A judge has barred Washington from enforcing a state law that would have required Churches to report child abuse. The judge says the law infringed on freedom of religion
https://washingtonstatestandard.com/2025/07/18/judge-blocks-wa-requirement-for-priests-to-report-child-abuse-disclosed-in-confession/
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CatherineLily@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 119 pts · 1y
The fact they would protect abusers just to comply with their faith speaks volumes about their priorities. I mean it's no surprise when they already protect the predators within their ranks, so why not do the same with their followers?
RagingSnarkasm@lemmy.world · 75 pts · 1y
Luigi Mangione’s religion requires that he sacrifice health care executives, but I don’t see any judges standing up for him.
Exusia@lemmy.world · 37 pts · 1y
I dont understand, Luigi is innocent, he was playing Mouse Trap board game with me at the alleged time.
prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 1y
Scotty_Trees@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
RagingSnarkasm@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
My bad, thanks for the correction. I get so confused about some of the Psalms.
Karrion409@lemmy.world · 64 pts · 1y
Ig sexually abusing kids falls under religious freedoms now. What a shithole country
52fighters@lemmy.sdf.org · 11 pts · 1y
More specifically, Washington State (and most other states) have mandated reporter laws regarding child abuse. If your profession is on the list, you are a mandated reporter. Construction workers are an example of people not mandated reporters. If they suspect abuse they should say something but aren't legally mandated. Teachers, nurses, and clergy are examples of mandated reporters. They have to say something. The carve out is if the priest learns the information during a sacramental confession. Outside of the confessional, he still reports. But because people stop going to confession when priests don't have the seal of the confessional, churches maintain that requirement. Child abusers aren't going to confess to someone who will report that confession to the government so it isn't like this law was going to stop any abuse. In fact, more abuse might happen when perverts have no one to turn to when they need someone to deal with their messed up psychology.
misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 1y
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 0 pts · 1y
Well, mandated, until they want to protect a rapist. Then they are protected from having to disclose they exchanged tips with a fellow child rapist.
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 48 pts · 1y
I mean, so if my religion says I can diddle kids and kill republicans, is that legal now?
BoredGamer@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 1y
It's seem that two classes of
peoplepedophiles protected in the country are priests & billionaires.StarryPhoenix97@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 1y
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 10 pts · 1y
They just got a lot less obvious about it over the years. Fewer “compounds” and more “congregations” and “constituents”
StarryPhoenix97@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 1 pts · 1y
I’ve never heard that. Not that it isn’t true….
prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 1y
Dunno if it's New York, but one of our Supreme Court justices is part of a very culty sub-sect of Catholicism. It's Barrett.
NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y
It would seem so.
finitebanjo@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
In the like 40% chance you're actually dumb enough to ask this unironically, no, what this means is if you work a confessional booth as part of your religion and somebody admits to diddling kids and killing republicans in the past tense then you not saying anything about it is legal.
redhat421@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
Not only is it legal to keep quiet, you'll face consequences from your religious institution if you report what you know.
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 1 pts · 1y
I know what it means.
It the law only applies to some people.
finitebanjo@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
It literally doesn't, that's kind of the point of the ruling.
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 0 pts · 1y
The ruling allows churches to ignore child abuse. This ruling was BAD.
finitebanjo@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Okay sure, but why do you have to make false statements in response to the bad ruling? Why do you get upset when people correct you for that?
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 1 pts · 1y
What false statements? I am not upset at all lol.
finitebanjo@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
That its legal to rape and murder, you think thats a factual statement? That catholic priests are gaining special privileges by not facing charges for a law specifically targetting confessionals? You think these are all true?
LodeMike@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 1y
No
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 9 pts · 1y
But Republicans get to do it…
LodeMike@lemmy.today · -8 pts · 1y
Just because someone gets to do it doesn't mean it's legal. This mentality gives justification/defense to these acts.
