't think it was a big deal (and ultimately it wasn't)?
That's a very tall horse to ride
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 8d
I don't think you get to decide that for me
boobookittyfrick@lemmy.zip · -1 pts · 7d
Cool story bro. When did I ever say that I’m deciding it for you? Why don’t you look into it because all these people downvoting me are only feeding into the delusions of psychopaths. I’m only looking out for you and I’m guessing you don’t have the ability to make up your own mind because “you don’t think” I get to decide things for you.
OldChicoAle@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 5d
Ok
jaybone@lemmy.zip · 11 pts · 9d
Why hang out with your buddy on opposite sides of the fence?
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 9d
Chain link: when you want more than just glory
jaybone@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 9d
You can cuddle afterwards.
okwhateverdude@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 9d
You walked up mid interview and don't want to potentially walk into the shot 😎
jaybone@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 9d
And so did the other guy on the other side of the fence? And then you became friends?
okwhateverdude@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 9d
Floodedwomb@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 9d
I love that they seem to be sharing a snack between the chain link fence.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 9d
You don't like to lean
Grass@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 9d
followed by "I never talked to anyone about that" or similar
csolisr@hub.azkware.net · 9 pts · 9d
Televisa reference? Ah but of course, the world-famous Vieja Chismosa™
PattyMcB@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 8d
I can tell my mom anything I want. She's getting senile so nobody believes her!
Matombo@feddit.org · 3 pts · 9d
that's why i don't tell my mum things anymore i don't want her neightbour to also know
medem@lemmy.wtf · 1 pts · 9d
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