My nephew is in exactly this position. My sister and her husband make plenty of money, they felt emotionally attached, he's diagnosed as ADHD, so he gets a pass on some things. He's 32.
I know millennials hate that older people criticize them and I get it, but every millennial I know is in exactly this position and I don't understand how anyone can hold his head high knowing he essentially can't take care of himself.
On the other hand, I grew up in a different time. I graduated with $9k of debt, not $100k. I devoted decades of my life working to make someone else rich. So who's smarter, me or my nephew?
I mean, if they're ok with him living there, who am I to judge? My only real complaint is that he feels entitled to things he hasn't earned. My sister plays disc golf with me. He played with us briefly. He won't let her use "his" discs. The discs she paid for. He demands to sit in the front seat of the car sometimes, not request it. I'm sorry, but if Mom says she wants the front seat, Mom gets the fucking front seat. Not sure if this is generational or just him. But as a genX, I try to be understanding, because I see how the country has gone, but it can be tough sometimes, because from my perspective, he's getting a 100% free ride and should be friggin grateful.
I think we can infer, based on the fact that a grown ass man is still living with his parents and clearly not helping financially since he has no clue how to get a job.
Welcome to the world we live in now. The US and large swaths of the world are going fascist but I saw a guy on the news yesterday that was knocked down by a buffalo.
I think I fall in the middle of this. I think this kid (and I think he is still a kid) had 38 years to transition to independence. But the same could be said about the parents. Why are they kicking him out now instead of after schooling? Now they are doing this almost cold turkey. Why not tell him he has until his birthday to stay paying rent. Then later impose more restrictions until ultimately sending him on his way.
I'm old so I feel it's ridiculous for a 38 year old to still be living at home without substantially contributing. At the same time they let him do it and it's kind of unfair allow it to get this far. He probably had a reasonable expectation of living with them until he or they died.
I friggin hate this authoritarian shit. And California no less. Sounds like some civil disobedience is called for.
Like what if I want to print a play gun for cosplay? Sorry, you live in a free country. Go buy a real one instead. And worse, someone might want to print a shape very similar to a gun but completely unrelated. Nope.
You know, the really silly thing is, we probably align closely in our political beliefs.
While I would like you to include legitimate sources in your posts, I certainly don't think bickering with you on Lemmy will actually change things, so...yeah, pretty much expected.
I want sources because I use them in arguments against people who support the crap that's happening. So yeah, I'm going to bitch when someone posts something I'm interested in without one, but instead puts the burden on every single reader who also wants to prevent the spread of misinformation.
And no I don't expect someone to give me a subscription to WAPO to verify the article. That's just you throwing around yet more hyperbole. And I'm pretty sure you know the vast majority of lemmings are not going to try to get around a pay wall, just to verify a post that already supports their opinion.
My nephew is in exactly this position. My sister and her husband make plenty of money, they felt emotionally attached, he's diagnosed as ADHD, so he gets a pass on some things. He's 32.
I know millennials hate that older people criticize them and I get it, but every millennial I know is in exactly this position and I don't understand how anyone can hold his head high knowing he essentially can't take care of himself.
On the other hand, I grew up in a different time. I graduated with $9k of debt, not $100k. I devoted decades of my life working to make someone else rich. So who's smarter, me or my nephew?
I mean, if they're ok with him living there, who am I to judge? My only real complaint is that he feels entitled to things he hasn't earned. My sister plays disc golf with me. He played with us briefly. He won't let her use "his" discs. The discs she paid for. He demands to sit in the front seat of the car sometimes, not request it. I'm sorry, but if Mom says she wants the front seat, Mom gets the fucking front seat. Not sure if this is generational or just him. But as a genX, I try to be understanding, because I see how the country has gone, but it can be tough sometimes, because from my perspective, he's getting a 100% free ride and should be friggin grateful.
I think we can infer, based on the fact that a grown ass man is still living with his parents and clearly not helping financially since he has no clue how to get a job.
Welcome to the world we live in now. The US and large swaths of the world are going fascist but I saw a guy on the news yesterday that was knocked down by a buffalo.
I think I fall in the middle of this. I think this kid (and I think he is still a kid) had 38 years to transition to independence. But the same could be said about the parents. Why are they kicking him out now instead of after schooling? Now they are doing this almost cold turkey. Why not tell him he has until his birthday to stay paying rent. Then later impose more restrictions until ultimately sending him on his way.
I'm old so I feel it's ridiculous for a 38 year old to still be living at home without substantially contributing. At the same time they let him do it and it's kind of unfair allow it to get this far. He probably had a reasonable expectation of living with them until he or they died.
Sounds like a coincidence.
/s
Classified areas don't allow phones but classified areas are usually a subset of a company or something that does allow them outside the secure area.
Sure he is...like the Olympics.
It's the friggin power lines that are the real bottleneck. What a stupid fucktard.
I'm so happy for him.
But did I read that right? He's devastated? I thought he'd be happy. He got what he voted for.
I friggin hate this authoritarian shit. And California no less. Sounds like some civil disobedience is called for.
Like what if I want to print a play gun for cosplay? Sorry, you live in a free country. Go buy a real one instead. And worse, someone might want to print a shape very similar to a gun but completely unrelated. Nope.
You know what would be a good win? Charging customers the same rates to power their homes as the operators of this aircraft.
Thank you for that.
Guess Californians need to grab an old printer real quick and hang on to it.
I'm guessing it would cost more then for all the 90 year olds and toddlers to go to college with the rest of America.
You know, the really silly thing is, we probably align closely in our political beliefs.
While I would like you to include legitimate sources in your posts, I certainly don't think bickering with you on Lemmy will actually change things, so...yeah, pretty much expected.
You think 370 million Americans are all going to go to college?
Don't have to actually imagine it.
I want sources because I use them in arguments against people who support the crap that's happening. So yeah, I'm going to bitch when someone posts something I'm interested in without one, but instead puts the burden on every single reader who also wants to prevent the spread of misinformation.
And no I don't expect someone to give me a subscription to WAPO to verify the article. That's just you throwing around yet more hyperbole. And I'm pretty sure you know the vast majority of lemmings are not going to try to get around a pay wall, just to verify a post that already supports their opinion.
Also, get bent!
No disagreement there.
My disagreement is with the meme and anyone who spreads it thinking it's ok to lie to make a point.
And?