Specifically, this is about forced reporting of sex abuse against children to authorities, not about the act itself.
womjunru@lemmy.cafe · 8 pts · 1y
Ohhh “rules for thee” got it.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 1y
Legal or illegal is immaterial. Who is punished for it, and who is protected from punishment is what matters.
cley_faye@lemmy.world · 31 pts · 1y
It seems that protecting the children only works to weaken privacy and individual rights, not to actually protect children.
Cris_Color@lemmy.world · 28 pts · 1y
Batshit insane first paragraph. The second is at least some small positive. I don't know that this being overturned actually makes any meaningful difference in practice though though- if people can't say they abused a child in confessional they won't. I guess you might catch some people in the transmission, who didn't learn about the change? That would be a positive. But I think long term people just wouldn't confess to sexual abuses in the confessional anymore
adespoton@lemmy.ca · 24 pts · 1y
I live in a place where clergy are legally required to report already. There’s still a regular stream of people who confess anyway and are then counseled to immediately report to the police as well, as clergy will be reporting within 24 hours.
Some people glaze over when told what the legal responsibilities are, and just go with what they were told from old movies, that confession is inviolate. Odd but true.
Cris_Color@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
Huh... Thanks for sharing your perspective! it sounds like I was wrong
MoonRaven@feddit.nl · 22 pts · 1y
So they just need to classify Epstein as a religious leader?
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 1y
kind of similar on how Christian conservatives push for child/adult marriage, because they believe the only damage of pedophilia is that it is out of wedlock, and it would be better for the child they are sent to live with a rapist and become their servant.
NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 1y
scroll_responsibly@lemmy.sdf.org · 18 pts · 1y
The freedom of religion to do what?
don@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 1y
The freedom to not report cases of child abuse when told in the Catholic confessional.
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y
It's just one of the most outrageous stuff "freedom of religion" is being used for. Liberal democracies all around the world are being dismantled in the name of "freedom of religion" in part, other part in name of money.
Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
stinky@redlemmy.com · 1 pts · 1y
Read the article. Your question is answered in there.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 3 pts · 1y
To protect child rapists.
SaltySalamander@fedia.io · 15 pts · 1y
Religion, ALL religion, is a fucking cancer, the blight of humanity.
stinky@redlemmy.com · -6 pts · 1y
This is a tragically close-minded opinion. You sound hurt and angry. I hope you get well.
SaltySalamander@fedia.io · 8 pts · 1y
It's an opinion born of history. I hope you learn some history at some point.
Notice that I didn't say faith is a cancer. Faith is one thing, religion is a whole other beast. Religion exists for one purpose, the same purpose it has always existed for. Control of the masses. That's it.
stinky@redlemmy.com · -6 pts · 1y
You're backpedaling because you know you're wrong.
Bye!
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 1y
Name one that isn't. Don't worry, I'll wait.
stinky@redlemmy.com · 1 pts · 1y
You won't have to wait long.
You're welcome for the lesson, by the way. Next one is on you, though.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
Jainism is so great, because the induct children into the religion as monks, as a form of slavery...
So, back to finding an example, I guess?
They're also really keen on starving people to death, too... If they think it happens to be a terminal illness.
So, you were saying?
stinky@redlemmy.com · 1 pts · 1y
I concede
Fedizen@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 1y
Standing up for religious freedom...to keep child abuse secret.
PunkRockSportsFan@fanaticus.social · 12 pts · 1y
Perverse judgement from a perverted judge in yet another case of using perverted make believe superstitions as some perverse magical shield to protect perverts from facing justice.
don@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 1y
This can’t be overstated.
redhat421@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Not just about making perverts face justice, it's about helping current and preventing future victims.
whotookkarl@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 12 pts · 1y
https://apnews.com/article/sex-abuse-catholic-church-mormon-5d78129a2fe666159a22ce71323f6da3
Multiple religious organizations established abuse hotlines, which publicly appears to be an effort to address the higher than average child SA criminals within their clergy/employees.
But they are actually getting used to establish a loophole so if they report it to clergy using the hotline they want to use religious protected speech (like confession), or if they report it to a lawyer they want it to be attorney client privilege speech. Then they always have a clergy or lawyer answer the hotline and never report the crime to anyone outside their organization ignoring local laws.
