I keep seeing posts pop up that I relate to, then I look down and it's from an ADHD community. Either these are experiences everyone has... Or I have undiagnosed ADHD
A lot of ADHD symptoms are common in neurotypical people too. The main difference I’ve been told is the frequency of occurrence and impact on quality of life.
A neurotypical person may have this same thing occur, maybe even frequently, but it’s not a constant factor in every facet of their life that causes them problems and eventual distress.
They are memes, they want to express that "do you also know that feeling when..." feeling. The more people can relate, the more up votes it gets. This meme community does not aim at being medically correct. That's at least my guess, I feel the same as you.
Getting good mental health is difficult, at least in the country I live in. It took me about 15 years to get an ADHD diagnosis, because for most of my life I've had lousy health insurance and I couldn't afford to see a good therapist or psychiatrist.
I did when I learnt reading. Of course I moved my finger a lot faster, since I thought the other kids would say "wow, you read fast" instead of "you're just pretending to read". Anyway, by doing that, you can actually learn to read really fast. So now you have to go back a page instead of a sentence.
I find a bookmark much easier to use for this purpose, since it also blocks the text below it and gives me a clear visual line to follow across the page.
Neurotypicals have difficulty with mindfulness; for folks with ADHD, it's extremely difficult. You have to sit still and do nothing for an extended period of time, which is a pretty heavy lift for somebody with an attention deficit.
But it does help, yes.
One method that I've had success with is to work my way up. I do meditation for 1 minute; the next day 2, then 3, until I get to 20, and then I try to stay there. That's because the most important part is building the habit. Also, doing short sprints frequently is more effective than doing a marathon. 5 minutes a day for 12 days is better than 60 minutes in one day.
Gotta push through it. Most people only retain like 80% of what they read anyway, sometimes it takes my eyes a little while to wake up to what im making them do. Sometimes it takes a page but its better to find your groove after struggling, rather than getting stressed out because you can't process every word right away.
Reading is a skill that takes practice.
Everyone's struggles are different though, but that's my experience
21 Comments
Nester@feddit.uk · 29 pts · 364d
I keep seeing posts pop up that I relate to, then I look down and it's from an ADHD community. Either these are experiences everyone has... Or I have undiagnosed ADHD
FRYD@sh.itjust.works · 26 pts · 364d
A lot of ADHD symptoms are common in neurotypical people too. The main difference I’ve been told is the frequency of occurrence and impact on quality of life.
A neurotypical person may have this same thing occur, maybe even frequently, but it’s not a constant factor in every facet of their life that causes them problems and eventual distress.
Nester@feddit.uk · 9 pts · 364d
Ah ok, that makes a lot of sense.
Thank you for taking the time to construct such a helpful comment.
zarkanian@sh.itjust.works · 14 pts · 364d
The best response I heard to this is "Everybody pees, too, but if you're doing it 60 times a day, then you have a problem".
gigachad@piefed.social · 5 pts · 364d
They are memes, they want to express that "do you also know that feeling when..." feeling. The more people can relate, the more up votes it gets. This meme community does not aim at being medically correct. That's at least my guess, I feel the same as you.
monkeyman512@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 364d
Spend some time learning about ADHD. Maybe you will understand yourself better, but if not you will at least understand other people better.
Xanthrax@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 364d
Did you copy me? Lmao we came to the same conclusion.
Jarix@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 364d
I'm in that same boat
Ghoelian@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 364d
It never hurts to get checked out (unless you live somewhere where that could bankrupt you)
zarkanian@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 364d
Getting good mental health is difficult, at least in the country I live in. It took me about 15 years to get an ADHD diagnosis, because for most of my life I've had lousy health insurance and I couldn't afford to see a good therapist or psychiatrist.
blackn1ght@feddit.uk · 1 pts · 364d
Same lol. I do this so much.
lka1988@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 14 pts · 364d
Xanthrax@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 364d
Don't feel bad if you have to use your finger. Put your finger on the page, and follow your finger. That helped me.
zout@fedia.io · 4 pts · 364d
I did when I learnt reading. Of course I moved my finger a lot faster, since I thought the other kids would say "wow, you read fast" instead of "you're just pretending to read". Anyway, by doing that, you can actually learn to read really fast. So now you have to go back a page instead of a sentence.
Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 364d
I find a bookmark much easier to use for this purpose, since it also blocks the text below it and gives me a clear visual line to follow across the page.
Xanthrax@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 364d
That works too!
pilferjinx@piefed.social · 3 pts · 364d
How are people with ADHD with sitting meditation? For me, it tremendously helps with concentration in all other aspects of life.
zarkanian@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 364d
Neurotypicals have difficulty with mindfulness; for folks with ADHD, it's extremely difficult. You have to sit still and do nothing for an extended period of time, which is a pretty heavy lift for somebody with an attention deficit. But it does help, yes.
One method that I've had success with is to work my way up. I do meditation for 1 minute; the next day 2, then 3, until I get to 20, and then I try to stay there. That's because the most important part is building the habit. Also, doing short sprints frequently is more effective than doing a marathon. 5 minutes a day for 12 days is better than 60 minutes in one day.
Juice@midwest.social · 2 pts · 364d
Gotta push through it. Most people only retain like 80% of what they read anyway, sometimes it takes my eyes a little while to wake up to what im making them do. Sometimes it takes a page but its better to find your groove after struggling, rather than getting stressed out because you can't process every word right away.
Reading is a skill that takes practice.
Everyone's struggles are different though, but that's my experience
PartyAt15thAndSummit@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 364d
More like 0.80% for me.
danc4498@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 364d
It’s the books problem, not mine... Yeah, the author sucks, not me!