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 1y
A bit of a clickbait title (but only a bit) - the WA law moved to make priests required reporters, professions who are legally required by law to report child abuse. The injunction sought to exempt catholic priests from being required to report child abuse which was reported to them under the 'seal of the confessional' (the special super secret group chat that only exists between you, your priest and god) and after this injunction they are still required reporters in all other instances.
This is... at least a consistent ruling? For example religious leaders can't be held as accomplices if they don't report crimes that were told to them in a ritual setting (oversimplification) or be held liable if they don't forewarn about someone planning suicide or some other crime and then said person goes thru with it. Predictably canon law is rife with examples of breaking the seal of the confession to prevent a suicide, of course, but lets just ignore that.
The rationalization for this is twofold: First freedom of religion from civil regulation. Second and more credibly that it would be allowing unfair weight into criminal proceedings because of the perceived sanctity of the confession and the upstanding character of priests (lol). The argument goes that testimony brought of things revealed in confession is by it's nature hersay, but hersay that would be presented as being devout reporting of an unimpeachable confession, and that could unduly sway juries and in general get really messy so the law just doesn't want to deal with it.
I strongly disagree with this ruling, the catholics get enough special treatment what with not being prosecuted for raping all those children, that's just the background to the arguments being made about it.
redsand@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 1y
The problem as I understand the religion, is the priests are going to do whatever the church(bishop, cardinal, pope) say is correct. Because the reward and punishment are infinite. For the true believers I think the only exception the church officially makes is to prevent a murder?
The new pope should be lobbied to change this but don't get your hopes up.
TheRealKuni@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
Priests are bound to confidentiality for whatever was confessed to them during confession. It’s part of why people confess to them. Priests are then able to encourage people to seek help, talk to the police, etc., but they themselves aren’t supposed to report what is said to them. In a few flavors of Christianity, including Catholicism, confession is considered a sacrament. It’s between the believer, their priest, and their god.
That’s what this ruling is about. Priests are still mandatory reporters for anything they learn outside confession.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
Testifying that someone confessed to a crime is not hearsay. Hearsay is "Person X told me that Person Y did Z".
Testifying to someone confessing to you is exactly what cops do on the stand, when they testify about a confession a perp provided in an interrogation.
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Colloquial use, not legal. It has been years since I had a class on the admission of testimony, and I mostly just made 40k jokes every time someone said 'hearsay' anyways.
teamevil@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 1y
AA5B@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Catholic doctrine is the privacy of the confessional is absolute. Plus there’s an argument that even the worst offender should have a place to unburden and beg forgiveness. Obviously forgiveness doesn’t need to be granted.
teamevil@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
AA5B@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Of course it’s reprehensible, but confidentiality can be what lets them speak up. It’s not a matter of protecting or not protecting the victims, but attempting to encourage the perpetrator to admit their crime and take responsibility, at least to themselves.
anarchy79@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 1y
My religion says I can shoot politicians in the fucking face.
And no, I don't have to pay taxes on that.
Yetanotherpaolo@feddit.nl · 10 pts · 1y
The freedom of religion to continue enabling child rapists.
Perhaps all religion should die along with the cunts in charge.
Birch@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 1y
On a scale of 1 to 10, I wonder how old that judge's last sexual
partnervictim wasPlurrbear@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 1y
Wow! But if I “overheard” part of this “confession” as a “mandated reporter” BY FED LAW (confessionals are NOT SOUND PROOF), I can go to jail if I do not report what I overheard and the government found out I knew… straight to court!
Yet, these fucks get a hall pass to keep fucking with kids “because of religion”, religion doesn’t give you the freedom to fuck with kids but the Catholics would know the most about fucking with kids wouldn’t they?!?! Appalling! Our nation is fucked!
I mean, am I surprised when our “president” is a know pedophile who talked about his own daughter sexually and was besties with Epstein!? WHERE IS THE CLIENT LIST!? We know Drumpf was probs the invite NUMBER 1 and FUNDED it! 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
CharlesDarwin@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 1y
It's weird how one group of people has such a warped idea of what "freedom" means.
There was a really great article about the difference between Northern liberty vs. the Southern notion of "liberty". The Southern is mostly about the "liberty" to rule over others.
BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today · 8 pts · 1y
Over the years, there were numerous lawsuits about the use of certain drugs in a religious context, and they were always shot down in the courts. THIS is where they choose to bend ?
chaogomu@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
But you see, those other religions are pagan. This is a lawsuit brought by Christians.
I really wish that wasn't the justification these judges use.
prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y
I could be mistaken, but aren't there are a handful of religions that have exemptions for religious ceremony? Or is that just Natives?
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
Only indigenous folk, and that's based on the fact that they are a sovereign nation. Rastas will still go right to jail for cannabis use.
Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 1y
Even more evidence that it is far safer to leave your kids with a drag queen (or king) than the clergy.
DetectiveNo64@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 1y
This tracks with the US electing a pedophile.
SabinStargem@lemmy.today · 6 pts · 1y
By that logic, I can live sacrifice MAGATs to a idol of Teddy Roosevelt and be in the clear. This law is fucking stupid.
Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
chiliedogg@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 1y
Looks like this is about confessionals, meaning it's about privilege.
That being said, sexual abuse of a child is usually an exception to privilege for all professionals.
markovs_gun@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y
The actual situation is a lot more nuanced than the headline makes it out to be. The main issue at hand here is the Catholic seal of confession, which has an extremely long history in US law (and in the law in many other countries) as being protected under freedom of religion. Essentially, Catholics are supposed to confess their sins to a priest and be given instructions on how those sins can be forgiven. This practice is extremely old, and crucially, the priest isn't allowed to tell anyone what they were told in confession unless the confessor wants them to. This is for obvious reasons- nobody would confess anything to the priest otherwise. They take this very seriously- Catholic priests essentially believe that breaking the seal of confession is a one way ticket straight to Hell for themselves (actual situation is more complex but that's the short version) and most won't do it even if the law says they have to.
Anyway, the law in question essentially requires priests to break the seal of confession in child sex abuse cases. That seems rational given how many other people are mandated reporters, but because of the long history in US law of respecting the seal of confession and how central this practice is to Catholic doctrine, it's understandable that there is a legal fight about it and why a judge put a pause on it. Regardless of what you may personally believe on this matter, US law depends on precedent and I find it unlikely that even a normal supreme Court that isn't controlled entirely by far right activist judges would let this one stand, if this even made it to the supreme court. The precedent is just very much against it.
Pratai@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 1y
betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
No special protections for child-rape book clubs. Hope that covers the nuances unlike the judge in the headline who is covering for nonces.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
We had a long history in law for the ownership of humans, and how humans can be treated by their owners...
Doesn't make it right, or even constitutional.
If my "strongly held religious beliefs" mean I must kill every fascist I see, am I protected by the first amendment? It's my exercise, and I must be able to exercise it, right?
Or, does the first amendment say the government cannot make laws that target religious folk, either for benefits or persecution?
don@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 1y
The church’s recorded propensity for rampant pedophilia legally demonstrates that they hold noting sacred other than pedophilia and other forms of abuse, making the judge’s ruling (among many other things) invalid. Ignore that idiot, Washington.
MTK@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y
Freedom absolutism is great!
You can't take away my freedom to rape kids!
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org · 3 pts · 1y
Hooray! Abusers get to relieve themselves of the harm they’ve caused while protecting their ability to do it again. What a great country I live in.
FUCK!
NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
The mods in this community are so dumb. Gee, let's protect the child rapists, can't even think about making a comment that implies violence or it gets removed. Don't worry about context, you hear that everyone! Violence is bad ya'll no matter the context, even if someone tries to rape you!
Edit: For the record, when you come to remove this. I was raped as a child, so I have strong feelings about this for good reason. You have personal experience with rape, and you get to have an opinion on it. If you haven't and you think my response is over the top, then you can go fuck yourself. My entire life was ruined bcz of some asshole who wanted to diddle a fucking little kid.
uawarebrah@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 1y
I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s indefensible, as is stopping this from becoming law. What a disgusting organization the GOP is. Openly protecting pedophiles. Once again, the children are the ones who will suffer the most.
Pratai@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world · -2 pts · 1y
Pratai@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
njm1314@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Y'all
crandlecan@mander.xyz · 3 pts · 1y
We're just thinking of the kids! Jeez!! Is that so hard to understand?? 😑
LordCrom@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
Let's get this straight.
Psychiatrist are required to break doctor patient confidentiality if patient is a threat, right and report it.
Lawyers must report crimes to law enforcement, breaking confidentiality too.
But priests are 'sprcial' in the magic, secret telling closets?
homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
Cruelty is the point. Innit.
svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y
I'm not a legal professional (merely an ill-informed amateur), and especially not an American one, but it seems to me like the judge's order makes a pretty convincing argument that the injunction is legally warranted.
Maybe we might consider that federal law might be the problem before we rush to accuse the judge personally of being a nonce?
KarlHungus42@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
republicans have proven time and time again that they love children....in absolute most inappropriate way.
Brutticus@midwest.social · 2 pts · 1y
We wont be free of groomers until we lock up every single pastor, priest, and every other Christian clergy in this country.
teamevil@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 1y
If you require priests to report what they hear in confession the only thing you accomplish is people stop going to confession. Furthermore, turning yourself in is generally part of your penance anyway.
Sonicdemon86@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 1y
A lot of other professions have mandated reporting. That is like saying because a therapist have to turn in their client, since they are mandated reporters, then there would be less people getting therapy.
ryven@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 1y
I don't think therapists should be turning in their clients, either. Criminals deserve effective therapy as much as anyone else.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
They can get therapy, while also facing a judicial system.
yeather@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 1y
It’s better to think of a Priest like a Lawyer. Attorney-Client privilege means the Lawyer cannot divulge information to police, same with a Priest during confessions.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 1y
A priest isn't there to defend you in court room. THAT'S why lawyers have client privilege, not to protect rapists, but to be able to mount a legal defense.
yeather@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 1y
A priest can save you from damnation and interprets divine law like how a lawyer can save you from prison and interprets mortal law.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 0 pts · 1y
Well, we have evidence that a lawyer can do what you claim, and none that a priest can...
Which is a non-issue anyways. Iron age mythology (Not bronze aged, as I was corrected) has no place in the laws governing a secular society.
Sonicdemon86@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Even a lawyer has to report child sexual abuse, and in places that they don't it is still a may report instead of have to. They are also dealing with laws while priests are not dealing with laws. In almost all states anyone who deals with or takes care of a child are mandated reporters. Basically yes, lawyers are also mandated reporters in most states.
yeather@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 1y
https://dcyf.wa.gov/safety/mandated-reporter
Washington’s list of mandatory reporters, lawyer is not on there.
https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/attorney-client_privilege
Attorney client privilege only faulters when you disclose you plan to continue committing a crime or are planning on commiting one. Or in some cases where a protective order or custody order is violated and only the lawyer and client are privileged to the child’s whereabouts. https://www.casemine.com/judgement/us/5914c52eadd7b049347d2545
What you tell a lawyer is confidential bar some rare exceptions. If you attain a lawyer and tell them you have commited the crime of child abuse they do not have to report unless you divulge a plan to continue abusing children. When you attain a priest during confession, you also have this confidentiality.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
Only to protect rapists from the law, though.
yeather@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 1y
Or any other crime. Confess you murdered a man and the priest is bound by confession.
Olhonestjim@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
And the priest has no right to claim such a privilege.
Olhonestjim@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
If you hire a defense lawyer and confess to them you killed someone, that is protected by attorney client privilege. If you hire a lawyer and confess your intention to kill someone, they are complicit if they don't report it to the authorities, just like anyone else.
The duties of a priest have nothing in common with a lawyer under the legal system.
yeather@lemmy.ca · 0 pts · 1y
The duties of a priest deal with divine law, and are acting closer to a lawyer than you may think.
Olhonestjim@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
You're not going to heaven.
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 1y
I don't care about penance, I don’t care about confession, and I don’t give a fuck about religion, I care about pedophiles facing justice.
Olhonestjim@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
And what good does going to confession accomplish?
SkyezOpen@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 1y
Makes you feel better about being a piece of shit.
yeather@lemmy.ca · -4 pts · 1y
It allows the church to absolve your sins. The Priests are acting as representatives of God, and cannot tell anyone of anything during confession.
SkyezOpen@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 1y
So God himself molested all those children? Well that's not very cool of him.
njm1314@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y
He's a real bastard
Olhonestjim@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
And as I said, what good does that accomplish?
Why should the government make allowances and set up privileges for grownups playing make-believe in order to get away with crimes?
yeather@lemmy.ca · -1 pts · 1y
It’s quite literally saving your soul from eternal damnation if you follow the religion. Just because you don’t believe in the religious practices doesn’t mean the experience is any less valid.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 1y
Except, it's just bronze age mythology... Which has no place in the law.
yeather@lemmy.ca · 0 pts · 1y
Iron Age actually, and because you don’t believe it doesn’t make it any less real for believers.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 0 pts · 1y
Anyone can believe whatever mythology they enjoy. That doesn't mean we need to codify their beliefs into law as a way of protecting criminals.
Olhonestjim@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
So pure selfishness then. An abortion of justice for the victim. The deliberate disregard for fixing societal problems. It only benefits the person who committed the crime by allowing them to get off scot-free. You think it's a good thing for pedophiles to avoid justice, it's good that they get to go to heaven -- just so long as they appeal to your god. Obviously it's better than the secular state prosecuting them for their crimes. You think that's how things should be.
It sounds like you don't understand what good works even are.
I'll bet you don't even wonder how so many pedophiles found protection from their crimes and limitless opportunities to molest more victims simply by hiding within the authority of your church, for literally over a thousand years. And you believe them when they claim to hold the keys to eternal paradise. Where is your god?
The church is not a higher authority than the democratic state. I know you think it's the other way around, but we have 2000 years of church-blessed genocide, torture, child-r*pe, the conquering and plundering of weaker civilizations, slavery, and corruption that proves definitively that the church must never be entrusted with power. We called the worst of it The Dark Ages for good reasons. The church is subject to the Will of The People, because the church was always lying when they claimed to speak for god. It was never anything more than a ploy for greedy old men to acquire land, gold, and virgins, and of course, to murder anyone who inconvenienced them. Same as always.
Jesus would be disgusted. The church has never followed him.
yeather@lemmy.ca · 0 pts · 1y
Catholics actually believe in Purgatory, where the priest saves your soul from damnation to Hell, you are still divinely punished before you enter Heaven. That is unless you get the apostolic pardon and sacrament of penance.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+9%3A1-8%2CMark+2%3A1-12&version=GW
Jesus absolves people of sins and gives men the ability to do so. Your disbelief in the ability does not influence the believers. If you have an issue with it you can always rant with the Unitarian Universalists.
Olhonestjim@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
I'm sure you thought that was relevant.
njm1314@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
Yeah Catholic church is so big on telling pedophiles turn themselves in that's that's what history shows.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
Sounds like an overall net benefit then?
Kage520@lemmy.world · -5 pts · 1y
Okay. I definitely get where everyone is coming from here. We all want to protect kids. I'm not sure this ruling is in the wrong though.
Here's why. We demonize pedophilia to the point that people would kill someone that is attracted to children. I'm making a specific point here to NOT include child molesters. That's a separate but very related issue. If we took the time to address the mental health issues that caused them to be attracted to children in the first place (eg, molested as children themselves, some other issue that therapy could address, etc), maybe we could stop them from going so far with their problem and actually save kids before they were abused.
Since they really don't have anyone to talk to ever, maybe a priest could curb their behavior and act as a counselor to stop further abuse of children. If left unaddressed, maybe the molester would continue with many more victims, and the priest could stop them at 1. But if they no longer felt they could talk to a priest, then they continue.
Basically, as a country we should be doing MUCH better to stop pedophiles from dealing with their issues alone and help prevent them from actually molesting children. Failing that (since we are failing that), why are we trying to take away the next level of therapy for them? It makes no sense to continue to push them into a lonely corner and expect them to do differently. If the priests' silence allows them to keep the molester from touching more kids, that's a much better outcome overall.
Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de · 11 pts · 1y
The law suppose to make them report child abuse, real one, that happened already. You can talk with your magic provider about how much you want to diddle kids, and he still can do 3% of what real therapist should be doing, if you want. The law was supposed to catch those who already diddle kids. Which nobody should be doing, no matter how much they want to.
Kage520@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
These aggressive methods are not working. We need to provide better mental Healthcare for all people. These aggressive methods will lead to more child victims, not less. It's unacceptable that people are putting their own disgust over the wellbeing of children.
Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 pts · 1y
There's better places to begin fixing mental health infrastructure than nixing mandatory abuse reporting
Bytemeister@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y
How much mental health care would have fixed Epstein?
Also, mandating that religious orgs report it is not the same as punishing people for uncontrolled urges. Once the person is reported, they can get help. If it's not reported, they then will keep abusing children until the are caught by someone else.
Freedom of religion is not freedom to protect pedophiles.
Kage520@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
That's a good point. I would be in favor of this if it was a gateway to better therapy and not as a way to punish them. Self reporting should not be punished. Definitely agree that priests should not be the ones doing all the counseling. Just making the point that they currently don't have any options and this might be currently helping.
forrgott@lemmy.sdf.org · 2 pts · 1y
Gateway to punish abuse that had already happened.
You keep completely ignoring the fact that this law was not about reporting urges, it was about reporting abuse. You are defending predators who have already abused a victim. Which is disgusting.
Kage520@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
Yeah it's not a great thing. It's kind of like letting a local drug dealer off Scott free because he helped take down a drug ring. It's protecting a larger number of children at the expense of not punishing the guy who self reported and tried to get help. Doesn't feel great but should protect more children overall.
Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 1y
It's not. What. The. Law. Is. About.
Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 1y
I want to remind you once again, that you are defending actual child abusers. Not just people who have some fucked up desires and not act on them, but actual childfuckers. You are saying that people who already fucked kids should be shielded from law by religion because some other people also want to fuck kids but don't do that.
Kage520@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
You're missing the point. I'm not defending them. Their actions are abhorrent andtheir victims deserve justice. I'm suggesting if we act aggressively towards these self reporters, you will actually INCREASE the number of molested children by disuading future self reporting from others.
I'm trying to decrease the number of victims. I don't know how to give the victims justice, but decreasing future victims is paramount.
Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 1y
And you're missing the point of what we're talking about. Right now, the law allows active child molesters to execute well known religious loophole, where they "confess" their crimes to an unaccounted guy from religious organisation, and this act makes the crime nonexistent according to their proposed worldview. What it actually does, is that it clears the guilt from the perpetrator, allowing him to continue his acts. Knowing history of Catholic church, if it does anything is that it allows child molesters to exchange experiences and tips for future crimes.
Removing all oversight from this process increases the amount of crime going on, and that's what you're advocating for.
The point of letting people who didn't act on their urges to get psychological help they need to continue not act on it, is obviously correct opinion you have. It's just it doesn't apply here.
Kage520@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
We might have to agree to disagree. Happily we agree that the kids are the most important thing here. I think if we had a solid counseling setup for people this would be an obvious thing, and you are correct that it should be a mandatory reporting. Until we do, I'm seeing this more as a free version of mental Healthcare which I don't think should be impeded.
Yes, we need better.
Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 1y
This is the only point of this conversation, you agree with it, and yet you continue arguing with the point that you agree on.
Priests don't do mental health counseling, even if they try, and when they try they bring harm where help should be, but even if they did help, this law, that we all arguing for, would've not impede with this, it only required mandatory reporting of instances of child abuse.
Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 1y
stinky@redlemmy.com · 5 pts · 1y
Good point here: as a country we should be doing MUCH better to stop pedophiles from dealing with their issues
Just throwing the book at people who hurt kids isn't working. Kids are still getting hurt every day. There's far, far more pedophiles in our society than anyone realizes. The reason they're not getting help is because everyone says, "instantly to jail for life" instead of trying to figure out where the problem comes from. They stay in hiding, hurting people in secret because there is no support for them anywhere.
MiddleAgesModem@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y
Question - do we know this is the case? Or is it like other sexual affinities, like S&M or fetishism?
stinky@redlemmy.com · 3 pts · 1y
I agree with this: We demonize pedophilia to the point that people would kill someone that is attracted to children.
Most people would make it illegal to have that attraction. It's a slippery slope and I guarantee same-sex attraction would be next.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 1y
How is that even in the same ballpark?
It's like saying it's a slippery slope form killing nazis to killing socialists...
Petter1@discuss.tchncs.de · 3 pts · 1y
Depending on your body count.
If you killed enough people, changes are very high, that you killed a socialist out of a misunderstanding or accident 🤓☝🏻
stinky@redlemmy.com · 2 pts · 1y
Because if it's possible to criminalize attraction, someone will use that to criminalize attractions that they don't like. Homosexuality would be a crime in the same year.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 1y
Except this is attraction to non-consenting humans, not an attraction to consenting humans.
dhork@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
The issue isn't with therapy, or talking. The issue is what priests will do when they have evidence that a crime has occured.
I have enough of a Catholic background to know that confession isn't a "Get Out Of Hell Free" card. You are supposed to be repentant, and part of that is owning up to any crime you might have committed and turning yourself in. Because of you are confessing a crime to your priest, they can't really be sure that you are truly repentant until you make good for your transgression with the legal authorities.
But! Catholic priests have been caught diddling kids for years, and when the church found out about it, they preferred to deal with it "internally". Instead of submitting the priests to secular authorities, they shuffled them off to some other parish to try to be repentant there. Often times, they just ended up doing it again. Where was the Catholic Church's deeply held beliefs then?
This is why there is so much hostility with the church right now, they can act all sanctimonious when someone tries to impose reporting requirements on them but we know that they have covered shit like this up in the past. Any goodwill they might have had being religious leaders is now depleted. Why shouldn't we treat them like everyone else?
stinky@redlemmy.com · 1 pts · 1y
I would argue that the ruling is correct. Child abuse should always be reported. But it shouldn't lead instantly to jail. It should lead instantly to therapy, support, counseling and a plan of action which protects the person and the children in their life from harm.
Kage520@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
Yes I hadn't considered the reporting could be protected and not lead directly to jail. You are correct this should be the way. We just need to have a program set up to accept them.
stinky@redlemmy.com · 2 pts · 1y
It's a huge relief to talk to someone who gets it.
We have 130 billion dollars available to give to law enforcement. 800 billion to defense. And not a dollar to treatment and counseling for people with potentially harmful attractions? It doesn't make sense. The first step should be discussion of the problem and potential solutions. I'd like to see research done into the attraction, find out if there are environmental causes (ie. preventable ones), treatment for people with the attraction (can it be replaced? is there a non-harmful maintenance that makes it tolerable without relapse?), and justice for the victims & families that includes more than revenge.
ubergeek@lemmy.today · 0 pts · 1y
I think that's rather naive... A priest is far more likely to just get some tips on how to rape kids.
ameancow@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 1y
Kage520@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Let's rephrase. Think of talking to a priest in this case a really poor level of free mental Healthcare. You think the best response is to take that away? I'm all for that if it's replaced with something better. If we aren't doing that though, then sure, you'd catch a few molesters when it is first announced. Then the other molesters stop talking to their last resort free counseling. And they continue to mess with children.
The entire issue could be solved with better mental Healthcare in the first place. I like the comments that suggested priests be required to refer these people to a program designed for them. Not straight to jail, but straight to better help so they'd top touching kids, and others will still come through and benefit as well.
MiddleAgesModem@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
For the love of fuck, can we stop blaming literally everything on capitalism? These issues long predate capitalism.
redhat421@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
How about calling out mental health care for profit?
ameancow@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
ameancow@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y